Has your S.O physically abused you?

[2ond journey 0]

I know this may be an odd question to ask. I was talking to a woman about a year ago on here and she told me that she went to visit her boyfriend in his country and he twisted her _____ in an argument. When she returned home she got x-rays of her ____ and it showed that she had a hairline fracture. Anyway, she told me that it was her fault for getting him upset and apologized. I couldn't believe my ears. She said she would still petitioned for him for he did not mean to do what he did. I am wondering now if there is anybody that has the same issues as this person did and is still willing to go on with this process. Just very curious.

[crazyinEgypt 0]

I'll never in my life understand why the hell woman stay with men that abuse them! That goes for men who stay with abusive women as well! My ex did hit me once. Got it? Once and I was out of there. People that go back are just asking for it to happen to them again because the abuse will not stop. And to go across the world for this abuse? That just blows my mind. He abused her in his country you can count on him abusing her in her country too.

[Nagishkaw 510]

She's nuts!

[2ond journey 0]

Well she had so much low self esteem and maybe she put so much into the relationship that she thought that it really wouldn't happen again. I never heard from her again and don't know the outcome of the relationship but I often think of her and what happened.

I also went to another country and met a (supposively) nice man and I got him upset about something and he threw the remote across the room. Didn't lay a hand on me but I thought to myself if he gets this upset at my first visit what will happen if I continue with this relationship. I broke up with him later.

[DakotaK1 1]

If my husband would of touched me bad in any way then I would of broke up with him end of the story.

[2ond journey 0]

If my husband would of touched me bad in any way then I would of broke up with him end of the story.

Sad to say but some woman don't think like that

[Kazan' Tiger 1]

Certainly not!

[john & jean 37]

YES, THE LAST TIME WE WERE TOGETHER, SHE ALMOST SEXED ME TO DEATH!!!!

DAYUMN WHAT A WAY TO GO...

[sara..... 371]

i have never been physically abused but i have watched my sis go thru it for many years..........if perviz did something like that would be the only time cuz i would be gone married or not.........when that fine boundary line is crossed they never stop.....if u forgive them once it happens again and again.........also there is not just physical abuse there is also mental abuse sometimes i wonder if that is not worse than the physical.....

[2ond journey 0]

YES, THE LAST TIME WE WERE TOGETHER, SHE ALMOST SEXED ME TO DEATH!!!!

DAYUMN WHAT A WAY TO GO...

OH #### dude you could of spent alot less and paid a prostitute to sex you death.

[DakotaK1 1]

Sad to say but some woman don't think like that

Very true

[brnidokiegurl 0]

I know this may be an odd question to ask. I was talking to a woman about a year ago on here and she told me that she went to visit her boyfriend in his country and he twisted her _____ in an argument. When she returned home she got x-rays of her ____ and it showed that she had a hairline fracture. Anyway, she told me that it was her fault for getting him upset and apologized. I couldn't believe my ears. She said she would still petitioned for him for he did not mean to do what he did. I am wondering now if there is anybody that has the same issues as this person did and is still willing to go on with this process. Just very curious.

this time and the next time and the next time....he can get happy in the same pants he got mad in

people dont change

[warriorprincess 0]

I know this may be an odd question to ask. I was talking to a woman about a year ago on here and she told me that she went to visit her boyfriend in his country and he twisted her _____ in an argument. When she returned home she got x-rays of her ____ and it showed that she had a hairline fracture. Anyway, she told me that it was her fault for getting him upset and apologized. I couldn't believe my ears. She said she would still petitioned for him for he did not mean to do what he did. I am wondering now if there is anybody that has the same issues as this person did and is still willing to go on with this process. Just very curious.

this time and the next time and the next time....he can get happy in the same pants he got mad in

people dont change

I was watching a movie and this girl was abused by her husband for years. She believed that it was his right to abuse her and because she loved him she put up with it. She did eventually kill him and was aquitted. Some women just don't know what to do. These men isolate women from any kind of support system so that the women feel all alone. They only have these abusive men to lean on.

I can't believe that she still petitioned for him but maybe she is afraid of him or believes that he will change. He will NEVER change and the abuse will only get worse once he gets here. 2ond journey you should talk to this woman and help her to see that if he comes here her life could be in serious danger. My best to your friend.

[rebeccajo 14]

I don't know what's worse.

The woman putting up with the abuse or not being able to see she's a greencard wife.

[jundp 191]

It's sad to me that this is such a problem for some people.

On a different level, it's like the people who feel the need to check up on their SOs online, because they don't trust them.

I just don't get it.

I feel blessed to not only 100% trust P, but to also feel safe and secure in his arms rather than scared....