Victor Obinna Ezike Jr.

[LovinLiberia 0]

Hello Everyone,

I am back from the dead. I have been lurking around and not logging on heck I forgot my password. Now that I am in, I wanted to tell my story. I too was an avid VJ viewer. Our interview was February 6, 2008. Fortunately for me we were placed in AP. I can’t say the reason why because I’ve been placed under advisement. I can say this, in my personal opinion I was “spared” from the GC scammer. Here is my story. I went to Nigeria, had a lovely time. Came back to the states filed paperwork and the journey began. Filed in June, approved November. That’s when the s*** hit the fan. Let me back that up, got back to the states that’s when I open my own “personal bank of America” at least that’s what my SO thought. I was sending money to him like I had a slot machine in my house or as I stated my own bank. It became unbearable. My personal obligation was not a factor, long as I sent the money as promised. I remember one incident where I had to put my car in the shop and I called him and told him that the money I promised to send I wouldn’t be able to because of the amount it caused to repair my car. His comment was, “but you promised”. Then I thought maybe I should break it down to him in Naira that didn’t help. So I folded and sent the money. I then stop promising. And he stop asking for money, he gave me these sad stories. And being the generous person that I am, I would say how much you need. After we were approved I stated to him that I could no longer send any more money because we needed to prepare for the physical and anything else needed. That didn’t help; he told he needed money for his children Xmas, Wow. My thought what is this? Why am I doing this? I barely know this man. Do I really love this man enough to keep sending him money sometimes twice a month? It didn’t bother him, I knew when he needed money he would call early in the morning, middle of the day, late at night etc. I stop calling back as often. I was the one calling, sending money and he was not making a contribution. Red flag. Now I am paying attention. I am embarrassed to tell this story but I feel it’s time to let it go and share. I am not trying to rain on anyone’s journey, just telling my story. He too got robbed the day before his first medical appointment. Heck I laughed. Didn’t ask for money because I nipped that in the bud before he parted his lips. The money for the medical was sent the day he went to Lagos for the medical. I didn’t give him the Western Union number until he was in Lagos. He wanted me to provide funding for the trip there and back, plus the medical. Not going to happen, by this time I am tired. I don’t care what happens at the interview now. I threw my hands up and prayed that if this is for me then let it be. The interview day approached finally. Got that call at 6:30 am US times 02/06/08. AP AP AP What is this? I cried, I cried, I cried. Just think I thought I didn’t care. I went to work finally at 10am left work at 2pm couldn’t function or concentrate. We spoke the next day. The conversation we had and what he was telling me was indication that I was being scammed. Now ladies/gentlemen that’s my personal opinion. Can’t give you the origin of the conversation but I can say his comment was, “I didn’t trust you that must”. What the F*** is that? Trust me, but my money was trustworthy. I am not bashing anyone but him. Idocare, I can identify with some of the things you are saying. Not sure what u meant by approaching storm, technically that could mean anything. If I had to relate my journey to that comment, I avoided the storm. I thank God for AP and I stopped the process shortly there after. I didn’t give it a second thought. I am happy that this journey is over and my life is back to basic. Most importantly my savings is looking pretty good AGAIN. Hahaha. Sometime when I hear the song, “The River” by Noel Gourdin, I think of my Tunde. One day I called him just to hear his voice, he was happy to hear from me. And then he asked for money and I said, you are kidding me right, he said, NO. No more international calls for me. I will close my friends, and I pray that you all will have a successful marriage. No one knows your heart but God and You. Not error free.

Although your story is not a pretty one, I am very thankful that you had the courage to come back and share it with the rest of us. Many people might be experiencing some of the same warning signs that you were experiencing and maybe you will be help open someone's eyes. Sometimes the love that we have for someone can make us blind to reality and the red flags will be overlooked. Again, thank you for sharing that and I'm glad to see you are staying positive and looking forward to your future.

[Ta Ta 1]

Sorry for your trouble with this man, I am happy to hear you are healed and your hard earned money goes where it is supposed to.....you

[4theloveofhenry 8]

I think in your love for your fiance and fierce loyalty you are missing the point that many have posted. I remember IDOCARE from many years back, I have been a member for quite some time. I remember her post from as early as 2005. I am very fimiliar with the background on the drama so I am not just coming in on the end of the story. I do not ever recall her bashing anyone in her post. I do not ever remember her saying all Nigerian men are bad. I do not ever remember her saying that everyone here involved with a African man was being scammed. However what I do remember is her doing is telling her story, giving warning signs that people should look for, giving examples of things that seemed"fishy" in her relationship and warning others to look for the similarities.

