Jump to content
terrie/kamal

Ignored

By terrie/kamal in Middle East and North Africa

 Share

179 posts in this topic

Recommended Posts

SqdnGuns Proficient

SqdnGuns   21

Posted
Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Thailand
 Timeline
Posted
I am writing this topic becuase i hope i'm am not the only one who feels this way. I feel when i go to a vj party i get everyone to say hi to me, then the rest of the time i am totally ignored. I may comment on something and nobody comments back or say good by and nobody else says anything back. I get this from work and get it from home, and know its not my imagination. So i think i will stop the parties and if i continue to feel this way may quit visa journey all together.

If you get ignored at work and home as well as VJ parties, do you need a bigger clue?

  • Replies 178
  • Created
  • Last Reply

Top Posters In This Topic

Popular Days

Top Posters In This Topic

Popular Days

Popular Posts

Jenn!
Jenn!

The defense rests.

terrie/kamal Collaborator

terrie/kamal   0

Posted
Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Morocco
 Timeline
  • Author
Posted
I am writing this topic becuase i hope i'm am not the only one who feels this way. I feel when i go to a vj party i get everyone to say hi to me, then the rest of the time i am totally ignored. I may comment on something and nobody comments back or say good by and nobody else says anything back. I get this from work and get it from home, and know its not my imagination. So i think i will stop the parties and if i continue to feel this way may quit visa journey all together.

If you get ignored at work and home as well as VJ parties, do you need a bigger clue?

Well at home and at work its a selective hearing things so what kind of clue do i need charles?

Consulate : Morocco

I-129F Sent : 2007-03-16

129F NOA1 : 2007-03-23

I-129F NOA2 : 2007-07-30

Interview Date : 2007-09-06

Visa Received : 2007-09-17

US Entry : 2007-10-15

Marriage : 2007-10-20

Adjustment of Status

Date Filed : 2007-11-25

NOA Date : 2007-11-29

Bio. Appt. : 2007-12-21

Interview Date : 2008-03-12

Approval / Denial Date : 2008-04-02

Approved : Yes

Greencard Received: 2008-04-13

Employment Authorization Document

Date Filed : 2007-11-25

NOA Date : 2007-11-29

Approved Date : 2008-01-28

Date Card Received : 2008-02-01

~*Dorothy*~ Proficient

~*Dorothy*~   2

Posted
Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Morocco
 Timeline
Posted
By the way, husband was told to leave his passport at the embassy today. :whistle: I know you all will just ignore that, but I wanted to tell you anyway. (joking) :D

Congrats - getting closer and closer to the victory dance.... :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance:

______________________________________________________________

Citizenship (N-400)

09/15/2009 - Application mailed to Texas Lockbox

09/17/2009 - Delivered to the Lockbox

09/21/2009 - Check cashed

09/24/2009 - NOA dated 9/18/09

09/26/2009 - RFE mailed out dated 9/25 (biometrics notice)

10/14/2009 - Biometrics completed

01/01/2010 - finally an update - awaiting interview letter

02/08/2010 - interview (Garden City, NY) -- PASSED

03/03/2010 - Oath Ceremony in Brooklyn

03/13/2010 - U.S. Passport in hand

DONE!!!

Ban Hammer Grand Master

Ban Hammer   13,491

Posted
Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Brazil
 Timeline
Posted
I am writing this topic becuase i hope i'm am not the only one who feels this way. I feel when i go to a vj party i get everyone to say hi to me, then the rest of the time i am totally ignored. I may comment on something and nobody comments back or say good by and nobody else says anything back. I get this from work and get it from home, and know its not my imagination. So i think i will stop the parties and if i continue to feel this way may quit visa journey all together.

If you get ignored at work and home as well as VJ parties, do you need a bigger clue?

Well at home and at work its a selective hearing things so what kind of clue do i need charles?

don't ask me, ask Ting Tong Farang.........

* ~ * Charles * ~ *
 

I carry a gun because a cop is too heavy.

