mi novio se fallecio

[Barbara y Alexis 1]

today i got the terrible news that my fiance was electrocuted in his own house by terrible wiring while simply changing a light bulb.

we were so close to getting him over here, but now i can only cry and try to hold onto my fond memories.

for some reason today i put on the colors of his santo, and put on the bracelet he gave me and then i got a terrible email from his cousin in spain, who assumed i had already heard, so it was a condolence email, but i had no idea what he was talking about, or at least i was trying to deny that it could be real. then i called his friend in havana and it was all confirmed.

enjoy every day, and share your love while you have the chance.

best wishes to you all in your journey to being united with your loved ones.

rest in peace Alexis Merino Hechavarria, mi hombre, mi amor, mi querido.

please click on my user name, and scroll down to pictures, to have one last look at this beautiful, wonderful human being who has now departed this life.

[sara..... 371]

today i got the terrible news that my fiance was electrocuted in his own house by terrible wiring while simply changing a light bulb.

we were so close to getting him over here, but now i can only cry and try to hold onto my fond memories.

for some reason today i put on the colors of his santo, and put on the bracelet he gave me and then i got a terrible email from his cousin in spain, who assumed i had already heard, so it was a condolence email, but i had no idea what he was talking about, or at least i was trying to deny that it could be real. then i called his friend in havana and it was all confirmed.

enjoy every day, and share your love while you have the chance.

best wishes to you all in your journey to being united with your loved ones.

rest in peace Alexis Merino Hechavarria, mi hombre, mi amor, mi querido.

please click on my user name, and scroll down to pictures, to have one last look at this beautiful, wonderful human being who has now departed this life.

my deepest condolences to you and to his family...may God grant you peace and the strength to go thru this my prayers are with u

sara

[bridget y rodolfo 0]

today i got the terrible news that my fiance was electrocuted in his own house by terrible wiring while simply changing a light bulb.

we were so close to getting him over here, but now i can only cry and try to hold onto my fond memories.

for some reason today i put on the colors of his santo, and put on the bracelet he gave me and then i got a terrible email from his cousin in spain, who assumed i had already heard, so it was a condolence email, but i had no idea what he was talking about, or at least i was trying to deny that it could be real. then i called his friend in havana and it was all confirmed.

enjoy every day, and share your love while you have the chance.

best wishes to you all in your journey to being united with your loved ones.

rest in peace Alexis Merino Hechavarria, mi hombre, mi amor, mi querido.

please click on my user name, and scroll down to pictures, to have one last look at this beautiful, wonderful human being who has now departed this life.

I'm so very sorry about your loss. I can't imagine what you must be feeling- nor do I even know you- but please stay strong and keep looking forward, no matter how hard it may be.

mis condolencias,

~bridget~

[pedroh 21]

mis condolencias

[Kiv 32]

I am so sorry for you and his family. Be strong.

[mari&Ryan 93]

today i got the terrible news that my fiance was electrocuted in his own house by terrible wiring while simply changing a light bulb.

we were so close to getting him over here, but now i can only cry and try to hold onto my fond memories.

for some reason today i put on the colors of his santo, and put on the bracelet he gave me and then i got a terrible email from his cousin in spain, who assumed i had already heard, so it was a condolence email, but i had no idea what he was talking about, or at least i was trying to deny that it could be real. then i called his friend in havana and it was all confirmed.

enjoy every day, and share your love while you have the chance.

best wishes to you all in your journey to being united with your loved ones.

rest in peace Alexis Merino Hechavarria, mi hombre, mi amor, mi querido.

please click on my user name, and scroll down to pictures, to have one last look at this beautiful, wonderful human being who has now departed this life.

I'm so sorry for your loss

Mis condolencias

[pcana 1]

today i got the terrible news that my fiance was electrocuted in his own house by terrible wiring while simply changing a light bulb.

we were so close to getting him over here, but now i can only cry and try to hold onto my fond memories.

for some reason today i put on the colors of his santo, and put on the bracelet he gave me and then i got a terrible email from his cousin in spain, who assumed i had already heard, so it was a condolence email, but i had no idea what he was talking about, or at least i was trying to deny that it could be real. then i called his friend in havana and it was all confirmed.

enjoy every day, and share your love while you have the chance.

best wishes to you all in your journey to being united with your loved ones.

rest in peace Alexis Merino Hechavarria, mi hombre, mi amor, mi querido.

please click on my user name, and scroll down to pictures, to have one last look at this beautiful, wonderful human being who has now departed this life.

What a tragedy!!! I'm deeply sorry,May GOD grant you peace and keep you strong in this difficult time.

You're in my thoughts and prayers.

God bless you.

Abby

[Amaya's Mommy 0]

Lo siento mucho. My condolences to you and his family.

[NArocks 13]

I am so Sorry to hear this. I wish you the best......

[HAL 9000 96]

My goodness, MANY condolences.

[Alexandra_v 0]

Oh my god that is terrible… I’m so sorry!

[Mononoke28 135]

Barbara , I am sooooo sorry for your loss and hope that you and his family can overcome this tragedy. I completely feel your pain and am so sad that his interview date was only a few weeks away.

May he rest in peace and I pray to God to give you the strength you need right now.

Diana

[shadtov 0]

I'm so sorry Barbara. I will keep you in my thoughts.

Please know that you're probably going to hear people say some very thoughtless things to you in the next year or so. We as humans have trouble seeing our loved ones and friends sad and so say some pretty stupid things. People always do, but know that they mean well.

Give yourself a lot of time to grieve and mourn Alexis. Even though you were still in the middle of the visa journey, your love for him is deep and you need to allow yourself to grieve as you need to. We mourn our loved ones based on our attachments; there are no rules. Don't expect yourself to remember much right now. You might even just feel very numb for a while. That's fine. Whatever comes up is fine and however long you need is fine. ANd talk about Alexis as much as you need to. Feel free to come here to talk about him. We're all still here for support if you want it. The people who truly love you will be with you.

Again, I am so sorry,

Heather

[Marlita 0]

Lo siento por su pérdida.

[David07 0]

Barbara,

Like many others in this Cuban forum, I understand and feel your loss.

I read your words and reminded myself once again of what I have everyday with me.

Thank you for this....

David

today i got the terrible news that my fiance was electrocuted in his own house by terrible wiring while simply changing a light bulb.

we were so close to getting him over here, but now i can only cry and try to hold onto my fond memories.

for some reason today i put on the colors of his santo, and put on the bracelet he gave me and then i got a terrible email from his cousin in spain, who assumed i had already heard, so it was a condolence email, but i had no idea what he was talking about, or at least i was trying to deny that it could be real. then i called his friend in havana and it was all confirmed.

enjoy every day, and share your love while you have the chance.

best wishes to you all in your journey to being united with your loved ones.

rest in peace Alexis Merino Hechavarria, mi hombre, mi amor, mi querido.

please click on my user name, and scroll down to pictures, to have one last look at this beautiful, wonderful human being who has now departed this life.