I remember being a 19 year old in love. It was my fisrt relationship and to me he seemed great, but others saw red flags and the would often try to point them out to me, but being that I was in love I would only get angry, when instead I should have listened. Was it definate that what they saw was going to produce a bad relationship? NO! But had I at least noted what they saw instead of being defensive maybe I would have not fell into a 2 year abusive relationship. Were they somehow more insightfull than I was? Maybe. Were they somehow able to predict how my relationship would turn out? No. But maybe they had already experianced this type of relationship and could see things that I could not. Were they bashing me? No! Were they bashing men and accusing them of ALL being abusive and controlling. No!

It is said that with experiance comes wisdom and undertsanding. A woman that has her first child will not seek out a childless woman for advice will she? She will seek the woman that already has children of her own and has raised them with success. Just like someone would not give out advice on watching out for scammers to a group of women who have already fallen victim.

By saying you will have to face your storm does not imply that everyone here is definatly being scammed. I feel she is remarking to everyone who is aiming personal attacks at her by saying, you may attack me but while you are doing this your back is turned and how can you possible see what may be coming your way. In other words open your eyes! NOT to what IS happening but open them to what CAN happen if you refuse to take off the rose colored glasses. A weather man may not see a tornado or a bad storm but may have heard reports or seen signs of bad weather. He can see the signs and understand them better than a regular person becuase he has been trained to see it and has been around enough bad weather to give a pretty good predicition. He may ruin everyones day by putting out a report of possible bad weather even though he has no proof that the storm yet exists. Would you call in and attack the weather man for sending out the warning and accuse him of bringing negativity to everyones day?

I have said it before and will say it again, I value her posts. I see what she is doing as couragous and humble. She is willing to come here time after time to give warnings to other in spite of being attacked, degraded, and belittled. She is humble enough to share a story that is probably embaressing and humiliating. I can only commend her for that.

It puzzles me why those who are in constant paranoia of being scammed by Africans specifically seek them out.

Would it not be so much easier to just date the man next door in their own cultural environment, in their own hometown ?

Some seek them out over and over again, one relationship after the other while lamenting they are all scammers.

I wonder what the psychological implication is here ! What compels them to do this.

I am done with this 3 ring circus.

To each his own opinion !

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bump

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I have always been shocked at the attitudes towards keeping all information positive here on the forum. Though I am a positive person by nature, overlooking truth isn't something I value. I think this forum is the ideal place to discuss marriage scams, since statistics may suggest that some of us will be or are being victimized as we speak.

I have seen so many scams, know so many people who have scammed (it was discussed as a victimless crime and is laughed about) and though most that I know didn't want any money or anything from their spouse (just the papers), people's hearts obviously got hurt. Most of the scamming that I am familiar with is from people who are here in the states illegally. I know one girl who got scammed three times! I have also been asked by many friends to marry them for papers just to help them out. This type of discussion is not really out of the ordinary in some circles. I think that these things are more commonly discussed outside of this forum than within it and it makes me wonder why.

I liked reading Idocare's post and perhaps there is some sort of history that I don't know about...the scamming definitely goes on all over the world, but since this is an African forum I thought it was appropriate for postings of that nature to be here. New members will perhaps be able to think before they start sending money...there are many red flags that appear in these "relationships" but I have never wanted to mention them because I didn't want to offend anyone as many may fit the scenario without it being the case, such as vast age differences. I think it is a good idea to post those sorts of things just to make people aware who are not possibly so familiar with the culture of the person that they are in love with. It's just information to think about; it doesn't mean it applies to every person.With that said, I don't think posting negative experiences should preclude us from supporting each other in our long wait periods and I don't think anyone's experiences should drift into generalizations or bashing of a particular group of people. I do think the interpretations are often too sensitive and people take the posts too personally. I would imagine that many people leave the forum after some time of being married and getting on with their lives and thus, we never know what the outcomes are. It is for that reason that I thought that Idocare's post added a much needed balance to the forum. A happy-go-lucky only post mandate is not realistic and frankly just isn't honest. I appreciate all information.

