IS YOUR WIFE THE SAME ONCE IN THE USA???

[Tim and Bethanie 1]

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We are doing it all wrong gals, we must play volleyball in cut off tops!

[Fandango 1,439]

can't make a hooker a housewife

[PalestineMyHeart 1,897]

This thread just gets better and better and better !

[TracyTN 237]

American men have two options: 1. Sportf*ck free American fuckdolls forever. 2. Settle down with a foreign girl who has no expectations.

Thank god for #2 for this dude. Lord knows he can't meet any expectations - not even low ones.

[rebeccajo 14]

Sportf*ck????????

*looks around for that gold medal*

[Fandango 1,439]

I seriously LOVE LOVE LOVE this site!

http://www.nomarriage.com/notmarry.html

Be Selfish Now

It's amazing how many people think that a guy looking for a good woman should do what's "fair" or what's socially responsible. ###### that. It's each guy's responsibility to find a woman that's the best possible choice for HIM. Who will make HIM happy. This one time, when he's choosing his future wife, he needs to focus exclusively on his own needs and making sure they are satisfied.

Trust us, nobody else in the world, least of all your wife, is worrying about your needs or wants. So you should worry about your own.

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Look for Wifely Qualities, Not Just Girlfriend Qualities. Women have been encouraged to chase relentlessly after personal fulfillment...being well-educated, physically fit, interesting, and financially secure. All these things are really great, and make for a wife who is nice to be around. BUT there are a whole other set of qualities that modern women have ignored...and even, avoided. These are the skills and habits that make them a good wife.

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What are good wifey skills?

Cooking, cleaning, mothering, nurturing, wants kids, loves kids, loyal, trustworthy.

What is important is that the wife does not have a real negative attitude towards doing those things. Any trace of snobbery at doing traditional female tasks is a bad sign of a princess.

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Never Marry a Woman Who has the Same Career Ambitions in a Similar Industry as You Do.

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# Never marry a woman whose father took off or was abusive to her mother UNLESS she got the right lesson from it ... the right lesson being that responsible men are to be adored and valued and their eccentricities and (mild, occasional) irresponsibilities tolerated.

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Never marry a woman who complains about your appearance, or even cares to much about it, beyond a "you aren't going to go to my mother's house in that wrinkly shirt." Let's face it: you're going to working hard to support her and the kids, and if you pack on some lbs or go gray, you don't want to worry about her deciding that it merits her having an affair.

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Never marry a woman who is sexually demanding in terms of your performance, who withholds sex on a regular basis on the grounds of headache or disinclination, or thinks she has a "right" to anything in particular sexually -- who, for example, will refuse you sex or make you keep doing things in bed on the grounds that you didn't get her off the last time. You are going to get older and fatter and her libido is going to go off a cliff as she gets older and has kids. If she is even slightly hard to deal with sexually now (in terms of giving it up, or in terms of demanding things from you now) she is going to be IMPOSSIBLE to deal with five years after marriage. You WILL have a marriage which is nearly sexless.

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Here is one of the most important tips: ignore what women say, and watch what they do. Your post reminded me of a female co-worker of mine who used to say she'd never date anyone from work. I liked her, so I waited till I quit to ask her out...whereupon, of course, I discovered she'd been f*cking the guy in the cube next to her for months.

Edited May 24, 2006 by LisaD

[AnaAndDaniel 0]

Sportf*ck????????

*looks around for that gold medal*

yeah, i woulda gone pro but i sprained my **** whilst in the middle of a playground #### in high school.

Daniel

:energetic:

[Fandango 1,439]

HAHAHAHHAHAH Daniel...

but don't even get me started on the 'time trials' portion of this joke.....

[AnaAndDaniel 0]

HAHAHAHHAHAH Daniel...

but don't even get me started on the 'time trials' portion of this joke.....

yeah, that was not my specialty, but i could give those guys a run for the money in a pinch.

Daniel

:energetic:

[ChasUK 0]

-Great sex every night.

Every night, huh? Wow! You two must be athletes!!

Only once a night!!!!

[kimlbs 0]

This post has just intruded on my little "virgin ears".....

[YnaYeBa0808 0]

hahahhaha... bite my tongue

Edited June 6, 2006 by YnaYeBa0808

[Satisfaction 1]

[eclowjpd 0]

Yes, I thought that my wife changed when she arrived, when the honeymoon was quickly over, all of my time outside of work was expected to be teaching her the American way, finding her a job and helping her improve her English. But when she went after my house and other assets, I woke up and realized she had not really changed at all, but this is what she was like all the long. She was not here for love.

[tigretigre 0]

Here's a stumper for you guys who despair over the state of American womanhood and yearn for the return of "traditional" women:

There are traditions, and then again there are traditions.

Having a strong sense of personal independence is a very American tradition. Our culture places a lot of emphasis on preserving individuality, self-reliance, and personal initiative.

American women who adopt these values are living in the tradition of Benjamin Franklin, Lewis and Clark, Fredrick Douglass, [insert name of personal American hero here] every bit as much as their male counterparts.

My fiance is coming from the UK to be with me. He is coming here primarily because my career is here, and I am currently the family wage earner. He plans to stay at home--he is recovering from a long-term illness, and is enthusiastic about the prospect of being a "house husband" anyway. He's a writer by profession, so he will probably get back into his work gradually. My work brings in a more predictable income and has more market security. If we were to have children, it would obviously make the most sense for him to stay home and look after the children while I continued to work. To earn money to provide for the family. I could not do this if I were not hardworking and ambitious in my profession, if I did not strive to stand out as talented and driven. It is thanks to generations of men AND women pursuing American ideals of independence and self-reliance that I am able to marry the man I love dearly and have a family with him.

That is as traditional a story as anything you'd find in America, now or two hundred years ago. And I even managed to talk about tradition without discussing cooking and cleaning, or proper wifely deportment. It sure would be nice if we could stop deconstructing everyone's daily lives in search of some "ultimate answer" to the question of how women and men should fulfill their respective roles.

Tigre