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The need for clarity: from the perspective of a happily married Nigerian man

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It is with utmost joy and happiness that I am writing this note. I am one of those that do enjoy coming to this site to share in the joys, sorrows, agonies and ultimately hapiness of everyones journey. I cannot deny that everybody has a unique and personal experience as regards their journey with the immigration process. I do respect them for that and cannot interject into their own life experiences.

That being said, I cannot call myself a true son of the soil if i keep quiet and see my name and those of so many millions being dragged in the mud. It is believed that all of us are adults and that whatever choices that we make we have to be able to live with them irrespective of the outcome.

So be it known, that before I married my beautiful wife and had our son, I had dated women from different ethnic backgrounds, races and creeds. I came out of those relationships with so much knowledge, both good and bad. It is my belief that I should have learnt from my experiences and be able to use them for my future benefit. I am not going to come out here and start bashing older women, or younger women, or skinny women or plus sized women just because out of my own poor decision-making I found myself in a quagmire.

In summary, I am a Nigerian man and very proud of who I am. It is not all Nigerian men that are scammers. And finally, if you dare get into a serious relationship without proper investigation and information, then dont blame anybody. We have a saying " a he-goat that goes to a fight with his horns, has to make sure that he has a strong and sturdy neck".

WELL SAID..I AGREE WITH YOU 100% ..

anyway i dont have much to say but just to thank u for the post cos most people think all nigerian are bad but i dont blame them. Bad people are everywhere in the world and i know myself than anybody knows me.

12/14/07----SENT I-130 TO USCIS

12/18/07----I-130 RECEIVED

03/03/08 ---I-130 APPROVED AND SENT TO NVC

03/18/08----NVC RECEIVED PACKAGE AND CASE NUMBER ASSIGNED

04/19/08----Received DS-3032 / I-864 Bill

04/23/08----SENT I-864 FEE THRU REGULAR MAIL TO NVC (SNAIL MAIL)

04/30/08----DS3032 APPROVED EMAIL REPLIED

05/01/08----NVC RECEIVED AOS FEES

05/06/08----SENT OUT I-864 THRU JAME'S SHORTCUT (OVERNIT MAIL)

05/07/08----I-864 RECEIVED BY NVC SIGNED FOR

05/16/08----IV FEE BILL GENERATED

05/17/08----IV BILL PAID ONLINE (IN PROCESS)

05/20/08----IV FEE INDICATE PAID

05/28/08----received ds230 from my wife

05/29/08----sent out DS 230 to NVC express mail

05/30/08----DS230 RECEIVED BY NVC SIGNED FOR BY AUSTIN

06/02/08----DS230 ENTERED INTO NVC SYSTEM

06/06/08----CASE COMPLETED

06/19/08----INTERVIEW DATE AUGUST 22

06/20/08....CASE LEFT NVC TO LAGOS EMBASSY

06/24/08....PACKAGE DELIVERED TO EMBASSY SIGNED BY GODWIN

07/09/08....WIFE WENT FOR 1ST MEDICAL APPOINTMENT (KAMORASS HOSP.)

08/22/08....VISA APPROVED (TO PICK IT UP ON SEPT.02)

09/02/08....VISA PICKED UP BOOKED FLIGHT FOR SEPT.23 (LUFTHANSA)

09/25/08....WIFE IN US. PORT OF ENTRY ATLANTA

10/13/08....RECEIVED SSN CARD

11/05/08....GC

***I-751***

6.29.10 - Mailed I-751 Docs to VSC

7.6.10 - Received NOA in mail

8.04.10 - Biometrics appointment

9.16.10- Approved

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Very well said and thank you for your posting...it speaks in volumes :)

To Blessed to be stressed:) I realize that all things have a purpose and a time.....have faith and the Lord Almighty will provide... when the time is right, he NEVER fails!

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