Peace to all....AL

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I think in your love for your fiance and fierce loyalty you are missing the point that many have posted. I remember IDOCARE from many years back, I have been a member for quite some time. I remember her post from as early as 2005. I am very fimiliar with the background on the drama so I am not just coming in on the end of the story. I do not ever recall her bashing anyone in her post. I do not ever remember her saying all Nigerian men are bad. I do not ever remember her saying that everyone here involved with a African man was being scammed. However what I do remember is her doing is telling her story, giving warning signs that people should look for, giving examples of things that seemed"fishy" in her relationship and warning others to look for the similarities.

I remember being a 19 year old in love. It was my fisrt relationship and to me he seemed great, but others saw red flags and the would often try to point them out to me, but being that I was in love I would only get angry, when instead I should have listened. Was it definate that what they saw was going to produce a bad relationship? NO! But had I at least noted what they saw instead of being defensive maybe I would have not fell into a 2 year abusive relationship. Were they somehow more insightfull than I was? Maybe. Were they somehow able to predict how my relationship would turn out? No. But maybe they had already experianced this type of relationship and could see things that I could not. Were they bashing me? No! Were they bashing men and accusing them of ALL being abusive and controlling. No!

It is said that with experiance comes wisdom and undertsanding. A woman that has her first child will not seek out a childless woman for advice will she? She will seek the woman that already has children of her own and has raised them with success. Just like someone would not give out advice on watching out for scammers to a group of women who have already fallen victim.

By saying you will have to face your storm does not imply that everyone here is definatly being scammed. I feel she is remarking to everyone who is aiming personal attacks at her by saying, you may attack me but while you are doing this your back is turned and how can you possible see what may be coming your way. In other words open your eyes! NOT to what IS happening but open them to what CAN happen if you refuse to take off the rose colored glasses. A weather man may not see a tornado or a bad storm but may have heard reports or seen signs of bad weather. He can see the signs and understand them better than a regular person becuase he has been trained to see it and has been around enough bad weather to give a pretty good predicition. He may ruin everyones day by putting out a report of possible bad weather even though he has no proof that the storm yet exists. Would you call in and attack the weather man for sending out the warning and accuse him of bringing negativity to everyones day?

I have said it before and will say it again, I value her posts. I see what she is doing as couragous and humble. She is willing to come here time after time to give warnings to other in spite of being attacked, degraded, and belittled. She is humble enough to share a story that is probably embaressing and humiliating. I can only commend her for that.

It puzzles me why those who are in constant paranoia of being scammed by Africans specifically seek them out.

Would it not be so much easier to just date the man next door in their own cultural environment, in their own hometown ?

Some seek them out over and over again, one relationship after the other while lamenting they are all scammers.

I wonder what the psychological implication is here ! What compels them to do this.

I am done with this 3 ring circus.

To each his own opinion !

4theloveofhenry ..... you are a wealth of knowledge!

[LovinLiberia 0]

good, I've been quoted.

Edited June 18, 2008 by LovinLiberia

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I hope one would think of themselves as having a wealth of knowledge. It's good to have a high self-esteem about yourself.

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Well hellloooooo everyone Im back

[Truth be Told 0]

I'm one of the old school members here on VJ. I brought to this country ( the USA ) and married a Nigerian man back in 2004. I got pregnant 3-weeks of his arrival here, our son Victor Obinna Ezike Jr was the only joy that would come out of our union. I still can't understand why his father would name our son after himself then cut a total fool to leave his son behind. My guess is when you want a GC so bad you'll do anything to get one, even if it means marrying someone you have zero intentions of staying with.

As I promised myself to post on this forum from time to time of my experience here I sit, and here we go; first to those that take offense simply don't read any farther and NO, I won't be defending my post. Some on here have become unofficial experts of my feelings and thoughts, and too you I say save your energy for your own approaching storm.

What really get me to this day is that many people that are going thru this visa journey already knows of someone that has been used for a GC or is currently being used for one but for some reason they think that it won't be the case with their alien spouse. I once read on this site in a thread where a women that was born and raised in Nigeria responded to a thread; she wrote that 98% ( can't remember her exact quote but it was in the nineties ) of marriages from Nigeria to US citizens are fraudulent, ofcourse she caught alot of heat from mad posters for her statement and way too many people trying to justiy their relationships with these fiances and husbands that they barely spent time with. Lets be for real a moment, most of us have spent less then one year physically with our (soon to be ) spouse. My neighbor from Uganda told me that in her country they have people employed to chat online and match up people wanting to come to America, they then pass that information over to whom hired them to meet an american online for marriage. Once the American commits, then their job is done. Then your actually dealing with the person your gonna marry.

