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[Nita&Assaad 0]

Yeah I know what you feel... You need to be in the click...

I am writing this topic becuase i hope i'm am not the only one who feels this way. I feel when i go to a vj party i get everyone to say hi to me, then the rest of the time i am totally ignored. I may comment on something and nobody comments back or say good by and nobody else says anything back. I get this from work and get it from home, and know its not my imagination. So i think i will stop the parties and if i continue to feel this way may quit visa journey all together.

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

Yeah I know what you feel... You need to be in the click...

I am writing this topic becuase i hope i'm am not the only one who feels this way. I feel when i go to a vj party i get everyone to say hi to me, then the rest of the time i am totally ignored. I may comment on something and nobody comments back or say good by and nobody else says anything back. I get this from work and get it from home, and know its not my imagination. So i think i will stop the parties and if i continue to feel this way may quit visa journey all together.

I have been here since last April. I posted and posted and no one replied and I just kept posting. Its a bulletin board. It takes a while to get to know people. As far as people needing to feel catered to, this in my opinion is just dumb. For God's sake, get a little bit of a personality and post what you like. I mean over 40 years old and you need affirmation in a chat room? #######? This is just silly. There is no "clique" here. If you post long enough and contribute, people will eventually start talking to you ,etc.

I have had my share of arguments and conflicts and finally my husband is here THANK GOD. But the reality is, I think some people are just too co dependent for my taste. Buck up and post some topics and just answer posts and you will make friends. Whiney doesn't cut it unless you have a real reason for whining

[terrie/kamal 0]

Yeah I know what you feel... You need to be in the click...

I am writing this topic becuase i hope i'm am not the only one who feels this way. I feel when i go to a vj party i get everyone to say hi to me, then the rest of the time i am totally ignored. I may comment on something and nobody comments back or say good by and nobody else says anything back. I get this from work and get it from home, and know its not my imagination. So i think i will stop the parties and if i continue to feel this way may quit visa journey all together.

I have been here since last April. I posted and posted and no one replied and I just kept posting. Its a bulletin board. It takes a while to get to know people. As far as people needing to feel catered to, this in my opinion is just dumb. For God's sake, get a little bit of a personality and post what you like. I mean over 40 years old and you need affirmation in a chat room? #######? This is just silly. There is no "clique" here. If you post long enough and contribute, people will eventually start talking to you ,etc.

I have had my share of arguments and conflicts and finally my husband is here THANK GOD. But the reality is, I think some people are just too co dependent for my taste. Buck up and post some topics and just answer posts and you will make friends. Whiney doesn't cut it unless you have a real reason for whining

Wow excuse me but i think you you are way out of it. I posted this not to whine but to let people know there are other people out there that go in the chat rooms and don't even get a hi for ####### sake. i post topics and answer posts and have friends. I just was a little whacked out because when i did try to say something i wasn't answered or when i said goodbye. You don't have to be so snotty about the whole thing #######.

[doodlebugg 10]

[amal 4]

WOAH wah.. I didn't see it as whining rather than expressing her frustrations. I know I've done that before as well. Ease up on her a little bit. She didn't say she didn't have friends but was frustrated at the feeling of being ignored (possibly intentionally ignored) and wanted answers. It's all good

[terrie/kamal 0]

WOAH wah.. I didn't see it as whining rather than expressing her frustrations. I know I've done that before as well. Ease up on her a little bit. She didn't say she didn't have friends but was frustrated at the feeling of being ignored (possibly intentionally ignored) and wanted answers. It's all good

thank you amal

[~Jackie~ 30]

As wonderful as our chat room is (and thank you Ewok, it is much better than the old chat room) there is a delay. Alot of times someone will come in and because of lag,,you may not show up immediately. Also, as you are leaving, you may type goodbye, and because of lag, the rest of the room may not see it until you are already left, thus you dont see all the goodbyes intended for you.

Amal and I greet everyone upon entering and usally say bye unless we are up going pee. Then we watch the door for each other. I just don't know what else we can do to make someone welcome (velkom if its amal watching the door).

Man, some days I could only WISH i was ignored

Jackie

[amal 4]

any time girl...

[amal 4]

As wonderful as our chat room is (and thank you Ewok, it is much better than the old chat room) there is a delay. Alot of times someone will come in and because of lag,,you may not show up immediately. Also, as you are leaving, you may type goodbye, and because of lag, the rest of the room may not see it until you are already left, thus you dont see all the goodbyes intended for you.

Amal and I greet everyone upon entering and usally say bye unless we are up going pee. Then we watch the door for each other. I just don't know what else we can do to make someone welcome (velkom if its amal watching the door).

Man, some days I could only WISH i was ignored

Jackie

alright..u are officially ignored for the rest of today... wish granted....

noooooooooooooooo I CAN'T DO IT... wish taken back!

Yeah That is all too true about ppl saying goodbye after a person signs out. I know that I've said goodbye to many-a-person and as soon as I hit enter, chat says they've left the room..its like..CRAPOLA they missed it... The delay is a pain in the butt..especially in trivia contests (which lulu is the high and mighty winner of). I know that I've had to ask the same questions multiple times until they see it OR they get tired of me asking the same question LOL (i do have a tendancy to be annoying lol!!!!!)

