question..................divorce??????????????

[pushbrk 13,167]

I have to agree....give ALL information. Attach an extra space and add that 3rd divorce.

Too late. Interview is next Tuesday.

[KimandRuss 0]

Gee, I hope nobody considers KimandRuss's post "off putting" but it's straight talk at its best. Liars are a big part of why we all wait so long. Lies of ommission are lies too.

touche'

I think you would agree, though, there is a time for a bit of tact and a time for well... just wow!

[truffles 2]

lol....touche KimandRuss....but i thought "off putting " was more a brit coloquialism.... just asking as I see your country is New Zealand ?

Edited June 25, 2008 by truffles

[KimandRuss 0]

* ...looking up "coloquialism" *

[pushbrk 13,167]

Gee, I hope nobody considers KimandRuss's post "off putting" but it's straight talk at its best. Liars are a big part of why we all wait so long. Lies of ommission are lies too.

touche'

I think you would agree, though, there is a time for a bit of tact and a time for well... just wow!

Right and you get to judge which is which. No "one trick ponies" here. (Cowboy colloquialism)

Edited June 25, 2008 by pushbrk

[truffles 2]

...... what a guy!!!!

[truffles 2]

Just as a note...cowboys may use the phrase "one trick pony" - just the same as a muscian or a banker or even little ole' me!....however the origins are said to be from the days of the travelling circus and it has also been references as being from the Film with the same title with Paul Simon..... .....

sorry for the slight detour ....back to topic....

[KimandRuss 0]

Gee, I hope nobody considers KimandRuss's post "off putting" but it's straight talk at its best. Liars are a big part of why we all wait so long. Lies of ommission are lies too.

touche'

I think you would agree, though, there is a time for a bit of tact and a time for well... just wow!

Right and you get to judge which is which. No "one trick ponies" here. (Cowboy colloquialism)

Again, common sense really.

There is a big difference between calling out someone for shelling out misinformation ...and offering helpful responses without belittling the poster.

Justify it all you want but people PM me because they don't want you to answer their questions and to be made to feel like fools...and that's just wrong because what you know could help so many people. FYI... I tell them as such... but your delivery is just way off and maybe that's you... but that doesn't mean we need to take it.

You did it to me with my very first post here. Now I am the least intimidated person you will ever meet but if it werent' for the PM's I got offering support and telling me not to pay attention to your judgemental remarks, I may not have come back either. Is that what you really want to be doing here?

I do appreciate your wisdom and your knowledge very much ...and the fact that you take the time out to reply to people with the right answers. But you will never convince me that your lack of tact and compassion is justified or necessary.

I'm done. My apologies to the moderators for taking this off topic.

[russian_armenian 4]

I have not meant it as an advice. Of course, you should put all known info into application as demanded. It is always better to do everything as they ask (that what I do always). But I know that there many times when USC lies on application about these things. If it becames known to CIS, the interview is imminent. But what I tryed to say, is that it does not held against an alien. Friend of mine had conviction (USC)-officer asked in separate room 1. if wife knows 2. he has to interview separtely since he is not sure that wife knows and it is family matter 3.and how all that happened.

PS: not related to immigration-but I been married before (for 10 years) and thought that I am wife #2. That I am wife #3 I have learnt when we got marriage licence. And that in reality I am wife #4-about 3 years later. I knew about these women before marriage but he failed to tell that he actually married them (not just lived together). He was embarassed to tell-that is it. And if you think it is something extra ordinary-think twice. Heard about the same stories.

....."the only matter most is " you are aware of all divorces and beyond stories " of your husband"....

It does not matter at all. Very common that spouses dont tell about all previous divorces (you understand-I am talking about people who got married 3 or 4 or more times). The other very common is that spouses dont tell about previous convictions-some people learn iabout t at immigration interview (first stages ,when check on USC is done too). The other very common "forgot to mention/we never talked about it" is that spouses dont tell about any STD they had in the past. It does not taken against the other spouse. More to it, in some CIS mannual it is recommended for the officer to conduct interview separately if any negative info emerge (so, the other spouse does not learn from CIS officer about conviction or else). About divorce decree, I am sure that the last one would be enough. (in some countries there is no decree per se; from other countries it is impossible to obtain, etc; explanations would be enough; it state let you get married -means that they accepted proof of the previous divorces).

Hi, we are i the same boat. Though my husband only declared 2 divorces .... he started it from the latest one, since the slot on the forms are 2 only. But make sure you put proof of 2 only divorces that you declare in the forms , so it won;t complicate things on your interview. Bring it and set aside in your bag, just in case of emergency, they won;t know it unless your husband declare the 3 divorces, in any cases ( though i doubt it) you could just reason out you just declare 2 from the latest because how the forms been asked to put into.

Anyway, my husband done it declare from the latest and acquire 2 divorces declaration only, and we passed it in high flying colors ... the only matter most is " you are aware of all divorces and beyond stories " of your husband.

Goodluck!

rebelheart

Hi guys, I need some opinion about this. My fiance divorced 3x, but in the G-325a only given 2 slots there for the previous marriages. Well this cause a trouble in my interview like asking how many times ur fiance got divorce? Should I say thrice or twice since only 2 declared in the petition.?

Thank you!!! Good luck to everybody!!!

[russian_armenian 4]

By the way, I read somewhere that CIS is red fragging cases when it is not a first marriage of the USC to a foreigner. I have assumed that It does not related to divorces done between USC and USC. CIS cannot easily find out about all previous divorces (they need to investigate USC-I just dont see a reason). But marriages to aliens are in CIS database-so, they dont have to research/investigate. For me it is less headache to provide all details. But I guess some people have issues with it (like my ex thought that if he would tell that he has been divorced so many times, i would not take him seriously).

Did you read the bottom of the G-325A form?

PENALTIES: SEVERE PENALTIES ARE PROVIDED BY LAW FOR KNOWINGLY AND WILLFULLY FALSIFYING OR CONCEALING A MATERIAL FACT.

The USCIS is very critical on the number of marriages to make sure a US citizen is not using marriage as a means to bring aliens into this country. If there is a trend where the divorces are between the US citizen and alien spoused, the USCIS may have questions on this point.

Both my wife and I were only divorced once, and like others on this board, we have been dealing with the USCIS for over five years now. We are on our final leg for citizenship and completed the I-751 conditional residence, but that divorce issue keeps on coming up. We are both trying to forget those years. but the USCIS won't let us.

Yep, you always use a separate sheet of paper if there is an insufficient number of blanks.

[mRs StOcKwElL 1]

Thanks to all the people who gave their opinion regarding on the number of divorce declaration. I did not able to escape question about how many times Rodge got divorce, but thanks God you enlightten me what to asnwer and YEs I made it and prepared for the 3rd decree...Special thanks to Rebelheart.

Yes this is it!!! Interview Approved and just waiting for the Visa now to be delivered.

THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!!