The Say Anything Thread - take 4

[Ban Hammer 13,206]

How do I report harrassment at work?

My boss told me he's buying me stuffs (like perfume etc) and that is waaaay out of line!!

I feel like I am going to puke anytime now. This is sooooo strange.

I feel so uneasy and helpless here.

I wanna quit!!

if i recall, hasn't this sort of behavior of his been of concern to you for a while?

do you have a human resources office?

Yes. I already told him I am happily married and all things I could possibly say to ward him off.

He told me that I can divorce my husband. I am too shocked!! I don't know what to do.

I have to have some evidence or something a co-worker said. I am journalizing this.

Would the journal work as evdience?

I love my job but this situation is driving me nuts!!! He's the VP and am afraid they can turn things around and against me because he is friends with HR..

Oh God.....

Thanks guys. I cannot think straight right now.

documenting things is a good idea, yes, and also review your company's sexual harassment guide if such a thing exists.

while he may be friends with hr, if you go to hr with this after following the company's sexual harassment guidelines and telling him to cease, and you have documentary evidence of dates, statements made, witnesses, and so on, they will see the light as the company is on the hook for his conduct.

[Amby 490]

do you guys think it's bad I never wear my wedding ring?

[Ban Hammer 13,206]

ok is this for reals or what?

yes it's for real. booty does not like menudo.

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

I don't wear mine either. I don't like jewelry.

[Bootylicious!! 2]

well when they tell us in 5 years i'll pretend i'm surprised

Yeah, we'll all do that.

que?

is there anything we should know?

You know you're going to get "no habla ingles".

there is enough info in this thread to figure it out. when is the big admission?

I know. I wish they'd just come out with it already.

tell me about it. the mystery has been solved already.

Yeah, it didn't take me long to figure it out.

you were a candidate for a while, but you didn't like menudo

No, not in to menudo. Or metrosexuals either for that matter.

ok is this for reals or what?

Marilyn, where have you been? Go back and read and you'll figure it out.

[Nessa 23]

i think it's bad.

[Ban Hammer 13,206]

do you guys think it's bad I never wear my wedding ring?

start a poll.

[Nessa 23]

specially because you're hot and that's an invitation for people to flirt with you.

[Amby 490]

I thought marilyn was a bit quicker than that, but I guess I was wrong

[Marilyn. 340]

I thought you guys were just joking around..

[Bootylicious!! 2]

I never go out without mine. I only take it off to sleep, swim, workout, or shower. Otherwise it's on my finger. I get pi$$ed too when Javi forgets to put his on.

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

I thought you guys were just joking around..

no, its true

[chri'stina 190]

do you guys think it's bad I never wear my wedding ring?

well it probably matters why...either because you aren't into jewelry or because you don't want people to know you are married or another reason. I am not big on jewelry and near the end of my pregnancy didn't wear it b/c it was uncomfortable. But I was actually worried people wouldn't know I was married. I wore a different ring but it wasn't a band.

[Marilyn. 340]

never can tell with you people

[Bootylicious!! 2]

I thought you guys were just joking around..

Wait, it's not me!