Why Men Don't Talk

[Sheriff Uling 3]

Why men don't talk by David Zinczenko

1) Guys Are A Little Intimidated

2) Guys Need To Decompress

3) Guys Are More Comfortable With Actions Than Feelings

4) Guys Don't Want To Be Put On The Spot

I thought this article was interesting [CLICK HERE] and is a sigh of relief then reading what women think our problem is with communication.

Cheers!!!

Sheriff Uling

[jeffcloe 0]

Guys Don't Want To Be Put On The Spot - When men talk less and women want more, the scenario can escalate.

Most of the time I need answer right there and then... because if I don't hear anything from him I will start to feel sad and yes very true that the scenario levels up ayyyyy

I hope I can stick this to my mind and become a more more understanding wife to my Jeff... Hey sheriff uling thanks, I got really hooked up reading that twice...

Cloe-

[chris-lei 1]

Why men don't talk by David Zinczenko

1) Guys Are A Little Intimidated

2) Guys Need To Decompress

3) Guys Are More Comfortable With Actions Than Feelings

4) Guys Don't Want To Be Put On The Spot

I thought this article was interesting [CLICK HERE] and is a sigh of relief then reading what women think our problem is with communication.

Cheers!!!

Sheriff Uling

Hi Sheriff! My man is soooooooooo like number 3 and 4!

Read this one..so true also. An eye opener for us, ladies!

THESE THINGS ARE ON OUR MAN'S MIND!

Note: everyhing is #1!

1. Men are NOT mind readers.

1. Learn to work the toilet seat.

You're a big girl. If it's up, put it down. We need it up, you need it down.

You don't hear us complaining about you leaving it down.

1. Sunday sports It's like the full moon or the changing of the tides.

Let it be.

1. Crying is blackmail.

1. Ask for what you want.

Let us be clear on this one:

Subtle hints do not work!

Strong hints do not work!

Obvious hints do not work!

Just say it!

1. Yes and No are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question.

1. Come to us with a problem only if you want help solving it. That's what we do.

Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for.

1. Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument.

In fact, all comments become Null and void after 7 Days.

1. If you think you're fat, you probably are.

Don't ask us.

1. If something we said can be interpreted two ways and one of the ways makes you sad or angry,

2. we meant the other one

1. You can either ask us to do something

Or tell us how you want it done.

Not both.

If you already know best how to do it, just do it yourself.

1. Whenever possible, Please say whatever you have to say during commercials..

1. Christopher Columbus did NOT need directions and neither do we.

1. ALL men see in only 16 colors, like Windows default settings.

Peach, for example, is a fruit, not color. Pumpkin is also a fruit. We have no idea what mauve is.

1. If it itches, it will be scratched.

We do that!

1. If we ask what is wrong and you say 'nothing,' We will act like nothing's wrong.

We know you are lying, but it is just not worth the hassle.

1. If you ask a question you don't want an answer to, Expect an answer you don't want to hear.

1. When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear is fine... Really .

1. Don't ask us what we're thinking about unless you are prepared to discuss such topics as baseball or

motor sports

1. You have enough clothes.

1. You have too many shoes.

1. I am in shape. Round IS a shape!

1. Thank you for reading this.

Yes, I know, I have to sleep on the couch tonight;

But did you know men really don't mind that? It's like camping.

Pass this to as many men as you can -

to give them a laugh.

Pass this to as many women as you can -

to give them a bigger laugh!!!

Edited June 22, 2008 by chris-lei