my hubby is having a hard day

[Dr. A ♥ O 203]

Besides all the suggests I hope things get better.

[Martiniolive 0]

I took a peek at your timeline...do you plan on going to Morocco this summer?

I was hoping to go back for the last week in Ramadan.. .... but haven't made plans yet. We really need to start planning something as a way to look forward to being together with a set date.... and please.. peak away we had a touch june 16th but i think it was linking the two together...i recieved my NAO1 for the I129F the same day.

Wow I am jealous! ....

[Martiniolive 0]

I took a peek at your timeline...do you plan on going to Morocco this summer?

I was hoping to go back for the last week in Ramadan.. .... but haven't made plans yet. We really need to start planning something as a way to look forward to being together with a set date.... and please.. peak away we had a touch june 16th but i think it was linking the two together...i recieved my NAO1 for the I129F the same day.

OK I think I married the wrong guy! I would be all over this stuff! How SWEET!!!!!

[sarahaziz 0]

It's hokey, but tell him to go outside and look at the moon, then you go outside and look at the moon (if time zones allow this), and tell him you are both together right now, looking at the same moon, connected in your thoughts and your heart, even though your bodies are apart. As I said, it is hokey but surprisingly, it really does seem to work. Somehow you don't seem so far apart knowing you are both looking at the same object in the sky at the same time. Feeling that link of connection helps make you feel closer. You may not be able to change your circumstances right now, but you can change how you feel about them. Hope this helps. Another thing that helped was just 'thinking forward' to a year from right now and knowing that all of what you are experiencing right now is over and done with and in the past and you have already dealt with it and that you made it:-). (Sometimes the only thing that keeps you from sliding off that rope is the knot tied on the end of it!).

OMG! I do this too! Look at the moon! It really is a cool thing when your time zones alow it. Especially when its a huge full moon.

I remember him telling me to go outside and do that that's so sweet

[sarahaziz 0]

Almost everyone who goes thru the immigration process would do it again for their spouse if they had to because it really brings you together and makes you appreciate your spouse so much more than to just call a divorce when you have fights. You put so much time, work, communication in the marriage basically you proved your love for your spouse to wait so long thru the hard times. They proved the love too. I never take my babe for granted because we were at some real nasty points apart that I don't think we would make it thru but we did. The negativity is just a cover for the saddness in ones heart. I think you can say it's a blessing in disguise.

[nunyab 0]

I took a peek at your timeline...do you plan on going to Morocco this summer?

I was hoping to go back for the last week in Ramadan.. .... but haven't made plans yet. We really need to start planning something as a way to look forward to being together with a set date.... and please.. peak away we had a touch june 16th but i think it was linking the two together...i recieved my NAO1 for the I129F the same day.

OK I think I married the wrong guy! I would be all over this stuff! How SWEET!!!!!

Yes mashallah my husband is a sweety and I miss him and we'll be together soon insha'allah.... we are planning a trip to Paris I think to visit his uncle.. so now that we are planning something it seems to make things better for us. we don't have a plane ticket but knowing it's a possiblitie helps

Almost everyone who goes thru the immigration process would do it again for their spouse if they had to because it really brings you together and makes you appreciate your spouse so much more than to just call a divorce when you have fights. You put so much time, work, communication in the marriage basically you proved your love for your spouse to wait so long thru the hard times. They proved the love too. I never take my babe for granted because we were at some real nasty points apart that I don't think we would make it thru but we did. The negativity is just a cover for the saddness in ones heart. I think you can say it's a blessing in disguise.

I think this is all a great way to learn the communication process thru immergration. I think it forces us to do this and in the end yes I agree much better in the end

[nunyab 0]

We made it past the day now his computer has a virus