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Actually, I was just trying to make a point about how RIDICULOUS it is for people to make sweeping generalizations about ALL the men or ALL the women of an ENTIRE COUNTRY.

But it seems some people actually believe their own hype.

I assume that hardtodescribe was giving her empirical impressions of the two cultures. :)

Your screen name may be recently registered, but there's something somehow familiar about your style of phrasing....

Anyone seen Sriniv lately ?

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Actually, I was just trying to make a point about how RIDICULOUS it is for people to make sweeping generalizations about ALL the men or ALL the women of an ENTIRE COUNTRY.

But it seems some people actually believe their own hype.

I assume that hardtodescribe was giving her empirical impressions of the two cultures. :)

Your screen name may be recently registered, but there's something somehow familiar about your style of phrasing....

Anyone seen Sriniv lately ?

LOL good call MK - i thought the same thing when i reached for my dictionary to look up the meaning of Uxorious :whistle:

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All I know is that my Yank girlfriend is good at cooking, laundry, housework etc, she's a great way for me to get into the US so I can become a male prossy and deal drugs. :lol:

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:lol::lol: You two crack me up! I am gonna use male prossy in a sentence! :thumbs:

Heheh. Well, ####### me backwards with a bargepole, I appear to be starting trends with vocabulary.

;):D

....also, is it just my girl, or do other Brit guys notice their other halves swooning when they say words like fourteen, (pronounced four 'een)? :lol:

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To the Columbian Lady "Hard to Describe"

You're really a lucky lucky person: London, Paris, Italy and now a new house.

Good Luck in America

Yes.. and also Aruba, Peru, Africa, Brazil!! but mostly the privilege to spend my life with the love of my life... I agree it is stupid to generalize a culture.. it is true so guys, thanks for making realize that. I guess I am just SOO happy with my life here and my husband that I look for reasons to understand why me?? Why I am the lucky one???

K1 I-129F (Nebraska) Nov 6, 03

Nov 6, 03 - Mar 5, 04 . Nebraska falls hopelessly behind on K1s

Mar 6, 04 . Married in Colombia...at that point in time appeared that we would be together faster marrying and starting over with a K3.

Mar 6,15, 04 . Honeymoon. and during this time Nebraska processes 4 months of visas in 2 weeks..upon return, we find K1 approved but must start over with K3

I-130 NOA1.. Mailed March 17, 04

I-130..Transfered to California on Sep 29/2004

I-130.. Touched Sep 30/2004

I-130 .. APROVED!!! October 29/2004!!!!! Only one month In California!! Thanks GOD!

K3 I-129F NOA1 March 23, 04

K3 I-129F.. Touched Sep 21, 22, and 23

K3 I-129F OCTOBER 07!!FOUND OUT FROM NVC WE'RE APPROVED AND APPLICATION LEFT NVC FOR THE EMBASSY ApprovalDAY 198September 23? I think so. DAY 198 was a great day.

K3 I-129F October 20, 04. Package 3 recieved at my house

K3 I-129F October 20, 04. Package 3 returned at the Embassy (the same day) we are very fast.

K3 I-129 Dec 09,04 Interview in Bogota..It was so so easy. They did not make questions.

K3 I-129 December 16,04 Recieve passport home

K3 I-129 December 20. My love arrives to pick me up

K3 I-129 December 23. I leave Colombia to Move to USA!!!! IM HOME!!

P.S. I LOVE my wife!!!! She is worth it all!

P.S: Im CRAZY about my husband!! HE IS THE BEST MAN IN THE WORLD!!

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All I know is that my Yank girlfriend is good at cooking, laundry, housework etc, she's a great way for me to get into the US so I can become a male prossy and deal drugs. :lol:

hah.gif

:lol::lol: You two crack me up! I am gonna use male prossy in a sentence! :thumbs:

Heheh. Well, ####### me backwards with a bargepole, I appear to be starting trends with vocabulary.

