Speaking of hateraid!

[4theloveofhenry 8]

I have to stand up for myself as I have started to recieve personal attacks in my inbox. I often lurked on this site just to gather information but after some time I decided to post becuase maybe I could help someone else or just offer support. Over time however, whether it be on this forum or others I got tired of seeing the personal attacks and belittlement of others. I usually would keep my mouth shut however I am very sensative to people putting others down. I do not think of myself as a goody two shoes. I have a horrible temper, in the past I would have fought you in the street if you made me angry,I can be selfish, have a bad attitude, and so on and so on. However in trying to please God I really am trying to work on those things.Some are going better than others. In posting this I am not trying to air my dirty laundry, I am just sharing with you all that I know I am not perfect, I am not trying to be perfect and I do not think of myself highly or without sin.

However with that I must say that this forum is supposed to be about support, understanding, and oppurtunity of voice but all I seem to see here is cattiness, bullying, and downright cruelty. The very people that are angred at someone elses "cruelty" are turning around and being cruel themselves. I was told by someone that they do not turn and run with their tail between their legs but neither do I. I am not going to be grouped as a basher when I have never come across as that. I am not going to be put in my place by someone or downtalked to. Eveyrtime I have posted it has been out of caring. I really care about people and their feelings but I demand the same. It seems howvever that some have only read what they want to out of my post and have not tried to get the true undertsanding of what I am trying to say. Why is that if a person does not follow the crowd the crowd has to attack them. I do not agree with everyone and how they are responding to the drama and I dont mind saying it. I am not saying I am someone whos opinion matters becuase the only one who is good and whos opinion matters is our heavenly father! However as the person I am , whether it be right or wrong I hate to sit by silently while people outright bash and degrade other people. On a forum like this where we are all going through this ourney for love I feel we should just agree to disagree.

Hateraid can be drunk by everyone. The person who makes it is no worse than the person who takes it. If I can post my feelings to the forum then please show me the same respect by not sending it to my inbox and posting it on the forum. If you can dish it out then you should be able to take it without resorting to bringing trouble to someones front door. I have bot disrespected anyone here and ask that you respect me.

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I think that when someone has a beef they are asked to take it to the PM level not carry it out in a thread. If you would prefer for someone to publicly call you, out I guess that is your choice...its private beefs that usually end up getting thread locked. But hey if you are loking for a cat fight I am sure there are plenty who would oblige.

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[Ta Ta 1]

Pm's on public message boards are utilized for privat exchange instead of causing more discord in the forum. For that reason I pm'ed you.

I have certainly not attacked you but told you as a matter of fact that I think you are a nice person but that you do not know the whole story and should take off your own rose colored glasses that you spoke about in reference to me.

I was firm and to the point and if my bluntness offended you, my apologies.

I think this is all getting old now and it is time to get over it.

I have no problem with you so if you have further issues with me please pm me because this forum has had enough strife.

Peace.

[4theloveofhenry 8]

TRUTHBETOLD I wasnt refering to your PM . However I guess you are waiting for your cheering squad to give you a thumbs up. Bring it on then ! I dont need one becuase I could care less what everyone thinks about me. All I know is keep your pms to yourself and keep the garbabge out of my inbox!

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TRUTHBETOLD I wasnt refering to your PM . However I guess you are waiting for your cheering squad to give you a thumbs up. Bring it on then ! I dont need one becuase I could care less what everyone thinks about me. All I know is keep your pms to yourself and keep the garbabge out of my inbox!

I did not say that you were referring to my PM I was just explaining how things work and waiting for the cat fight......

But hey that is cool, I wont PM you...

As far as I know I dont have a cheering squad....I work alone.

Peace

Edited June 18, 2008 by Truth be Told

[4theloveofhenry 8]

Omoba I pmd you back already and I hope that it has settled it and you understand what I was saying. I am not reffering to yours either. I posted this becuase just like the forum dosnt need any strife I dont need any either and everyone seems comfortable posting to the forum just what it is they feel so lets keep it that way. If you cant say it on the forum then dont send it to my inbox. I havnt disrespected anyone in that way and I wont take it from anyone else. Your bluntness does not bother me and I hope mine dosnt either.

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[4theloveofhenry 8]

ok, forgive me again if I jumped to conclusions. I said I have a bad temper. I dont mind saying I am sorry. Im sorry

TRUTHBETOLD I wasnt refering to your PM . However I guess you are waiting for your cheering squad to give you a thumbs up. Bring it on then ! I dont need one becuase I could care less what everyone thinks about me. All I know is keep your pms to yourself and keep the garbabge out of my inbox!

I did not say that you were referring to my PM I was just explaining how things work and waiting for the cat fight......

But hey that is cool, I wont PM you...

As far as I know I dont have a cheering squad....I work alone.

Peace

[Ta Ta 1]

I have to stand up for myself as I have started to recieve personal attacks in my inbox. I often lurked on this site just to gather information but after some time I decided to post becuase maybe I could help someone else or just offer support. Over time however, whether it be on this forum or others I got tired of seeing the personal attacks and belittlement of others. I usually would keep my mouth shut however I am very sensative to people putting others down. I do not think of myself as a goody two shoes. I have a horrible temper, in the past I would have fought you in the street if you made me angry,I can be selfish, have a bad attitude, and so on and so on. However in trying to please God I really am trying to work on those things.Some are going better than others. In posting this I am not trying to air my dirty laundry, I am just sharing with you all that I know I am not perfect, I am not trying to be perfect and I do not think of myself highly or without sin.

