Missing your SO...how do you cope?

[JaHoney 3]

Hello all, since this is the say anything thread,( im hoping) can anyone give any suggestions on how to cope with being apart from there SO????

I seem to be having a really hard time today , and i know that i have a much longer road ahead/

Guess im just reaching out, because i know here on VJ, how im feeling is well understood by many of you. Any words of encouragement???

[Ban Hammer 13,346]

this is the say just about anything forum, the say anything thread is here:

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=130247

[one...two...tree 2,762]

Try to keep yourself occupied or busy while you wait for to be reunited. I know it's difficult to do, but you'll drive yourself insane if you mope around thinking about him/her all the time. Best wishes.

[jundp 191]

Make sure you have a hobby...or three! Get out and do stuff with your friends. Make plans for when you and your sweety can be together again. Just whatever you do, don't give in to moping. It's tough to get out of once you get there.

Good luck

[sara..... 371]

gosh one thing u dont do is eat to much lol.......just stay busy......take some college classes.....join exercise class.......read.....my last big thing was to remodel my room..........take a lot of walks........i guess in the end the only thing to say is stay busy and if it gets to be too big then come and vent lol good luck to u

sara

[JaHoney 3]

gosh one thing u dont do is eat to much lol.......just stay busy......take some college classes.....join exercise class.......read.....my last big thing was to remodel my room..........take a lot of walks........i guess in the end the only thing to say is stay busy and if it gets to be too big then come and vent lol good luck to u

sara

Thanks to all....normally i can get thru these days of feeling so blue, today just seems to be a little more difficult. I usually have about an hour of being a big and then i manage to find something else to help elevate my mood. Usually talking to my SO helps, but since he is still at work right now, i guess i just succumbed to letting myself be miserable...LOL

Maybe i will read a mag or something....lol

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

masturbate. a lot.

[william_wallace 8]

masturbate. a lot.

I would but both hands fell out with me.

[JaHoney 3]

masturbate. a lot.

ummm yeah thanks for that ..

[IrieCat 2]

I didnt see Louis for 7 months and now that it is over really it didnt seem that long in the grand scheme. I just kept picturing what things would be like when he was here. I kept positive and called him alot! Even if it was just to hear is voice. I know in my heart that the time we spend apart will be nothing in comparison to the long loving years we will spend together....

Oh and besides the mush I have a 6 year old daughter to keep me company. She loves him as much as I do and really keeps me company.

It will be summer soon so just get out and stay busy!!!!

:-) It will all be over sooner than you think. And in a good way!

Irie..

[JaHoney 3]

I didnt see Louis for 7 months and now that it is over really it didnt seem that long in the grand scheme. I just kept picturing what things would be like when he was here. I kept positive and called him alot! Even if it was just to hear is voice. I know in my heart that the time we spend apart will be nothing in comparison to the long loving years we will spend together....

Oh and besides the mush I have a 6 year old daughter to keep me company. She loves him as much as I do and really keeps me company.

It will be summer soon so just get out and stay busy!!!!

:-) It will all be over sooner than you think. And in a good way!

Irie..

Thanks Irie, i appreciate it, and your daughter is soooo cute.

[IrieCat 2]

I didnt see Louis for 7 months and now that it is over really it didnt seem that long in the grand scheme. I just kept picturing what things would be like when he was here. I kept positive and called him alot! Even if it was just to hear is voice. I know in my heart that the time we spend apart will be nothing in comparison to the long loving years we will spend together....

Oh and besides the mush I have a 6 year old daughter to keep me company. She loves him as much as I do and really keeps me company.

It will be summer soon so just get out and stay busy!!!!

:-) It will all be over sooner than you think. And in a good way!

Irie..

Thanks Irie, i appreciate it, and your daughter is soooo cute.

Thanks! She is a handful and keeps me busy. Louis will be here in a couple weeks and he will be able to keep her company this summer. (or rather I should say she will keep him occupied!)

You know when Louis and I started talking about marriage etc I HAD NO IDEA about any of this stuff. I though eh, itll take 3 months!

Boy was I wrong.

But I swear it blows my mind away how fast the time has gone and I am a very impatiant person. I need instant gratification.

[JaHoney 3]

I didnt see Louis for 7 months and now that it is over really it didnt seem that long in the grand scheme. I just kept picturing what things would be like when he was here. I kept positive and called him alot! Even if it was just to hear is voice. I know in my heart that the time we spend apart will be nothing in comparison to the long loving years we will spend together....

Oh and besides the mush I have a 6 year old daughter to keep me company. She loves him as much as I do and really keeps me company.

It will be summer soon so just get out and stay busy!!!!

:-) It will all be over sooner than you think. And in a good way!

Irie..

Thanks Irie, i appreciate it, and your daughter is soooo cute.

Im of the instant gratification variety as well, my SO thinks that my frustration over us not being together is going to make me change my mind about us being together. We are still trying to decide whether or not to file k-1 or CR-1, because he wants to get married in jamaica. I guess once we actually figure out what we wanna do and i know that things are in the works, maybe i will settle down a bit and chill out

Thanks! She is a handful and keeps me busy. Louis will be here in a couple weeks and he will be able to keep her company this summer. (or rather I should say she will keep him occupied!)

You know when Louis and I started talking about marriage etc I HAD NO IDEA about any of this stuff. I though eh, itll take 3 months!

Boy was I wrong.

But I swear it blows my mind away how fast the time has gone and I am a very impatiant person. I need instant gratification.

[IrieCat 2]

Well I have had really good luck with the K-1.

Louis and I would like to get married in St Lucia also but becuase we would like to be together moreso we decided on this.

Next year, if finances permit, we will have a ceremony in St Lucia. Louis is a Rasta and we want to have a nice ceremony in respect to that. It wouldn't be a "legal ceremony" exactly but it would be spritual and meaningful.

On another note I also spent time researching jobs Louis might be able to do when he gets here. I want him to do something that will make him happy and make some money! LOL Making my apartment comfortable for a 3rd person. Looking for wedding outfits. ;-)

[felnfrank 1]

Just think that he's around always...keep on communicating... dont worry, ull be together soon cos time flies so fast.