;):D

....also, is it just my girl, or do other Brit guys notice their other halves swooning when they say words like fourteen, (pronounced four 'een)? :lol:

Hahahahaha Tracy...nope, it's not just your girl!!! :blush: For some reason, Craig says Eigh'een a lot!! :) PS...and...he's getting up in about 1/2 hour to start his (about 24 hour!!) journey HOME!!!! :dance::dance::dance: Blimey, I'm gonna be chuffed to see that bloke!!! hahahah did that make ANY sense??? :) M.

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All I know is that my Yank girlfriend is good at cooking, laundry, housework etc, she's a great way for me to get into the US so I can become a male prossy and deal drugs. :lol:

hah.gif

:lol::lol: You two crack me up! I am gonna use male prossy in a sentence! :thumbs:

Heheh. Well, ####### me backwards with a bargepole, I appear to be starting trends with vocabulary.

;):D

....also, is it just my girl, or do other Brit guys notice their other halves swooning when they say words like fourteen, (pronounced four 'een)? :lol:

Hahahahaha Tracy...nope, it's not just your girl!!! :blush: For some reason, Craig says Eigh'een a lot!! :) PS...and...he's getting up in about 1/2 hour to start his (about 24 hour!!) journey HOME!!!! :dance::dance::dance: Blimey, I'm gonna be chuffed to see that bloke!!! hahahah did that make ANY sense??? :) M.

It does to anyone who speaks or undertands brit english! hahaha never thought I would hear it from an american!

I am glad that he's going back now, I hope you have a lovely welcome pressie prepared!

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You girls kill me. Not only do you belittle and insult those of us males who disagree with you, but then you completely ignore, discount, or even make fun of the eloquent posts of several non-American women who have posted similar opinions... or who at least have offered their own remarks from the "outside." I guess the views of these women don't matter either because they come from "archaic" countries and have been oppressed for so long that they really can't think on their own like you liberated, empowered, know-it-all b*tches. Yes, I agree with what someone said many posts back, that you've done a very good job proving our point for us. I don't think one of us has a problem with our SO's changing and growing, but I hope to God that none of them turn into you. Just like I hope all those foreign men of yours know what they're getting into.

I-129F (K-1 Fiancee Visa)

11/29/05 sent I-129F

12/07/05 rec'd NOA1

03/06/06 rec'd NOA2

03/21/06 NVC case# assigned

03/22/06 case left NVC for Bogota

03/24/06 package rec'd in Bogota

03/28/06 packet 3 mailed from embassy

04/12/06 called embassy and requested to re-send packet 3

04/18/06 faxed and mailed packet 3

04/21/06 rec'd BOTH packet 3's...

05/01/06 rec'd packet 4

05/24/06 interview - APROBADO!!

06/03/06 flew to Barranquilla

06/05/06 back in the States with my novia

09/01/06 MARRIED!!

I-485 (AOS) / I-765 (EAD)

09/19/06 sent I-485 and I-765

09/29/06 rec'd NOA for I-485 and I-765

10/10/06 AOS transferred to CSC

10/20/06 biometrics appt.

10/26/06 I-485 APPROVED, welcome letter sent!

10/30/06 welcome letter rec'd in the mail

11/02/06 REC'D GREEN CARD!

I-751 (Removal of Conditions)

07/30/08 sent I-751

08/15/08 rec'd NOA from VSC

09/10/08 biometrics appt.

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Interesting that we are 'girls' (not to mention b*tches! :lol: ) but the non-American's are 'women'. ;)

At any rate, this topic screams for the 'beating a dead horse' emote. We decided to say sod it and just have a laugh.

Sorry if that isn't interesting reading for ya!

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Actually, I was just trying to make a point about how RIDICULOUS it is for people to make sweeping generalizations about ALL the men or ALL the women of an ENTIRE COUNTRY.

But it seems some people actually believe their own hype.

I assume that hardtodescribe was giving her empirical impressions of the two cultures. :)

Your screen name may be recently registered, but there's something somehow familiar about your style of phrasing....

Anyone seen Sriniv lately ?

Good try! But, no I'm not Sriniv. I am an oldtimer but one who ain't as prolific a poster as many of the oldtimers hanging around VJ.