However with that I must say that this forum is supposed to be about support, understanding, and oppurtunity of voice but all I seem to see here is cattiness, bullying, and downright cruelty. The very people that are angred at someone elses "cruelty" are turning around and being cruel themselves. I was told by someone that they do not turn and run with their tail between their legs but neither do I. I am not going to be grouped as a basher when I have never come across as that. I am not going to be put in my place by someone or downtalked to. Eveyrtime I have posted it has been out of caring. I really care about people and their feelings but I demand the same. It seems howvever that some have only read what they want to out of my post and have not tried to get the true undertsanding of what I am trying to say. Why is that if a person does not follow the crowd the crowd has to attack them. I do not agree with everyone and how they are responding to the drama and I dont mind saying it. I am not saying I am someone whos opinion matters becuase the only one who is good and whos opinion matters is our heavenly father! However as the person I am , whether it be right or wrong I hate to sit by silently while people outright bash and degrade other people. On a forum like this where we are all going through this ourney for love I feel we should just agree to disagree.

Hateraid can be drunk by everyone. The person who makes it is no worse than the person who takes it. If I can post my feelings to the forum then please show me the same respect by not sending it to my inbox and posting it on the forum. If you can dish it out then you should be able to take it without resorting to bringing trouble to someones front door. I have bot disrespected anyone here and ask that you respect me.

You refered to me because I was the one who said I would not " tuck my tail and run " in my pm to you.

If you do not wish to receive pm's from me I will respect that.

[4theloveofhenry 8]

OH my God. Yes I reffered to that statement but was not reffering to your pm as the attack. I recalled what you said about the tail and used it becuase I wanted to say somthing else wich sounded more harsh and thought of that to use instead. Please I dont hold back with what I want to say and if I wanted to write a post about you I would have titled it with your name. I guess I cannot be to angry becuase I didnt ask truthbetold what she meant by her post either that is why I said I am sorry , so please from now on if you missunderstand my intention or post just ask me instead of assuming I am implying somthing I am not. I will do the same

I have to stand up for myself as I have started to recieve personal attacks in my inbox. I often lurked on this site just to gather information but after some time I decided to post becuase maybe I could help someone else or just offer support. Over time however, whether it be on this forum or others I got tired of seeing the personal attacks and belittlement of others. I usually would keep my mouth shut however I am very sensative to people putting others down. I do not think of myself as a goody two shoes. I have a horrible temper, in the past I would have fought you in the street if you made me angry,I can be selfish, have a bad attitude, and so on and so on. However in trying to please God I really am trying to work on those things.Some are going better than others. In posting this I am not trying to air my dirty laundry, I am just sharing with you all that I know I am not perfect, I am not trying to be perfect and I do not think of myself highly or without sin.

However with that I must say that this forum is supposed to be about support, understanding, and oppurtunity of voice but all I seem to see here is cattiness, bullying, and downright cruelty. The very people that are angred at someone elses "cruelty" are turning around and being cruel themselves. I was told by someone that they do not turn and run with their tail between their legs but neither do I. I am not going to be grouped as a basher when I have never come across as that. I am not going to be put in my place by someone or downtalked to. Eveyrtime I have posted it has been out of caring. I really care about people and their feelings but I demand the same. It seems howvever that some have only read what they want to out of my post and have not tried to get the true undertsanding of what I am trying to say. Why is that if a person does not follow the crowd the crowd has to attack them. I do not agree with everyone and how they are responding to the drama and I dont mind saying it. I am not saying I am someone whos opinion matters becuase the only one who is good and whos opinion matters is our heavenly father! However as the person I am , whether it be right or wrong I hate to sit by silently while people outright bash and degrade other people. On a forum like this where we are all going through this ourney for love I feel we should just agree to disagree.

Hateraid can be drunk by everyone. The person who makes it is no worse than the person who takes it. If I can post my feelings to the forum then please show me the same respect by not sending it to my inbox and posting it on the forum. If you can dish it out then you should be able to take it without resorting to bringing trouble to someones front door. I have bot disrespected anyone here and ask that you respect me.

You refered to me because I was the one who said I would not " tuck my tail and run " in my pm to you.

If you do not wish to receive pm's from me I will respect that.

[4theloveofhenry 8]

And on that note, this is for anyone and everyone, I do not mind PMs, I just asked that personal attacks be kept to the forum and not my PM box. I can ignore what I want to ignore on the forum but getting it in my box is like invading my personal space. I was not reffering to either of your PMS. If you had offended me I would have told you when I responded. I am speaking to the person that sent the attack and they will certainly know who they are. PPLEASSE try to understand what I am saying. As I said before I do not like drama and I dont like garbage as long as you are not bringing either my way I dont mind. Even if you disagree with me its fine.I hope I am being clear and leaving no room for misunderstanding again.

I think everyone is just stressed with this journey but please lets not take it out on each other. And I will try to calm my temper and practice my own advice

[Ta Ta 1]

Fair enough.

Peace.

[Kanyiri 0]

4theloveofhenry - I'm sorry you are getting personal attacks. No one deserves that - especially not you.

[ForeverAmen 0]

Whoa! 4theloveofhenry, sorry you went through this.