with kids ..........mena conversation

[sarahaziz 0]

Why would I personally have anything against your kids? I feel bad for them somebody should be there taking care of them instead of spending her whole day at VJ Forums. What are you aiming for or trying to achieve by calling me stupid with no IQ? That I'm an Algerian and I supposidly don't know my culture, that I major in shopping even if that stuff was true what do YOU have to do with any of that? How is it any of your concern?

And to Bridget - I don't have anything with you or against you but for you to publically portray me as Pro 911 that was seriously disgusting to twist somebody from the Middle Easts words like that. That was extremely offensive and wasn't funny in the least bit. I don't know why you would question anything like that outside of PM if you really were curious and not trying to start up an argument- God knows who could be reading the threads.

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

Why would I personally have anything against your kids? I feel bad for them somebody should be there taking care of them instead of spending her whole day at VJ Forums. What are you aiming for or trying to achieve by calling me stupid with no IQ? That I'm an Algerian and I supposidly don't know my culture, that I major in shopping even if that stuff was true what do YOU have to do with any of that? How is it any of your concern?

And to Bridget - I don't have anything with you or against you but for you to publically portray me as Pro 911 that was seriously disgusting to twist somebody from the Middle Easts words like that. That was extremely offensive and wasn't funny in the least bit. I don't know why you would question anything like that outside of PM if you really were curious and not trying to start up an argument- God knows who could be reading the threads.

She did not portray you as that. She said nothing of the kind. She never speaks about you nor rarely replies to your posts...

I am not talking about your culture or your knowledge of lack of and I didnt mention you by name did I? So you are very well aware of what you did and frankly when my kids are brought in as an insult or my status as a mommy, thats when I blow. The whole fat thing or husband thing,, its no big deal to me. When being classified as WITH KIDS as an insult in the middle of an already in progress insult, thats when I have had enough...

[sarahaziz 0]

Um wahrania that post was to you solely

Not your kids

Not to any other women or men on this board.

[sarahaziz 0]

You ARE making it about your kids and that's YOUR blame. My argument is not towards kids or yours. You just want a good drama thread. That's all it is.

Why do you keep speaking for other people on this board? IF they don't care about my replies or to talk to me then can speak for themselves I don't remember you being anybodys mother on this board.

Edited May 23, 2008 by sarahaziz

[Dr. A ♥ O 203]

One of you pls use the ignore feature on the other. Prizes go to the first one!!!

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

Um wahrania that post was to you solely

Not your kids

Not to any other women or men on this board.

Well guess what. You brought my kids into it by saying I am a fat ### with kids and a younger husband like any of those things are a liablity. First, being fat is not always peoples fault. I am lucky I have not battled obesity but I certainly have NEVER used it in my life as insult. There are too many amazing people that are FAT out there that are worth so much that I would never use appearance as a sparring point. Character in people is what s importance, not what they look like.

Second, having a younger husband seems to be an insult to you too. Frankly, my Algerian husband and I are a turmultous love match with crazy chemistry and a baby on the way and we have had to face all kinds of comments from both sides. Algerian yes ,because he wanted a baby with me...and many Algerians think all marriages with Americans are white marriages.. when the baby came into the mix and that we were trying so hard for one the whole time... there were people that felt I was too old for him in his family for a REAL MARRIAGE.. but screwing me over for papers is cool in the eyes of some over there. You know that . I know that. But we love each other.. My family was pissed off because they were sure he was using me for papers. So when he was very reluctant to move here and initially insisited I move there, they were shocked as hell. Doesnt everyone want to move to the US? Surprisingly NO. This isnt the perfect place to be. Having a younger husband has NOT BEEN A CAKE WALK. I get it from all sides.... Look you threw it as an insult too. Thats because deep inside you think its screwed up for an Algerian to be with an older woman. Hey join the club. So do people there. I am used it. I am not a white marriage... I am the real passionate messed up fight all the time deal ... with a baby inside from him and all the fears that everyone else has on here. I am not Demi Moore. He is not Ashton Kutcher . But I cant help who I fell in love with.... I cant, It happened . So insult away

When my kids got drug into it I decided that i had enough... And to remind you again. I DID NOT NAME YOU IN MY POST... you named yourself.. and thanks for clarifying that I am the only fat ### with kids and a younger husband that you feel free to trash. I guess the other fat asses got off easy.. the old bags can all rest that you are not aiming for them too..

Pass the geritol and a dictionary. I need both right now

[Nothing1234 2]

I take it back...I don't miss a good drama thread. U 2 need to use the ignore feature on each other to exhist peacefuly in this forum.

Wait, Olivia weren't you looking for some good drama today? jk

[Marry American 0]

maybe if you were secure in yourself, children, relationship - it would not be such a big deal what people say to you ... you would just laugh at the absurdness of VJ and it's people .. how can someone know you online .. unless you have really hung out and developed a real relationship ..

[Dr. A ♥ O 203]

I take it back...I don't miss a good drama thread. U 2 need to use the ignore feature on each other to exhist peacefuly in this forum.

Wait, Olivia weren't you looking for some good drama today? jk

ZOMG! I need to pass out prizes cuz I think they took it to PM! to who ever did the ignore feature first!

[sarahaziz 0]

I told you she's trying to play victim and use her kids to be a victim

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

maybe if you were secure in yourself, children, relationship - it would not be such a big deal what people say to you ... you would just laugh at the absurdness of VJ and it's people .. how can someone know you online .. unless you have really hung out and developed a real relationship ..

I dont take offense really to the other 2 things she said. If you read my post , I did not mention her. I found it offensive that she would use with kids as something meaning I was of less worth. Unfortunately, some people think that having kids lowers your worth.

I dont think vj is absurd at all nor do I think the people are here are absurd. I like alot of them and they have been a great source of support...

Thats my take on it

[Nothing1234 2]

I take it back...I don't miss a good drama thread. U 2 need to use the ignore feature on each other to exhist peacefuly in this forum.

Wait, Olivia weren't you looking for some good drama today? jk

ZOMG! I need to pass out prizes cuz I think they took it to PM! to who ever did the ignore feature first!

We can start the happy dances now! I love that feature...

[Dr. A ♥ O 203]

I take it back...I don't miss a good drama thread. U 2 need to use the ignore feature on each other to exhist peacefuly in this forum.

Wait, Olivia weren't you looking for some good drama today? jk

ZOMG! I need to pass out prizes cuz I think they took it to PM! to who ever did the ignore feature first!

We can start the happy dances now! I love that feature...

Happy dance! On my tippy toes!

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

I told you she's trying to play victim and use her kids to be a victim

First I never mentioned you by name. You outed yourself

Second you called me a fat ### with kids with a younger husband all as insult. I never mentioned you by name. I thought it was repugnant that you would bring them into an arguement.

No one is playing a victim. Own up to the ####### you say and your grandma comments all over the place. If you want to talk about anyone, at least admit to the things you say to people.

You are CERTAINLY not the only person in the world that thinks women with KIDS is a liability or makes someone worth less than another. And to turn around and say OH I only meant it towards you.

You only meant that you got caught .. And you dont like it.

[Nagishkaw 510]

Look Olivia! Flying monkeys! EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!