I went to Nigeria the first time back in 2003, I was too scared to really site see plus my then fiance had to work alot, he had 2-jobs at 2 different hospitals and being that I'm in the medical field also, me going to work with him was right up my alley. I enjoyed watching him take care of his patients, going and getting report from the attending doctor he was relieving and just watching the way they handled their patients there in Lagos. ( totally different from America ) I was very grateful that God watched over me while I was there, no robbers came in the still of the night nor was there any problems of anyone trying to bring harm my way. ( To keep it real one run in with security at the airport while walking to his car, I now think he sat that up tho.) As you all know there are many alert warnings about traveling to Africa.

I believe that many Americans that choose to marry a Alien are strong willed middle to low class Americans, many still in school getting their Masters ( or lower ) degree. But these Americans are very strong willed. They have little to none experience concerning immigration nor the people from other countries. They don't know that many people in third world countries (educated, sucessful, married within their country ) have a desire to get to American no matter whom they hurt in the process. They don't know how easy it is for them to purchase fraudulent papers saying anything they want it to say. But in confidence they're Alien have told them just as my ex-husband has mentioned it to me. But again the confession of love from them tends to shade us Americans. They have a way of getting us to think that they're sharing their countries corruption with us so our relationship is legit with them.

I spent only 6-days in Nigeria the first visit, I was already won over but had to go so that we could say that we met in person. We talked on the phone alot, ofcourse it was me calling alot, he called me approx. 3-times a month give or take, but I was the aggressor once he professed his love for me.

For some reason I was under the inpression that he was poor, that he didn't have the means to call, ofcourse I didn't know that calling the states isn't an expensive call, it took me going there and calling my kids back here to understand that. ( plus he's a medical doctor there )

Many of us feel or are manipulated into thinking that once we meet these Aliens that we have to take care of them, I say stop that RIGHT NOW , ask yourself how were they survifing before you met them, and they had money to chat with you then, so you shouldn't have to be paying their way now. Unless your looking for a dependent husband/wife, because believe it or not, the way you treat them now is the way that they and their family is gonna expect you to continue to treat them, so for that family, don't provide unless you intend to continue providing. For all of you that have been to Nigeria we all know that most of the people there charge you for services based on what they feel you can pay. My then fiance would send the housekeeper from his work ( we lived at Bob Specialist Hospital where he lived in a one room provided for him) to get our eggs and tomatoes each morning cause according to him, they would charge me more once hearing my accent and knowing that I wasen't Nigerian.

Okay so much to tell but my son is preventing me from telling it cause he wants my time, but my caution is to all the newbies here, if you think you have found gold by finding a Alien , please take time to get to know that person. Many of us Americans are good hard working people that aren't aware of the manipulaion and lies that exist in a third world country, we don't know how bad many want to come to America nor what their willing to do to get here. I know that my ex-husband used me for American benefits and I'm stilll working to prove that I was not an abrusive spouse. It's funny how our goverment works, they take a Amercan citizen that has a clean record and believe someone from from a corrupt country and allows that person to tarnish their name.

My caution to all you at the beginning of your visa process is to live in your fiance's country before marrying them, you have to realize that your not dealing with your average joe just looking to get laid.

For those that have brought men here and now going thru hard times, please feel free to e-mail me, there are precautions that you can take if you realize u have been used. I'm willing to work with you. With dealing with my own situation I now know some things you can do to combat their many lies.

My son turned 3 this month, his Father, living in this same community has not seen him since he was one years old, but then , I now know he didn't come here to have a baby, but hey , a baby is solid proof of having a relationship with his spouse. So why not ??? If you don't put yourself in the mind frame of someone from a third world country, you will end up just as I did, but posting your story to help others is on you, I know many that have been used for American benefits don't post, they are just glad to get that abrusive person away from them, but that's not helping the cause. We Americans that fought so hard to get our Alien spouse's here must fight equally hard to let immigration know of the scams that we experienced. For professional people getting here thru marriage the I-360 seems to be their way of choice of leaving their American spouse, please become familiar with this I-360.

For the moderators, please allow my thread due to the fact that I'm sharing information concerning the Sub Sarharn, no where on this site does it say it has to be happy and positive. I admit that what I wrote is true so just let it ride.

