IT'S NOT COMMON SENCE

[Queen Jenn 0]

Can we roast some weenies, too? Nothing like a good hot dog and toasted marshmallows!!!!

[Enlighten one :) 5]

Hello Ido,

I have always supported you for posting your story. You must have me confused with someone else.

I believe that most of us here on VJ know of Americans or permanent residence sponsors , that were once active members of VJ that have fallen victims of a marriage scam. Tony and Tess mentioned that the fraud unit in NIgeria ( that interviewed her told her) commented thats the latest thing ( as far as they know ) since the 419 scam isn't working as much.

My heart truly goes out to each and every person that has been scammed, because I know what it feels like for them, I know the devastation on the family unit here in America amongst family and friends. I know how it affected my family, job, kids and health.

Thanks Lurkin for being for real !! I remember not too long ago you were bashing me for posting my story, now you see what I'm saying thru friends you have met here on VJ. Sometimes you have to walk against the wind for sake of being honest.

This Omoba poster has never met me nor knows the people I associate with, yet everytime I post my story she tries to generalize it and make it seem as tho I hate Nigerians and singleing out just one country. That's why I don't respond to her bashing post directed towards me. ( Nor the weak click that follows her ) Why should I, everyone that read the content of my post and have a memory can see thru her, it's only those that choose not to face the negative possibilty of this journey that are quick to bow down to her. Truth be told,( Omoba ) Not all people will be scammed. I have spent a little time in a 3rd world country, I truly believe that there are decent, honest hard working people within , but I will continue to post my story because I also know that some will fall victim to scams.

Thanks Lurkin for speaking up !!!!!

Oops... That would be buss.

fell out the puss .

KEGELS!!!!! *runs and hides*

Now I have to say that that's some funny #### right there, lol!

[Beautiful_years 0]

Hello Idocare,

I came accross your posts and the heated discussions that had gone on long ago.

I dont know if you still visit vj, but i am writting to let you know i read through your journey and feel your pain and disgust and think no one would blame you for withdrawing immigration papers.

I would have felt used if i were you.

I hope youhave a nice life doing what makes you feel peaceful.

[Perseverance 1]

Hello Idocare,

I came accross your posts and the heated discussions that had gone on long ago.

I dont know if you still visit vj, but i am writting to let you know i read through your journey and feel your pain and disgust and think no one would blame you for withdrawing immigration papers.

I would have felt used if i were you.

I hope youhave a nice life doing what makes you feel peaceful.

Yes she is still here, and very active.

[Tunji&Toyin 0]

Anyone from any impoverished nation in the back of their minds have to wonder, even just in the slight bit. Especially women.

I must say that many of you women that marry men from which ever country they come from and bring them here to this country here is a show of a woman who wants a good and humble man. Of course, unless you start spending every hour, and second, and day with them, you don't truly know them. Then the rifts may start to happen as it pertains to finances, jobs, social life. It becomes difficult to deal with it all.

Fortunate enough for me and my wife, we are both very similiar in nature, and most of the same things in life. She will definitely notice that whatever image that she had painted in her head will be different (and the four kids she wanted is a little overboard, and the two I want is more of a doable picture). @laugh@.

Not everybody's story is the same, everybody has different elements to their lives. We should try to show respect to one another, and realize that the we are all children of our God, and the people we associate with here are different in their own light. Reflect a positive nature here and everywhere you put yourself and karma will return to you in good favor.

[LovinLiberia 0]

Anyone from any impoverished nation in the back of their minds have to wonder, even just in the slight bit. Especially women.

I must say that many of you women that marry men from which ever country they come from and bring them here to this country here is a show of a woman who wants a good and humble man. Of course, unless you start spending every hour, and second, and day with them, you don't truly know them. Then the rifts may start to happen as it pertains to finances, jobs, social life. It becomes difficult to deal with it all.

Fortunate enough for me and my wife, we are both very similiar in nature, and most of the same things in life. She will definitely notice that whatever image that she had painted in her head will be different (and the four kids she wanted is a little overboard, and the two I want is more of a doable picture). @laugh@.

Not everybody's story is the same, everybody has different elements to their lives. We should try to show respect to one another, and realize that the we are all children of our God, and the people we associate with here are different in their own light. Reflect a positive nature here and everywhere you put yourself and karma will return to you in good favor.

Very well said. I wish you and your wife the best of luck in the future.

[idocare 3]

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