 

USE THE REPORT BUTTON INSTEAD OF MESSAGING A MODERATOR!

tammy2688 Proficient

tammy2688   1

Posted
Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Bangladesh
 Timeline
Posted

Good Lord why to ppl like ting tong fong i dont even know....have to butt in and put salt on a wound...Terrie forget this ####### and enjoy the love you have recieved tonight. God knows we don't need ANOTHER reason to feel bad....this visa journey is enough :wacko:

AP: Over 1 year.

Visa: Nov 2

US Entry: Nov 13, Alhamdulillah.

BelieveButterflyfortile.jpgPrayerisPower_Cover.jpghello.gif

Abderrahim/Kodi Contributor

Abderrahim/Kodi   0

Posted
Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Morocco
 Timeline
Posted
Good Lord why to ppl like ting tong fong i dont even know....have to butt in and put salt on a wound...Terrie forget this ####### and enjoy the love you have recieved tonight. God knows we don't need ANOTHER reason to feel bad....this visa journey is enough :wacko:

:D

When the happiness of another person becomes as essential to yourself as your own, then the state of love exists.

BarbSami Explorer

BarbSami   32

Posted
Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Tunisia
 Timeline
Posted
Good Lord why to ppl like ting tong fong i dont even know....have to butt in and put salt on a wound...Terrie forget this ####### and enjoy the love you have recieved tonight. God knows we don't need ANOTHER reason to feel bad....this visa journey is enough :wacko:

Terrie,

Ive been a member since 2004. I havent posted alot but when I had a problem and posted about it there were alot of women here that came to my rescue with kindness,understanding and heart warming words. Plz dont feel that you are being ignored by them, I feel too that some are more closer than others b/c they have bonded but you can bond also it just take time and you have the opportunity to bond as well.

And as far as your feeling of being ignored out side of VJ, plz dont let the reactions by others determine who you are. As for as I am concerned it is never how someone think of me but how I think of me. Going through the visa process is enough stress.

I am a peaceful person being mean and unconsiderate of others feelings is not my cup of tea. I hope you are feeling better now.

Barb

Mina76 Experienced

Mina76   0

Posted
Filed: Country: Turkey
 Timeline
Posted
I feel ignored.... I went to chat and no one was there! phooey! I think everyone left intentionally before I got there. I even brought a pineapple!

but I think you get some kind of special prize for using the word PHOOEY!

:rofl:

1803363hy9lzatt1e.gif avatar_ani_050.gifSOON TO BE HAPPILY DIVORCED! avatar_ani_052.gif 1803363hy9lzatt1e.gif

palilover Rising Star

palilover   1

Posted
Filed: Country: Palestine
 Timeline
Posted

Well, everyone feels down sometimes about various things. And yes, people do feel ignored sometimes. I'm no exception to this:) Sometimes it just depends on if you have a connection with somene or some people and sometimes it is just coincidence. Just be yourself and it will all turn out ok in the end somehow, someway.

June 14, 2007 Sent I130 to Vermont Service Center via USPS overnight

June 15, 2007 Confirmed on usps.com that VSC has received packet

June 29, 2007 Check cashed by USCIS (hey they opened my packet!)

June 30, 2007 Received NOA1

July 7, 2007 I130 touched

July 9, 2007 I130 touched

July 10, 2007 I130 touched

Aug. 24, 2007 I130 touched

Aug. 26, 2007 I130 touched (stop feeling up my husband's case and get him over here, yala!)

Oct. 1, 2007 On my way to Palestine

Oct. 5, 2007 I130 approved, transferrerd to NVC YAY!!!!

Oct. 16, 2007 Return to US, ranks one of the saddest day of my life:(

Oct. 27, 2007 Agent form/AOS bill received from NVC

Nov 1, 2007 Overnighted AOS payment to NVC

Nov. 29, 2007 Received AOS form from NVC

Dec. 20, 2007 overnighted I864 packet to NVC

palilover Rising Star

palilover   1

Posted
Filed: Country: Palestine
 Timeline
Posted

Oh yeah and speaking generally about internet chats (not just VJ in particular), many people have various chat styles. Some sit glued to the chat screen looking at every word silently while others are more outgoing. Other, such as myself, multitask. We keep the window open but we aer doing other things too. We're not ignoring anyone, it's just our nature, lol I'm a professional multitasker:) So it's nothing personal against anyone. But speaking generally abuot VJ chagt, I cannot go in too much (althogh I am in now hoping that the sandbox was still going on but it's 1:15AM EST...).....since my work censors intetrnet I cannot go on chat and since I practically live at work....well you get the drift:(

June 14, 2007 Sent I130 to Vermont Service Center via USPS overnight

June 15, 2007 Confirmed on usps.com that VSC has received packet

June 29, 2007 Check cashed by USCIS (hey they opened my packet!)

