Lack of english a problem at interview?

[MandR 0]

Do they every ask questions in regards to intimate moments? hehe

I can say yes to that question. In Peru a certain consular did ask us this question and has to others.

But from most posts on interviews around the world I have not seen anyone else being asked this question.

[Greenmind 0]

I fell in love with my fiance by going to Turkey on a trip after text messaging her for 3-4 weeks. After spending 2 weeks with her I knew I had something special. We immediately bonded (and I don't mean physically) and we're crazy about each other. I'm a strong believer in chemistry.

I mean we could communicate better using her limited english, a pocket dictionary, and my limited turkish than I could at all with my first wife and last 4 girlfriends (all I've had since my first wife). We now communicate via msn messenger every day for hours. Her understanding of english is good, but listening/speaking is a lot harder than reading. I'm submitting a ton of messenger logs I've saved from the last 3-4 months.

Honestly I expected the visa process to take a lot longer. We went through so fast that collected evidence might be a problem. I'm also planning on going to the interview with her.

Can they deny the visa and cancel the entire process, forcing us to start over? I guess if that happens I'd just get married while I'm there. I guess it's like they say... Why say "I love you" or "Seni Seviyorum" when you can just show the person?

[mr4422 0]

This is NOT a derrogatory statement at all - this is a GENUINE question....because I am very curious.

HOW do you fall in love with someone when you can't really even communicate?

I dated a guy who did NOT speak English - hardly at all....I had to call it off because I couldn't learn about him, he couldn't learn about me...we couldn't communicate! There was no WAY I could fall in love with someone if I can't even TALK to them...

so this is a serious question...

i had help from her aunt, cousin and my sister-n-law. I found that we seemed to just have that sense of knowing what eachother wanted or needed. I think having an open mind about it and knowing that it will be an issue but also willing to work through it helps. and yes, there are moments when i get really frustrated trying to get her to understand something. But she is learning well. I knew it was going to be THE biggest issue starting out but I accepted that and am willing to do what it takes to make it work. PLUS she has a great work ethic and is SCARED about not being about to communicate. She has many english study books and vcds. and she quit work almost two months before she came here to go to english school.

Love is its own language