Well, my SO has been here for a year and a half and we are doing pretty good except for a yelling match here and a screamiing episode there :)

Other than that, we've bought a new house which we both love. Myself got promoted which turned out to be a bane rather than a boon. Job got more demanding but have learned to adjust overtime.

So, all in all, things are as peachy as they can get!!

A year and a half later we are strictly abiding by "Cleanliness is Holiness" doctrine. That means we do our laundry every day or every other day despite 17 years age difference. Can't hold myself back from boasting. :whistle:

And we do organic laundry. No man-made chemicals involved... no viagra, no cialis :yes:

This is uxorious reporting from somewhere in the U.S. of A.

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A year and a half later we are strictly abiding by "Cleanliness is Holiness" doctrine. That means we do our laundry every day or every other day despite 17 years age difference. Can't hold myself back from boasting. :whistle:

And we do organic laundry. No man-made chemicals involved... no viagra, no cialis :yes:

errr...ok... so?

and now... :ot2:

I don't think one of us has a problem with our SO's changing and growing, but I hope to God that none of them turn into you. Just like I hope all those foreign men of yours know what they're getting into.

oh dear....

Foreign man happy and content 2 1/2 years into the marriage and 1 year here...thanks very much for your concern though... :D

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A year and a half later we are strictly abiding by "Cleanliness is Holiness" doctrine. That means we do our laundry every day or every other day despite 17 years age difference. Can't hold myself back from boasting. :whistle:

And we do organic laundry. No man-made chemicals involved... no viagra, no cialis :yes:

errr...ok... so?

and now... :ot2:

I don't think one of us has a problem with our SO's changing and growing, but I hope to God that none of them turn into you. Just like I hope all those foreign men of yours know what they're getting into.

oh dear....

Foreign man happy and content 2 1/2 years into the marriage and 1 year here...thanks very much for your concern though... :D

Glad to hear it! But just wait until those old-fashioned, bigoted, oppressive American men get a hold of you!

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I-129F (K-1 Fiancee Visa)

11/29/05 sent I-129F

12/07/05 rec'd NOA1

03/06/06 rec'd NOA2

03/21/06 NVC case# assigned

03/22/06 case left NVC for Bogota

03/24/06 package rec'd in Bogota

03/28/06 packet 3 mailed from embassy

04/12/06 called embassy and requested to re-send packet 3

04/18/06 faxed and mailed packet 3

04/21/06 rec'd BOTH packet 3's...

05/01/06 rec'd packet 4

05/24/06 interview - APROBADO!!

06/03/06 flew to Barranquilla

06/05/06 back in the States with my novia

09/01/06 MARRIED!!

I-485 (AOS) / I-765 (EAD)

09/19/06 sent I-485 and I-765

09/29/06 rec'd NOA for I-485 and I-765

10/10/06 AOS transferred to CSC

10/20/06 biometrics appt.

10/26/06 I-485 APPROVED, welcome letter sent!

10/30/06 welcome letter rec'd in the mail

11/02/06 REC'D GREEN CARD!

I-751 (Removal of Conditions)

07/30/08 sent I-751

08/15/08 rec'd NOA from VSC

09/10/08 biometrics appt.

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Good try! But, no I'm not Sriniv. I am an oldtimer but one who ain't as prolific a poster as many of the oldtimers hanging around VJ.

Well, my SO has been here for a year and a half and we are doing pretty good except for a yelling match here and a screamiing episode there :)

Other than that, we've bought a new house which we both love. Myself got promoted which turned out to be a bane rather than a boon. Job got more demanding but have learned to adjust overtime.

So, all in all, things are as peachy as they can get!!

A year and a half later we are strictly abiding by "Cleanliness is Holiness" doctrine. That means we do our laundry every day or every other day despite 17 years age difference. Can't hold myself back from boasting. :whistle:

And we do organic laundry. No man-made chemicals involved... no viagra, no cialis :yes:

This is uxorious reporting from somewhere in the U.S. of A.

Whoa. :huh:

No offense, but I really don't think anyone on here cares how much laundry you do, how often you do it, or how well your organic sausage is cookin'. Ew. :blink:

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