Wondering what other sites he/she is on??

[Aymsgirl 0]

wow!!!!! I found nothing directly on my husbands email (the one I know about ehhhem!) But on one of his brothers I found tons of lead to different sites (not porn) just chat and singles and xomputer tech stuff..oh and some youtube video's of him and his friends (gold mine haha) butsome of the data on the sites fits my husband (date of birth, name etc) as well! Maybe they share some email addy's?????? So naturally I am bugged about it now....darn rapleaf........Hubby pleads the fifth....and does it soooo well... ....Gads maybe I will drag the visa for another year......

I think that if I would have paid attention to rapleaf, I would have left my husband.He is here and we are ok and I am having the happiest time of my life.

The internet is a fantasy world of talking and interacting.Its not reality. I am so sad that this site was posted and I think that people should really think things through before ending things over a secret ki5 account or a friend add from some chick in Finland or Indonesia.

I know I maybe put up with more ####### that you guys but I am glad I did. I love my husband and I am glad I did. Just a differing opinion. I dont think marriages should break up over this #######.

You know Wahrania, in a way I agree with you. This isn't always real life and a lot of times it is just fantasy or curiosity. But I can see where it can get carried away and lead to hurt feelings also. I just hope that everybody who has gone through this thinks about everything and I wish them the best.

[nunyab 0]

Brilliant just freaking brilliant

I love the mom in this!!!!! Basta$d and you Son of a B#TCH

:rofl: :rofl:

[chri'stina 190]

wow!!!!! I found nothing directly on my husbands email (the one I know about ehhhem!) But on one of his brothers I found tons of lead to different sites (not porn) just chat and singles and xomputer tech stuff..oh and some youtube video's of him and his friends (gold mine haha) butsome of the data on the sites fits my husband (date of birth, name etc) as well! Maybe they share some email addy's?????? So naturally I am bugged about it now....darn rapleaf........Hubby pleads the fifth....and does it soooo well... ....Gads maybe I will drag the visa for another year......

I think that if I would have paid attention to rapleaf, I would have left my husband.He is here and we are ok and I am having the happiest time of my life.

The internet is a fantasy world of talking and interacting.Its not reality. I am so sad that this site was posted and I think that people should really think things through before ending things over a secret ki5 account or a friend add from some chick in Finland or Indonesia.

I know I maybe put up with more ####### that you guys but I am glad I did. I love my husband and I am glad I did. Just a differing opinion. I dont think marriages should break up over this #######.

You know Wahrania, in a way I agree with you. This isn't always real life and a lot of times it is just fantasy or curiosity. But I can see where it can get carried away and lead to hurt feelings also. I just hope that everybody who has gone through this thinks about everything and I wish them the best.

Everyone has to decide what is acceptable to them. For me, the argument that the internet isn't real life is not valid because I met my husband on an instant messenger. The internet is a cause of relationships forming, and relationships ending, so it must affect real life. But again, everyone can decide how they want to handle such a situation if it arises.

[Nagishkaw 510]

wow!!!!! I found nothing directly on my husbands email (the one I know about ehhhem!) But on one of his brothers I found tons of lead to different sites (not porn) just chat and singles and xomputer tech stuff..oh and some youtube video's of him and his friends (gold mine haha) butsome of the data on the sites fits my husband (date of birth, name etc) as well! Maybe they share some email addy's?????? So naturally I am bugged about it now....darn rapleaf........Hubby pleads the fifth....and does it soooo well... ....Gads maybe I will drag the visa for another year......

I think that if I would have paid attention to rapleaf, I would have left my husband.He is here and we are ok and I am having the happiest time of my life.

The internet is a fantasy world of talking and interacting.Its not reality. I am so sad that this site was posted and I think that people should really think things through before ending things over a secret ki5 account or a friend add from some chick in Finland or Indonesia.

I know I maybe put up with more ####### that you guys but I am glad I did. I love my husband and I am glad I did. Just a differing opinion. I dont think marriages should break up over this #######.

You know Wahrania, in a way I agree with you. This isn't always real life and a lot of times it is just fantasy or curiosity. But I can see where it can get carried away and lead to hurt feelings also. I just hope that everybody who has gone through this thinks about everything and I wish them the best.