June 30, 2007 Received NOA1

July 7, 2007 I130 touched

July 9, 2007 I130 touched

July 10, 2007 I130 touched

Aug. 24, 2007 I130 touched

Aug. 26, 2007 I130 touched (stop feeling up my husband's case and get him over here, yala!)

Oct. 1, 2007 On my way to Palestine

Oct. 5, 2007 I130 approved, transferrerd to NVC YAY!!!!

Oct. 16, 2007 Return to US, ranks one of the saddest day of my life:(

Oct. 27, 2007 Agent form/AOS bill received from NVC

Nov 1, 2007 Overnighted AOS payment to NVC

Nov. 29, 2007 Received AOS form from NVC

Dec. 20, 2007 overnighted I864 packet to NVC

tammy2688 Proficient

tammy2688   1

Posted
Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Bangladesh
 Timeline
Posted
Good Lord why to ppl like ting tong fong i dont even know....have to butt in and put salt on a wound...Terrie forget this ####### and enjoy the love you have recieved tonight. God knows we don't need ANOTHER reason to feel bad....this visa journey is enough :wacko:

Terrie,

Ive been a member since 2004. I havent posted alot but when I had a problem and posted about it there were alot of women here that came to my rescue with kindness,understanding and heart warming words. Plz dont feel that you are being ignored by them, I feel too that some are more closer than others b/c they have bonded but you can bond also it just take time and you have the opportunity to bond as well.

And as far as your feeling of being ignored out side of VJ, plz dont let the reactions by others determine who you are. As for as I am concerned it is never how someone think of me but how I think of me. Going through the visa process is enough stress.

I am a peaceful person being mean and unconsiderate of others feelings is not my cup of tea. I hope you are feeling better now.

Barb

:thumbs:

Good Lord why to ppl like ting tong fong i dont even know....have to butt in and put salt on a wound...Terrie forget this ####### and enjoy the love you have recieved tonight. God knows we don't need ANOTHER reason to feel bad....this visa journey is enough :wacko:

:D

Congratulations babe! :dance::dance::dance::dance::dance:(L):dance::dance::dance::dance::dance:

Tammy

AP: Over 1 year.

Visa: Nov 2

US Entry: Nov 13, Alhamdulillah.

BelieveButterflyfortile.jpgPrayerisPower_Cover.jpghello.gif

 
Didn't find the answer you were looking for? Ask our VJ Immigration Lawyers.
Guest
This topic is now closed to further replies.
 Share
Go to topic listing
- Back to Top -

Important Disclaimer: Please read carefully the Visajourney.com Terms of Service. If you do not agree to the Terms of Service you should not access or view any page (including this page) on VisaJourney.com. Answers and comments provided on Visajourney.com Forums are general information, and are not intended to substitute for informed professional medical, psychiatric, psychological, tax, legal, investment, accounting, or other professional advice. Visajourney.com does not endorse, and expressly disclaims liability for any product, manufacturer, distributor, service or service provider mentioned or any opinion expressed in answers or comments. VisaJourney.com does not condone immigration fraud in any way, shape or manner. VisaJourney.com recommends that if any member or user knows directly of someone involved in fraudulent or illegal activity, that they report such activity directly to the Department of Homeland Security, Immigration and Customs Enforcement. You can contact ICE via email at Immigration.Reply@dhs.gov or you can telephone ICE at 1-866-347-2423. All reported threads/posts containing reference to immigration fraud or illegal activities will be removed from this board. If you feel that you have found inappropriate content, please let us know by contacting us here with a url link to that content. Thank you.
×
×
  • Create New...