How Often Do You Disagree or Quarrel With Your Love One?

[ronjie 0]

This topic was requested by my hubby....anyway sometimes we do also disagree or quarrel for something....but we always make sure we settle it as soon as possible...how about you?

[DaniDimo 0]

Very often, especially when he is telling me how some things goes in US and he never been here, LOL....

[marjo2008 0]

hmmn. sometimes we had disagreement once a month just like this morning, we had a little misunderstanding but we immediately resolve it. wether he or I made the first move to reconcile I love him more when we had a fight..... lol but i firmly believe that i was really made for him and I praise God for blessing me with wonderful man in my life.

[ronjie 0]

Very often, especially when he is telling me how some things goes in US and he never been here, LOL....

well he will be there soon, and you can show him what u speak of,....good luck and congrats..Ron

[ronjie 0]

This topic was requested by my hubby....anyway sometimes we do also disagree or quarrel for something....but we always make sure we settle it as soon as possible...how about you?

one of the things we disagree on is who will get more replys on their topic,....so please post a reply and help me win... it will be the first quarrel i ever won,...thanks Ron

[ronjie 0]

hmmn. sometimes we had disagreement once a month just like this morning, we had a little misunderstanding but we immediately resolve it. wether he or I made the first move to reconcile I love him more when we had a fight..... lol but i firmly believe that i was really made for him and I praise God for blessing me with wonderful man in my life.

it seems to me that 1 quarrel a month is standard (LOL) . ENJOY THE QUARREL , COZ MAKING UP IS OHHHHH SOOOOO FUN !!!

[Ilya R. 0]

quiet often especially when we havent seen each other in 8 months.

[Leedah 22]

That is sooooo true. My husband will argue me UP AND DOWN over how things work here in the U.S.

He's NEVER even been here and has only travel out of his own small country one time (6hours away to neighboring country) just to pick me up from the airport.

I get so frustrated when he says "I'll find me a job within 1 day of being in the U.S.

Hellllooooo, has anyone seen the new unemployment rate?? It is high.

I keep telling him to bone up on his computer skills and english.

He says "my english is fine". hahaha I have to tell my sweety that just because I understand him, that doesn't mean an employer will be as patient.

Go figure.

Well, that's my quarrel for today.

Tootles.

Very often, especially when he is telling me how some things goes in US and he never been here, LOL....

[LotofPatience 65]

This topic was requested by my hubby....anyway sometimes we do also disagree or quarrel for something....but we always make sure we settle it as soon as possible...how about you?

LOL

That will make you much closer "I love you" after disagreement is more powerful than an ordinary "I love you"

[trinket 30]

Well I and hubby are going through a few fights these days because of the NVC tension.

Problem is with me, if things don't get done the way I want them to be, I start acting bat #### crazy, he calls me a tyrant, which fits perfectly well

Sometimes I get mad that how easy going he is, and there I was sweating over every small detail while filling up the papers and still I am and he just takes it easy, gets his peaceful sleep every night.

I guess for us there is no pattern, sometimes we go through without fighting for 3 whole months and sometimes we fight every alternative day.

Edited June 18, 2008 by silent

[LotofPatience 65]

Well me and hubby are going through a few fights these days because of the NVC tention.

Problem is with me, if things dont get done the way I want them to be, I start acting bat #### crazy, he calls me a tyrant, which fits perfectly well

Sometimes I get mad that how easy going he is, and there I was sweating over every small detail while filling up the papers and still I am and he just takes it easy, gets his peaceful sleep every night.

I guess for us there is no pattern, sometimes we go through without fighting for 3 whole months and sometimes we fight every alternative day.

Hehehe So, USCIS and NVC are the main culprits to everybody's life, huh

[trinket 30]

Well at least for us, its not just USCIS or NVC, its every thing.

My hubby needs a push (more than just ONE push) to get his work done. From getting a credit card for himself, to renewing his state id, to arranging his room, to calling his dad, to reminding him about his tax payment and well the usual waking him up every morning by 5:30am.

Its kind of funny how we live so apart from each other but I still rule his world and till the time he doesn't hear me yelling at him to do these things, he doesn't do it. So basically if he has anything important to do, he just lets me know once and then he knows I will after him till the work is done. WoW, I feel such a good baby sitter........opps hubster sitter

ps: glad he doesn't read visajourney

[trinket 30]

Oh I forgot the most important part, I even remind him that his fridge is getting empty and he needs to buy his grocery.........go figure!

[Aubrey 10]

Seems this thread might be in the wrong area... sorry, I'm not a CR-1/IR-1 person, but the topic interested me.

My fiancé and I definitely disagree more since the whole process with immigration began. It's stressful enough being apart without worrying about how and when paperwork and appointments are getting finished without me. I'm a stressed out nut watching him go through so much alone. I just hate it and it makes me far less pleasant to deal with. I'm lucky he's such an amazing man to put up with this!

Edited June 18, 2008 by Aubrey

[trailmix 77]

This topic was requested by my hubby....anyway sometimes we do also disagree or quarrel for something....but we always make sure we settle it as soon as possible...how about you?

one of the things we disagree on is who will get more replys on their topic,....so please post a reply and help me win... it will be the first quarrel i ever won,...thanks Ron

We might disagree sometimes, but we don't quarrel - so I don't really have anything to add, just supporting your thread here