I've Been Duped!

[WestmorelandLove 0]

So sorry to hear your story, but thank you for having the courage to share. I think it is more important to share the good, the bad, and the ugly.

Be very careful of his games. He might be trying to get you for abuse, which will give him automatic residential status. I know there are several post in regards to this.

Every journey will happen for a reason. He will never find true happiness in America for the simple reason of what he has done to get here. Use this fact to keep you strong and focused on you and not him. Let God handle him, while you handle you.

Take care & God Bless

Mr. Jibowu

This is my story - I meet my SO July 2006 and we corresponded and in August 2007 he proposed. We got married February 2008. My husband is from Jamaica and once he got here he explained to me that he didn't expect me to have as much as did (home and two cars)

It took a couple of months before his work permit was processed so therefore I was providing and paying all bills - without complaint because that's what you do when you're married. But now he has two jobs and figures since I'm his sponsor he doesn't have to pay any bills. So I have file for divorce which here in Texas it takes 60 days to be final.

The straw that broke my back - my husband told me yeserday that he was setting me free and that he was going to do what he had to do - and he was leaving. Then last night a police escorts him to our home - and I was thinking so that he could get his things and go - oh but no. He told the officer that I signed a affidavit of support and that he wasn't going anywhere. The officer told me to contact my attorney and see if I could get a restraining order. He was threatening to go and he was going to set me free - but now he decided he will stay put and cause havoc on health.

20/20 hindsight - too late. I too had red flags but just gave them the old "it's just a culture difference" once he starts adjusting things will be better. And CSC hasn't completed the conditional green card yet - is there any chance I could stop them from completed that process?

AMEN

I thank each and everyone for the advice and support. This too shall pass. My breakthrough is here - today in Jesus name.

Thanks for your advice and support.

[WestmorelandLove 0]

Sorry, I missed that you filed.

I would call, e-mail, and write everyone I could think of till I stopped his AOS. It looks like a pretty clear cut case of visa fraud since it's happening so soon.

Maybe visit your local office and talk to someone face to face.

My local office is in San Antonio - I trying to get a human on the line to see if it's possible to stop his AOS. Do you have an email address or phone number other than 1-800-375-5283?

[john_and_marlene 162]

You can withdraw your Affidavit of Support any time before the approval and it will kill the adjustment of status.

[WestmorelandLove 0]

You can withdraw your Affidavit of Support any time before the approval and it will kill the adjustment of status.

Who do I contact about withdrawing the Affidavit of Support?

[john_and_marlene 162]

You can withdraw your Affidavit of Support any time before the approval and it will kill the adjustment of status.

Who do I contact about withdrawing the Affidavit of Support?

I would make an Infopass Appt.

[desert_fox 32]

Some people was given green card without AOS interview. How about notifying the service center about you filing for divorce?

maybe remove conditions without an interview, but for th4e initial AOS an interview is required.

No marriage, no AOS.

Not necessarily. We were approved without interview.

damn...I didnt know that was possible...guess I dont follow the AOS threads.

You can withdraw your Affidavit of Support any time before the approval and it will kill the adjustment of status.

Who do I contact about withdrawing the Affidavit of Support?

Send a letter (notorized) to the service center that is processing the AOS application.

[Ta Ta 1]

Put it in writing, sign it AND make an infopass appointment.

Restraining order against him would be good in case he will play the abuse card.

[WestmorelandLove 0]

I finally got a human from the NCSC and the representative told me I would need to request in writing to cancel the AOS. She told me to mail two letters one to the National Benefits Center and my local USCIS office. I'm all on it at this moment. She said seeing that it in the pending phase it a good possiblity that it will be cancelled.

I see God working on this situation already. Lift me up in your prayers.

[Kathryn41 3,205]

Good luck with this - I was going to suggest as well that since the AOS hasn't been approved you can still withdraw the affidavit of support and that will guarantee the AOS will be denied, as well as getting you off the hook financially. Fortunately, you have already received that advice. Good luck with everything - and I am very sorry that this has happened. It is sad when a relationship you worked so hard to make happen fails, and doubly so when you realize you were the only one treating it seriously.

[jom 4]

I finally got a human from the NCSC and the representative told me I would need to request in writing to cancel the AOS. She told me to mail two letters one to the National Benefits Center and my local USCIS office. I'm all on it at this moment. She said seeing that it in the pending phase it a good possiblity that it will be cancelled.

I see God working on this situation already. Lift me up in your prayers.

Sorry to hear about this. At least you are now on the right direction and have high hopes that the AOS process will be cancelled. Send him back where he belongs and move on. You deserve better.

We are praying for you .

[morocco4ever 63]

This really ticks me off when someone plays with a persons heart for a green card. One benefit, he doesn't sound like he is the smartest fella. If he was he would have held out to have the approval.

Please keep us up to date. I would love to see that one more visa fraud is stopped dead in its tracks.

{{hugs}}

[*JG* 2]

This really ticks me off when someone plays with a persons heart for a green card. One benefit, he doesn't sound like he is the smartest fella. If he was he would have held out to have the approval.

Please keep us up to date. I would love to see that one more visa fraud is stopped dead in its tracks.

{{hugs}}

Yes, I agree. But, I bet he thinks he is the smartest fella.

One word of advice, West.....do not fall for any quick apologies once he figures out that he should've waited for approval. You know the sweet words are coming.

[candyland 0]

i agree so much with the step that you are taking, this man wanted his paper and not your love and effort in all that CR1/IR1 process. jom i totally agree with you send him back to where he belong, these are the type of people who add to the backlog and cause the delay in the processing of others. more braveheart should be there like you westmorelandlove.

[Ivy. 113]

I'm so sorry to hear about this. I'd follow Jomo's girl advice on this, do everything you can to stop him and protect yourself.

Good luck to you and stay strong.

[StoneLove4Ever 0]

I am so sorry to hear this westmorelandlove...i read your signature story and your relationship felt so sincere to me...what "red flags" did you start noticing if you don't mind me asking...I love my husband dearly and I could honestly swear that our relationship is genuine but sometimes seeing this gives you your doubts which is sad but true...