Wife thinks husband married for green Card

[Black Velvet 4]

What is he doing that makes her think he is not in it for love?

Tell Wifey not to do any thing. As stated earlier, the conditional green card is only good for two years. What goes on in the dark will come out in the light. If he is truly using her for immigration purposes, it will be revealed in due time.

[wifey246 0]

Ask the wife to keep immigration out of the equation just for a minute or two.

Relationships go through certain phases. People change. Sometimes you never know the person until you're married and the honeymoon stage is over.

If they were a regular couple, would she put up with the perceived changes in her husband's personality? Would she put more effort on keeping the marriage and adjusting her expectations instead of being bitter and thinking of ways to punish him?

As important as immigration to our lives, let's not allow it to run our lives more than necessary.