To the newbies take heed, lest you bring a person here that means you MO good. This is my story, is much of it that I can write for now. As I said feel free to e-mail me, but if you met an Alien thru the internet and it seems too good to be true, it probably isn't true.

I'm thankful for having Victor Obinna Ezike Jr. I was over 40 when he was born, my ex-husband was still in his thirties, I hear that they are groomed and well studied on American immigration way before they come here, but again that's something they won't share with you especially if their intent is to leave you once they get their greencard.

To make a long story short, my ex-husband wanted to leave and there wasen't anything I could do or say to keep him here with me, I lost once I signed for the adjustment of statis, he was then able to scam his way from there. Please e-mail me and I'll tell you the signs to look out for as well as what to do to combat their defense against you.

I found another theme song for you.....

[ebonyqueen 0]

I'm one of the old school members here on VJ. I brought to this country ( the USA ) and married a Nigerian man back in 2004. I got pregnant 3-weeks of his arrival here, our son Victor Obinna Ezike Jr was the only joy that would come out of our union. I still can't understand why his father would name our son after himself then cut a total fool to leave his son behind. My guess is when you want a GC so bad you'll do anything to get one, even if it means marrying someone you have zero intentions of staying with.

As I promised myself to post on this forum from time to time of my experience here I sit, and here we go; first to those that take offense simply don't read any farther and NO, I won't be defending my post. Some on here have become unofficial experts of my feelings and thoughts, and too you I say save your energy for your own approaching storm.

What really get me to this day is that many people that are going thru this visa journey already knows of someone that has been used for a GC or is currently being used for one but for some reason they think that it won't be the case with their alien spouse. I once read on this site in a thread where a women that was born and raised in Nigeria responded to a thread; she wrote that 98% ( can't remember her exact quote but it was in the nineties ) of marriages from Nigeria to US citizens are fraudulent, ofcourse she caught alot of heat from mad posters for her statement and way too many people trying to justiy their relationships with these fiances and husbands that they barely spent time with. Lets be for real a moment, most of us have spent less then one year physically with our (soon to be ) spouse. My neighbor from Uganda told me that in her country they have people employed to chat online and match up people wanting to come to America, they then pass that information over to whom hired them to meet an american online for marriage. Once the American commits, then their job is done. Then your actually dealing with the person your gonna marry.

I went to Nigeria the first time back in 2003, I was too scared to really site see plus my then fiance had to work alot, he had 2-jobs at 2 different hospitals and being that I'm in the medical field also, me going to work with him was right up my alley. I enjoyed watching him take care of his patients, going and getting report from the attending doctor he was relieving and just watching the way they handled their patients there in Lagos. ( totally different from America ) I was very grateful that God watched over me while I was there, no robbers came in the still of the night nor was there any problems of anyone trying to bring harm my way. ( To keep it real one run in with security at the airport while walking to his car, I now think he sat that up tho.) As you all know there are many alert warnings about traveling to Africa.

I believe that many Americans that choose to marry a Alien are strong willed middle to low class Americans, many still in school getting their Masters ( or lower ) degree. But these Americans are very strong willed. They have little to none experience concerning immigration nor the people from other countries. They don't know that many people in third world countries (educated, sucessful, married within their country ) have a desire to get to American no matter whom they hurt in the process. They don't know how easy it is for them to purchase fraudulent papers saying anything they want it to say. But in confidence they're Alien have told them just as my ex-husband has mentioned it to me. But again the confession of love from them tends to shade us Americans. They have a way of getting us to think that they're sharing their countries corruption with us so our relationship is legit with them.

I spent only 6-days in Nigeria the first visit, I was already won over but had to go so that we could say that we met in person. We talked on the phone alot, ofcourse it was me calling alot, he called me approx. 3-times a month give or take, but I was the aggressor once he professed his love for me.

For some reason I was under the inpression that he was poor, that he didn't have the means to call, ofcourse I didn't know that calling the states isn't an expensive call, it took me going there and calling my kids back here to understand that. ( plus he's a medical doctor there )

Many of us feel or are manipulated into thinking that once we meet these Aliens that we have to take care of them, I say stop that RIGHT NOW , ask yourself how were they survifing before you met them, and they had money to chat with you then, so you shouldn't have to be paying their way now. Unless your looking for a dependent husband/wife, because believe it or not, the way you treat them now is the way that they and their family is gonna expect you to continue to treat them, so for that family, don't provide unless you intend to continue providing. For all of you that have been to Nigeria we all know that most of the people there charge you for services based on what they feel you can pay. My then fiance would send the housekeeper from his work ( we lived at Bob Specialist Hospital where he lived in a one room provided for him) to get our eggs and tomatoes each morning cause according to him, they would charge me more once hearing my accent and knowing that I wasen't Nigerian.

