I've Been Duped!

[WestmorelandLove 0]

Good morning,

Jomo's Girl, himher, Boaz, and Beautiful years - I posted an update "What Happens".

Basically - my divorce was finalized on September 11, 2008. My ex is still here in the states - calling me wanting me to forgive him and take him back (not).

The affividat of support was cancelled which like pushbrk had stated it killed the processing of his I485 - AOS. When they cancelled the affividat they sent a cancellation notice - and with it being in his name it was sent to his address to where he had relocated.

He called and was yelling why did you cancel my affidavit, blah, blah, blah. I told him I'm not your wife - we are divorced and you need to complete that process yourself. So he hung up - I figure he tried to complete the paperwork and when it came to needing the sponsor's taxes, employment letter (from sponsor's job) - he called my attorney and told her that I had his immigration paperwork. I told her no ma'am - the taxes are mine and he definitely would not be receiving a letter from my employer concerning my employment.

As far as myself - I doing great. I just received a really great promotion on my job. Despite all that he took me through - he tried to break me and he thought I would fall and crumble - but just like the song says "I Will Survive".

Thanks for checking in on me,

Pam

Edited November 7, 2008 by WestmorelandLove

[forchika 4]

Glad you are able to move on....congrats on the new job promotion, sending my well wishes for continued success!!!!!

[maliciant 7]

Practically a happy ending, at least by this forums standards.

[sasha414 0]

great to know youre moving on. as the saying goes " when a door closes, another bigger window opens". congratulations on your promotion and the best of luck!

[Beautiful_years 0]

Good morning,

Jomo's Girl, himher, Boaz, and Beautiful years - I posted an update "What Happens".

Basically - my divorce was finalized on September 11, 2008. My ex is still here in the states - calling me wanting me to forgive him and take him back (not).

The affividat of support was cancelled which like pushbrk had stated it killed the processing of his I485 - AOS. When they cancelled the affividat they sent a cancellation notice - and with it being in his name it was sent to his address to where he had relocated.

He called and was yelling why did you cancel my affidavit, blah, blah, blah. I told him I'm not your wife - we are divorced and you need to complete that process yourself. So he hung up - I figure he tried to complete the paperwork and when it came to needing the sponsor's taxes, employment letter (from sponsor's job) - he called my attorney and told her that I had his immigration paperwork. I told her no ma'am - the taxes are mine and he definitely would not be receiving a letter from my employer concerning my employment.

As far as myself - I doing great. I just received a really great promotion on my job. Despite all that he took me through - he tried to break me and he thought I would fall and crumble - but just like the song says "I Will Survive".

Thanks for checking in on me,

Pam

Oh now go... walk out the door, dont turn around now cos you're not welcome anymore.....

I love that song and the fact that you are feeling good.... who's laughing now? and congratulations on the promotion... more $$$ to your bank account!!!

i surely would like to hear your imput on this.......

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...=160943&hl=

Edited November 8, 2008 by Beautiful_years