Tis TUESDAY after all!

[nunyab 0]

can i vent??? If you don't wanna hear it please don't read. but I've got to get this off my chest. So every morning since we met my husband likes to pop on and wish me a good day and a good morning before work. Lately he seems to be "busy" or not on at all. I know his internet is having problems but honestly I get up an hour earlier to be ready for work so I can just sit and chat with him for an hour now when he isn't here, or hit and miss, I sit for an hour waiting by my computer!!

Please don't get me wrong he'll come on later for like my lunch or when I am done with work... but here at home it's more relaxing. Sorry for being pissy

Any suggestions?

Rajaa

[doodlebugg 10]

can i vent??? If you don't wanna hear it please don't read. but I've got to get this off my chest. So every morning since we met my husband likes to pop on and wish me a good day and a good morning before work. Lately he seems to be "busy" or not on at all. I know his internet is having problems but honestly I get up an hour earlier to be ready for work so I can just sit and chat with him for an hour now when he isn't here, or hit and miss, I sit for an hour waiting by my computer!!

Please don't get me wrong he'll come on later for like my lunch or when I am done with work... but here at home it's more relaxing. Sorry for being pissy

Any suggestions?

Rajaa

I'd cancel the morning sessions. Seriously in the beginning I was fine with waiting for him to come online but as the days became months we cut down bigtime on the online chatting. It just added to our stress level since he had to wait in line at the internet cafe's and then half the time I couldn't even hear or see him. That's just me though.

I have to go to this customer service thing to see how to better serve our customers. FK the customer this is cutting into MY time. LOL

[nunyab 0]

can i vent??? If you don't wanna hear it please don't read. but I've got to get this off my chest. So every morning since we met my husband likes to pop on and wish me a good day and a good morning before work. Lately he seems to be "busy" or not on at all. I know his internet is having problems but honestly I get up an hour earlier to be ready for work so I can just sit and chat with him for an hour now when he isn't here, or hit and miss, I sit for an hour waiting by my computer!!

Please don't get me wrong he'll come on later for like my lunch or when I am done with work... but here at home it's more relaxing. Sorry for being pissy

Any suggestions?

Rajaa

I'd cancel the morning sessions. Seriously in the beginning I was fine with waiting for him to come online but as the days became months we cut down bigtime on the online chatting. It just added to our stress level since he had to wait in line at the internet cafe's and then half the time I couldn't even hear or see him. That's just me though.

I have to go to this customer service thing to see how to better serve our customers. FK the customer this is cutting into MY time. LOL

I hear yeah there... I just so enjoy spending what little time we have together anytime I can get it... but when this happens I feel like I am the only one that feels this way.

I too am in the customer service industry... have fun.

[brnidokiegurl 0]

can i vent??? If you don't wanna hear it please don't read. but I've got to get this off my chest. So every morning since we met my husband likes to pop on and wish me a good day and a good morning before work. Lately he seems to be "busy" or not on at all. I know his internet is having problems but honestly I get up an hour earlier to be ready for work so I can just sit and chat with him for an hour now when he isn't here, or hit and miss, I sit for an hour waiting by my computer!!

Please don't get me wrong he'll come on later for like my lunch or when I am done with work... but here at home it's more relaxing. Sorry for being pissy

Any suggestions?

Rajaa

we have had to cut out some of the talk also due to the time changes, i dont expect him to wait up late for me to get home and i cant get there any earlier if i have things to do i just go ahead and do them and not wait by the computer any more, we dont talk as much, but its our life now

[nunyab 0]

can i vent??? If you don't wanna hear it please don't read. but I've got to get this off my chest. So every morning since we met my husband likes to pop on and wish me a good day and a good morning before work. Lately he seems to be "busy" or not on at all. I know his internet is having problems but honestly I get up an hour earlier to be ready for work so I can just sit and chat with him for an hour now when he isn't here, or hit and miss, I sit for an hour waiting by my computer!!

Please don't get me wrong he'll come on later for like my lunch or when I am done with work... but here at home it's more relaxing. Sorry for being pissy

Any suggestions?

Rajaa

we have had to cut out some of the talk also due to the time changes, i dont expect him to wait up late for me to get home and i cant get there any earlier if i have things to do i just go ahead and do them and not wait by the computer any more, we dont talk as much, but its our life now

it's a lonely life for me.... sorry ladies I think I am PMSing

[polarbear 0]

Only 12 more hours and my hubby will be home This has been the longest two weeks of my life! You wait for someone for like a year and a half and then when you finally have them with you it's torture when they aren't there again!

Yup. I'm about a week into that and probably have another 5 to go... I try to tell myself to be happy you know he can come back this time, but I have to admit that I will be happier when I know the date

Alhumdullillah it will be over in a few hours Enjoy your reunion

Happy Tuesday Everyone!

I'm exhausted today, but inshalla I will maby get some real sleep in a few days (yes, there is a light at the end of the tunnel ) May Allah give me an emergency free weekend

[brnidokiegurl 0]

we all have the same lonely

[nunyab 0]

I almost feel like being a child an not getting on at all today... but I know I am not that strong.. hehe

[Zee Bee 61]

Good morning everyone

[~Jackie~ 30]

doods, that is a great attitude to take to a Customer Service meeting ** the customers---drink a latte

rajaa--don't expect a visit, then you won't be disappointed. Sometimes as the wait becomes longer, the chats will spread out more. You will both find a 'happy medium' soon and it will be comfortable.

Ibrahim is not a cafe kind of guy so seeing him online is scarce. The first week apart, I wanted once a day....week 2 it was every other day and now....a phone call suffices. This sucks. I was really counting on an October trip, and now my work is saying no to that. I can't wait til December. I don't want to wait til December. grrrr

Well, I'm going to the lair I call 'my job'. I get to work a lovely 11-7pm shift today. I have not worked 8 hours in...........a long time. This is gonna suck lemons.

amal--that was a fun time in my SL house! hehehe

Jackie

[amal 4]

morning everyone inshaAllah tammy you are in my prayer keep strong and have faith and never give up

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww he's getting so biggggggg *snifflez*

kelz, zaids new pics are just adorable!

wheres the pineapple princess? maybe here but i don't have time to read the whole tuesday thread since i got to work later than usual and have to clock in ....1 minute ago..

I hope you all have a fantastic tuesday !

amal

[nunyab 0]

I know you're right Jackie... i'll try for the "strong" thing today.. I feel so clingy Yah Rab!!! What is wrong with me!!!

I am going to work and be pissy with them.... insha'allah we'll all have a great day.....

[~Jackie~ 30]

Nothings wrong expect you are normal! Your vj friends are here for you and actually, we need you too, so pull up a chair and earn some red hearts for your blue boxes while you wait for your man to come home!

[Nagishkaw 510]

I almost feel like being a child an not getting on at all today... but I know I am not that strong.. hehe

This process will make you stronger. My take on it is that the novelty has worn off a bit. Be greatful you get to talk to him as often as you do. For a few of us here, we are not so blessed in that department. I think Jackie gave some really good advice.

Edited June 17, 2008 by Nagishkaw

[polarbear 0]

Nothings wrong expect you are normal! Your vj friends are here for you and actually, we need you too, so pull up a chair and earn some red hearts for your blue boxes while you wait for your man to come home!

That reminds me, I need to work on those red hearts I'm close, but kinda slacked off last month Boss is at a management training class all day so I have some free time on my hands

okay, I'm farther than I thought from those red boxes.... time to head to OT