Okay so much to tell but my son is preventing me from telling it cause he wants my time, but my caution is to all the newbies here, if you think you have found gold by finding a Alien , please take time to get to know that person. Many of us Americans are good hard working people that aren't aware of the manipulaion and lies that exist in a third world country, we don't know how bad many want to come to America nor what their willing to do to get here. I know that my ex-husband used me for American benefits and I'm stilll working to prove that I was not an abrusive spouse. It's funny how our goverment works, they take a Amercan citizen that has a clean record and believe someone from from a corrupt country and allows that person to tarnish their name.

My caution to all you at the beginning of your visa process is to live in your fiance's country before marrying them, you have to realize that your not dealing with your average joe just looking to get laid.

For those that have brought men here and now going thru hard times, please feel free to e-mail me, there are precautions that you can take if you realize u have been used. I'm willing to work with you. With dealing with my own situation I now know some things you can do to combat their many lies.

My son turned 3 this month, his Father, living in this same community has not seen him since he was one years old, but then , I now know he didn't come here to have a baby, but hey , a baby is solid proof of having a relationship with his spouse. So why not ??? If you don't put yourself in the mind frame of someone from a third world country, you will end up just as I did, but posting your story to help others is on you, I know many that have been used for American benefits don't post, they are just glad to get that abrusive person away from them, but that's not helping the cause. We Americans that fought so hard to get our Alien spouse's here must fight equally hard to let immigration know of the scams that we experienced. For professional people getting here thru marriage the I-360 seems to be their way of choice of leaving their American spouse, please become familiar with this I-360.

For the moderators, please allow my thread due to the fact that I'm sharing information concerning the Sub Sarharn, no where on this site does it say it has to be happy and positive. I admit that what I wrote is true so just let it ride.

To the newbies take heed, lest you bring a person here that means you MO good. This is my story, is much of it that I can write for now. As I said feel free to e-mail me, but if you met an Alien thru the internet and it seems too good to be true, it probably isn't true.

I'm thankful for having Victor Obinna Ezike Jr. I was over 40 when he was born, my ex-husband was still in his thirties, I hear that they are groomed and well studied on American immigration way before they come here, but again that's something they won't share with you especially if their intent is to leave you once they get their greencard.

To make a long story short, my ex-husband wanted to leave and there wasen't anything I could do or say to keep him here with me, I lost once I signed for the adjustment of statis, he was then able to scam his way from there. Please e-mail me and I'll tell you the signs to look out for as well as what to do to combat their defense against you.

Looks like the "scam train" is up and running again! ALL ABOARD!!!!!!.....

But seriously IDOCARE..Why on God's green earth would you ever publicly disclose the name of your innocent child like this!!!! That is the most ignorant, irresponsible, thing you could ever do! It's one thing to have hate and revenge for your ex...but to drag your child into it is inexcusable! Like so many others have stated....it is not your story we take offense too..it's the way you seem to "sugarcoat" everything with a malicious undertone! And this recent post is proof that you have other motives besides trying to "share your story..or educate others". You are defaming the character of your ex by providing his full name...and you are using your child as a tool. SHAME ON YOU! I think you have serious issues, but thats just my opinion! And when you put something out there as foolishly as you do...you can expect the "court of public opinion" to answer back. I am extremely concerned for your child...and the means by which you are choosing to approach your hurt and anger.

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WAY TO GO EBONY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Ta Ta 1]

:star:

[William33 110]

Please be respectful of one another here, as we all have a unique history. Stop short of personal attacks.

Regards.

[ebonyqueen 0]

Please be respectful of one another here, as we all have a unique history. Stop short of personal attacks.

Regards.

You've got to be kidding me!!!!!!!! What does ones history have to do with broadcasting your child's name all over the internet in a derogatory manner?!!! And if I am not mistaken...didnt the OP start the personal attacks in the first place by giving the name, occupation and former place of residence..of her ex-husband...solely for the purpose of making his identity known! WOW!!!

If you can't take the heat...get out the kitchen!!!!!!!