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

As wonderful as our chat room is (and thank you Ewok, it is much better than the old chat room) there is a delay. Alot of times someone will come in and because of lag,,you may not show up immediately. Also, as you are leaving, you may type goodbye, and because of lag, the rest of the room may not see it until you are already left, thus you dont see all the goodbyes intended for you.

Amal and I greet everyone upon entering and usally say bye unless we are up going pee. Then we watch the door for each other. I just don't know what else we can do to make someone welcome (velkom if its amal watching the door).

Man, some days I could only WISH i was ignored

Jackie

Ok

Well I think its just silly. Its not even a voice chat. Its a rolling java chat. Now we have to be concerned with VJ chat etiquette. Oh put your big girl panties on and lighten up. I couldnt imagine getting miffed because everyone didnt stop their conversation and acknowledge me me me me. Gees.

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

WOAH wah.. I didn't see it as whining rather than expressing her frustrations. I know I've done that before as well. Ease up on her a little bit. She didn't say she didn't have friends but was frustrated at the feeling of being ignored (possibly intentionally ignored) and wanted answers. It's all good

No one around here has EVER intentionally ignored ANYONE. It just comes off as high maintanance and whiney, whatever her intentions were. It just seems silly that someone 40 plus would be upset if someone didnt say hi in chat.

And then to come on here and threaten to leave. Pout ,pout ,pout. It just seems very childish. Your environment is what you make it and people are what you make it and there were a lot less "whiney" ways to get the boards attention

[Jenn! 918]

As wonderful as our chat room is (and thank you Ewok, it is much better than the old chat room) there is a delay. Alot of times someone will come in and because of lag,,you may not show up immediately. Also, as you are leaving, you may type goodbye, and because of lag, the rest of the room may not see it until you are already left, thus you dont see all the goodbyes intended for you.

Amal and I greet everyone upon entering and usally say bye unless we are up going pee. Then we watch the door for each other. I just don't know what else we can do to make someone welcome (velkom if its amal watching the door).

Man, some days I could only WISH i was ignored

Jackie

Ok

Well I think its just silly. Its not even a voice chat. Its a rolling java chat. Now we have to be concerned with VJ chat etiquette. Oh put your big girl panties on and lighten up. I couldnt imagine getting miffed because everyone didnt stop their conversation and acknowledge me me me me. Gees.

This must be just a personality thing. I've already expressed how I felt about it, and I was really shocked to see so many people come out and say they've felt the same way (or at least verbalize that they have felt the same way). I really did not know this was a sort of issue that adults deal with.

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

As wonderful as our chat room is (and thank you Ewok, it is much better than the old chat room) there is a delay. Alot of times someone will come in and because of lag,,you may not show up immediately. Also, as you are leaving, you may type goodbye, and because of lag, the rest of the room may not see it until you are already left, thus you dont see all the goodbyes intended for you.

Amal and I greet everyone upon entering and usally say bye unless we are up going pee. Then we watch the door for each other. I just don't know what else we can do to make someone welcome (velkom if its amal watching the door).

Man, some days I could only WISH i was ignored

Jackie

Ok

Well I think its just silly. Its not even a voice chat. Its a rolling java chat. Now we have to be concerned with VJ chat etiquette. Oh put your big girl panties on and lighten up. I couldnt imagine getting miffed because everyone didnt stop their conversation and acknowledge me me me me. Gees.

This must be just a personality thing. I've already expressed how I felt about it, and I was really shocked to see so many people come out and say they've felt the same way (or at least verbalize that they have felt the same way). I really did not know this was a sort of issue that adults deal with.

Its not. Its an issue whiney co dependent adults deal with.Like the episode of Housewives of New York City where Ramona didnt invite the other woman to her cooking party and there was a whole episode where one socialite was snubbed and the others didnt get to go. . Its just childish. If people dont say hi, hang out a little longer, contribute positively and they will eventually. What got me is her threatening to leave like a temper tantrum, not expressing sadness in not being talked to. If you want friends, you have to reach out and be a friend, not whine and pout and wait for all the mother hens to come nuture you. This is the kind of stuff kids do. Not socially adept adults.

[terrie/kamal 0]

WOAH wah.. I didn't see it as whining rather than expressing her frustrations. I know I've done that before as well. Ease up on her a little bit. She didn't say she didn't have friends but was frustrated at the feeling of being ignored (possibly intentionally ignored) and wanted answers. It's all good

No one around here has EVER intentionally ignored ANYONE. It just comes off as high maintanance and whiney, whatever her intentions were. It just seems silly that someone 40 plus would be upset if someone didnt say hi in chat.

And then to come on here and threaten to leave. Pout ,pout ,pout. It just seems very childish. Your environment is what you make it and people are what you make it and there were a lot less "whiney" ways to get the boards attention

BITE ME!!

[RAKASA 0]

BITE ME!!

Well, that's the way to win friends & influence people..........