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very nice

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Jenn! Grand Master

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If I were to pass away, I've got life insurance, so he'd be ok in terms of death expenses. Plus I have all my family local as well. But I'm not too concerned about it - he managed before he met me and he'll manage after I'm gone.

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I have spent the last 16 months thinking about this. I am not well, my SO is dying, and since I have hardly a family nor a close friend nearby, it is rough.He does not want to die here so when it is close to his time ( providing I am still around ) I know I have to let him go home. As for me, I know I will be going to a better place, and whatever happens to us is out of our control. What more can I say?

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I'm thinking maybe you meant to post this in the MENA forum? (bolded) because I don't think that's the case on VJ as a whole.

:secret: it started off in the mena forum but was moved here.

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Yes we have both thought about it. Sujeet's brother in law was killed in a motorbike accident in India so he saw his sister go through it and so it has made us both very aware of how life can end suddenly. We both have life insurance. In our case, he is the bread winner not me. I would have to live with my parents probably for awhile, even if I had money, I wouldn't want to live on my own with Kavi for awhile. I really can't imagine how horrible I would feel in that situation and how horrible he would feel if it were the other way around.

It's a very sad topic that I don't like thinking about but it's a reality that can happen as we have even seen here on VJ. :(

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I don't really think about dying. If it happens he will just have to deal.

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I'm not sure why, but when I read these responses it brought to mind an old quote I know:

"Here's to you and here's to me,

I hope we never disagree,

But if we do then piss on you,

And here's to me.

'Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways - Chardonnay in one hand - chocolate in the other - body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming 'WOO HOO, What a Ride'

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I have spent the last 16 months thinking about this. I am not well, my SO is dying, and since I have hardly a family nor a close friend nearby, it is rough.He does not want to die here so when it is close to his time ( providing I am still around ) I know I have to let him go home. As for me, I know I will be going to a better place, and whatever happens to us is out of our control. What more can I say?

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I'd have a thread about it on VJ



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We both have life insurance policies so we'll both be ok financially if anything happens to the other one. I've discussed with Javi what I want done with my remains after I die. I have lots of family around that would help him through the process. Same with me if anything happened to him. It's not something I like to think about. The thing is, the love I have for Javi is so great that I want him to be as well prepared for it as possible if anything did happen to me. I would expect the same from him. Either of us would be so devastated that what ever we can do now to make it easier that's what we'll do.

Just couldn't stay my @ss away!

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With this horrible news about Dawn it got me thinking. Not only does her husband have to face the reality of her death, but will he have not only the assistance, but the money to plan her funeral. Will he be able to survive not just emotionally but financially without her?

The majority of the USC's are the wives, and more than likely will be the bread winner for some time to come. Have you thought about your husband should you die? Will he have have a place to live (that he can afford on his own). Do you have life insurance? Does he know what steps he needs to follow to collect it? The list could go on and on.

Any other thoughts on this? I do not want to leave my husband in this kind of situation should I die before my time.

The thought of my husband dying scares me. But we have prepared for unfortunate events in case the inevitable happen.

I'm sure my in-laws would offer help. I could afford to rent my own place too since I am working and we have some savings for the rainy days (for at least a year). My husband and I have life insurance policies and retirement plans. And I'm sure my family back home would offer financial help if it would come to that. I could sell some of my inherited properties too. Or I can reach out to my cousins and stay in their place if I really need to.

But the thing which really scares me is not the possible financial burden. I am more worried of being alone and missing him. I'm afraid I love him so much that I would be totally devastated and dysfunctional when he goes.

I don't even know how to live when that happens.

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I have life insurance and he (once we get married) and the kids are my beneficiaries. I'm not worried about him financially, and I imagine that he would most likely move back to Germany if something were to happen to me.

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With this horrible news about Dawn it got me thinking. Not only does her husband have to face the reality of her death, but will he have not only the assistance, but the money to plan her funeral. Will he be able to survive not just emotionally but financially without her?

The majority of the USC's are the wives, and more than likely will be the bread winner for some time to come. Have you thought about your husband should you die? Will he have have a place to live (that he can afford on his own). Do you have life insurance? Does he know what steps he needs to follow to collect it? The list could go on and on.

Any other thoughts on this? I do not want to leave my husband in this kind of situation should I die before my time.

is there a way to name a beneficiary not living in the U.S??? From this I have considered revising my Life and accidentail insurance but wasn't sure I could do that since he doesn't have a SS# ????

But you are right... things to think about. What happens if we were to pass prior to them getting permanent status??

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