Everyone has to decide what is acceptable to them. For me, the argument that the internet isn't real life is not valid because I met my husband on an instant messenger. The internet is a cause of relationships forming, and relationships ending, so it must affect real life. But again, everyone can decide how they want to handle such a situation if it arises.

Excellent post.

[Jenn! 918]

If couples meet through these sorts of networking sites is it really that surprising that one's SO frequented other networking sites and chatted with other people? I guess maybe I don't understand how "bad" the info obtained through this really is.

Hope everyone can work things out...

[doodlebugg 10]

wow I'm so sorry for those that found out bad things.

[sarahaziz 0]

nothing whew. I'm sure everyone who found out bad things it's long time ago.

Edited June 2, 2008 by sarahaziz

[Marilyn. 340]

I don't think you should completely trust that site.. I typed in one of my hubby's emails and it came up with some Filipino person named Ian Jimenez or something ...lol...

although most of the sites listed were my hubby's there was one that wasn't , belonged to the Ian Jimenez person...

[SaadBell 0]

First off just because someone has nothing on that site means NOTHING. Not all people are idiots they will use fake emails, fake names, if they are good at their game than you won’t have a clue. You have to look at the big picture, if you have some doubts and went to the site and saw nothing, doesn’t this mean all is well, MAYBE, AND MAYBE NOT. There are too many factors to say anything concrete that something is happening. Unless you hire a private detective, and get pictures, or he comes back clean, than you can relax, but sometimes we know the deal before we even see the evidence. So ladies if you found something, don’t let that be the only thing that break up your relationship, because it could mean nothing. If you have doubts, hire a private detective and find out the real truth, don’t just make assumptions. Did I find anything, not really, does that make my husband perfect, hell no. But it matches his personality; there is way more to the story than the eye can see. Love can be blind, so don’t get false security from a web site, now that is just not smart.

[Bassi and Zainab 1]

Did anyone check themselves? I put in my name to see what came up cause I was nervous about my personal info being out there. I found stuff I didn't remember signing up for and I also found that some of the info was wrong. But it was from the sites I didn't remember signing up for. I'm saying that if my SO looked this up, maybe it could create doubts in him about me flirting about the internet......so, take whatever you find with a grain of salt. Maybe a spoonful of salt.

[Ban Hammer 13,445]

Did anyone check themselves? I put in my name to see what came up cause I was nervous about my personal info being out there. I found stuff I didn't remember signing up for and I also found that some of the info was wrong. But it was from the sites I didn't remember signing up for. I'm saying that if my SO looked this up, maybe it could create doubts in him about me flirting about the internet......so, take whatever you find with a grain of salt. Maybe a spoonful of salt.

i checked several of my yahoo accounts, the only thing that showed up was a classmates registration. on another it listed the same location i had in yahoo - why are you so nosy?

[sara..... 371]

Brilliant just freaking brilliant

I love the mom in this!!!!! Basta$d and you Son of a B#TCH

:rofl: :rofl:

:rofl: :rofl: i can see that he is a lucky man in our family probably would have gotten a cricket bat upside the head lol not really but wow sure would have been tempting

[Nutty 2]

Wow! Great resource!!!

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

wow!!!!! I found nothing directly on my husbands email (the one I know about ehhhem!) But on one of his brothers I found tons of lead to different sites (not porn) just chat and singles and xomputer tech stuff..oh and some youtube video's of him and his friends (gold mine haha) butsome of the data on the sites fits my husband (date of birth, name etc) as well! Maybe they share some email addy's?????? So naturally I am bugged about it now....darn rapleaf........Hubby pleads the fifth....and does it soooo well... ....Gads maybe I will drag the visa for another year......

I think that if I would have paid attention to rapleaf, I would have left my husband.He is here and we are ok and I am having the happiest time of my life.

The internet is a fantasy world of talking and interacting.Its not reality. I am so sad that this site was posted and I think that people should really think things through before ending things over a secret ki5 account or a friend add from some chick in Finland or Indonesia.

I know I maybe put up with more ####### that you guys but I am glad I did. I love my husband and I am glad I did. Just a differing opinion. I dont think marriages should break up over this #######.

You know Wahrania, in a way I agree with you. This isn't always real life and a lot of times it is just fantasy or curiosity. But I can see where it can get carried away and lead to hurt feelings also. I just hope that everybody who has gone through this thinks about everything and I wish them the best.

I am just stopping by cause I have been running around to all the offices getting papers,etc .. I just want to tell you that my husband was a big flirt online and it drove me crazy. Finally I just stopped talking to him online for about 2 weeks ( advice from a MENA girl) and told him I didnt have a cam anymore and said " Whats the point of talking to you online if you are talking to other people?" Since he has been here he is all over my computer looking for what I am doing or what I have done or want to do etc and very jealous. These relationships sometimes dont develop like normal ones..

This is the advice I have for the offended and wounded and YES I have been one of them.

Tell him you are sick of all the networking and chatting sites.

Tell him you want a break from chatting with him and have other things to do and to think about how bad he is hurting you with it

See what he does...

Understand that what he is doing in your HOUSE is more important than what he did overseas while waiting for his visa

NOW FOR YOU WHO ARE LIVING WITH YOUR SPOUSES.. and they are doing this #######? This is a big big danger signal for me because there is no excuse to be bored in the net and playing when he is in your household . PERIOD..

But I am sorry I cant advocate divorce over dumb online networking . Half these people you never ever chat with and they add you and its just fun. At least it was for me when I used to screw around on myspace and stuff like that,

I chilled out on the jealousy

NOW IF HE DOES THIS ####### NOW THAT I AM HERE AND PREGNANT I WILL BREAK OUT A CAN OF WHOOP ### ON HIM

just my humble opinion

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

wow!!!!! I found nothing directly on my husbands email (the one I know about ehhhem!) But on one of his brothers I found tons of lead to different sites (not porn) just chat and singles and xomputer tech stuff..oh and some youtube video's of him and his friends (gold mine haha) butsome of the data on the sites fits my husband (date of birth, name etc) as well! Maybe they share some email addy's?????? So naturally I am bugged about it now....darn rapleaf........Hubby pleads the fifth....and does it soooo well... ....Gads maybe I will drag the visa for another year......

I think that if I would have paid attention to rapleaf, I would have left my husband.He is here and we are ok and I am having the happiest time of my life.

The internet is a fantasy world of talking and interacting.Its not reality. I am so sad that this site was posted and I think that people should really think things through before ending things over a secret ki5 account or a friend add from some chick in Finland or Indonesia.

I know I maybe put up with more ####### that you guys but I am glad I did. I love my husband and I am glad I did. Just a differing opinion. I dont think marriages should break up over this #######.

You know Wahrania, in a way I agree with you. This isn't always real life and a lot of times it is just fantasy or curiosity. But I can see where it can get carried away and lead to hurt feelings also. I just hope that everybody who has gone through this thinks about everything and I wish them the best.

I am just stopping by cause I have been running around to all the offices getting papers,etc .. I just want to tell you that my husband was a big flirt online and it drove me crazy. Finally I just stopped talking to him online for about 2 weeks ( advice from a MENA girl) and told him I didnt have a cam anymore and said " Whats the point of talking to you online if you are talking to other people?" Since he has been here he is all over my computer looking for what I am doing or what I have done or want to do etc and very jealous. These relationships sometimes dont develop like normal ones..

This is the advice I have for the offended and wounded and YES I have been one of them.

Tell him you are sick of all the networking and chatting sites.

Tell him you want a break from chatting with him and have other things to do and to think about how bad he is hurting you with it

See what he does...

Understand that what he is doing in your HOUSE is more important than what he did overseas while waiting for his visa

NOW FOR YOU WHO ARE LIVING WITH YOUR SPOUSES.. and they are doing this #######? This is a big big danger signal for me because there is no excuse to be bored in the net and playing when he is in your household . PERIOD..

But I am sorry I cant advocate divorce over dumb online networking . Half these people you never ever chat with and they add you and its just fun. At least it was for me when I used to screw around on myspace and stuff like that,

I chilled out on the jealousy

NOW IF HE DOES THIS ####### NOW THAT I AM HERE AND PREGNANT I WILL BREAK OUT A CAN OF WHOOP ### ON HIM

just my humble opinion