HAPPY WEDNESDAY!!

[~*Dorothy*~ 2]

mmmmmmmmm cake. That sounds yummy,,with Oreos in it.

wahrania, your words are much appreciated. I'm about to go thru a really rough time (again) and knowing I have friends here, I am sure will help me get thru it.

I heart my friends.

Jackie

pineapples, I'm innocent, what pineapples?

doods i had some jordanian love on the outside,,it was sticky like pineapple juice

We *heart* Jackie!!!

[doodlebugg 10]

i've never been so lost and confused about VJ gossip since i joined! i have no clue who or what any of you are talking about. maybe its a good thing? *hides* sorry to hear anyone's been harrassed or had problems!

Thanks. Actually one of the peeps we're talking about is harassing me on another site that she has no business being on as we speak! She also just pm'd me! Hey Egyptianlove aka sarahandhicham aka cocoa (her name on egyptsearch) I'm blocking you now so don't bother pm'ing me anymore, k?

so that's who that is! i thought she was banned.

apparently only the one ip addy is banned. She's still up to the old tricks though now it's via pm. Unfortunately some nice users (remember ash habibi?) have left because of her stalking.

[terrie/kamal 0]

Ok, I have to get something out and over with. I am tired of innuendos flying over my marriage to Ibrahim. So to quell some of the bullchit, I'm gonna share what is going on in my life. After I type this, I would hope the 'wolves' to take it to PM for gossip.

Yes, I was divorced from a MENA man in Nov 2007.

Yes, I suffered greatly.

Yes, I met a man named Ibrahim in Febuary 2008.

Yes, I did travel to Florida to meet him.

Yes, I did marry him.

Yes, I did file for aos/ead/i130 concurrently.

Yes, I did stop payment on the checks after he became too rough with me during sex.

Yes, I did ask him to leave so I could think--and he did.

Yes, I do love him.

Yes, we agree we married and filed too fast.

Yes, we did repay the fees and yes he did biometrics and waiting for interview.

Yes, there is a risk of deportaion if USCIS thinks he entered with the intent to marry.

Yes, we have agreed that he will return to Jordan and we will file the I130 and take this slower.

Yes, he leaves the country tommorrow night at 9pm.

Yes, I will miss him.

Yes, I will travel to visit him in Sept while we wait for I130 approval.

If there is anything I didn't publically admit to, I am sure someone will come along and add to it. To the wolves on VJ, have at it. Tell them something they don't know about me. I'm outtie.

Jackie

My heart goes out to you Jackie, it must be hard knowing that you won't see him til Sept. We are there for you girl.... And that post is about the only post that i can make heads or tails of this crazy hump day!!!

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

Ok, I have to get something out and over with. I am tired of innuendos flying over my marriage to Ibrahim. So to quell some of the bullchit, I'm gonna share what is going on in my life. After I type this, I would hope the 'wolves' to take it to PM for gossip.

Yes, I was divorced from a MENA man in Nov 2007.

Yes, I suffered greatly.

Yes, I met a man named Ibrahim in Febuary 2008.

Yes, I did travel to Florida to meet him.

Yes, I did marry him.

Yes, I did file for aos/ead/i130 concurrently.

Yes, I did stop payment on the checks after he became too rough with me during sex.

Yes, I did ask him to leave so I could think--and he did.

Yes, I do love him.

Yes, we agree we married and filed too fast.

Yes, we did repay the fees and yes he did biometrics and waiting for interview.

Yes, there is a risk of deportaion if USCIS thinks he entered with the intent to marry.

Yes, we have agreed that he will return to Jordan and we will file the I130 and take this slower.

Yes, he leaves the country tommorrow night at 9pm.

Yes, I will miss him.

Yes, I will travel to visit him in Sept while we wait for I130 approval.

If there is anything I didn't publically admit to, I am sure someone will come along and add to it. To the wolves on VJ, have at it. Tell them something they don't know about me. I'm outtie.

Jackie

I am sorry Jackie. I don't think really anyone on the boards knew all this stuff nor needed to but getting it out in the open helps you realise that no one can hurt you with reminding you about the stuff.

I think there is only so much people can take sometimes. I get like that when I think about what was done to me.

Its really hard when people who have never been through anything harsh stand in judgement and make bullshit comments. I remember when my world fell apart 6 years ago and the tears I cried and how much I wanted everything to be different. I felt like everyone let this person get away with hurting me and made it easy for him. Even today, when I see women used for papers or hurt I flip out really bad like post traumatic syndrome because I know how bad it is to really love someone and give them your whole life and for them to make a joke out of your whole existance. Every man I have met since then has paid the price for what this one guy did to me.

I am sorry Jackie but I am not like this. I dont want you to be sad. I want whatever is best for you in the long run. Hang in there. Love who you want and do what you want with your life. Its your life not ours and you deserve to be happy.

[Ban Hammer 13,694]

i've never been so lost and confused about VJ gossip since i joined! i have no clue who or what any of you are talking about. maybe its a good thing? *hides* sorry to hear anyone's been harrassed or had problems!

Thanks. Actually one of the peeps we're talking about is harassing me on another site that she has no business being on as we speak! She also just pm'd me! Hey Egyptianlove aka sarahandhicham aka cocoa (her name on egyptsearch) I'm blocking you now so don't bother pm'ing me anymore, k?

so that's who that is! i thought she was banned.

apparently only the one ip addy is banned. She's still up to the old tricks though now it's via pm. Unfortunately some nice users (remember ash habibi?) have left because of her stalking.

oh yeah, i wondered what happened to ash. she was a nice lady.

[sara535 15]

Hey Jackie, its just life and you are doing the best you can.

Good for you for being big enough to be honest about who you are and the decisions you have made, good or bad.

I hope everything works out well for you.

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

i've never been so lost and confused about VJ gossip since i joined! i have no clue who or what any of you are talking about. maybe its a good thing? *hides* sorry to hear anyone's been harrassed or had problems!

Thanks. Actually one of the peeps we're talking about is harassing me on another site that she has no business being on as we speak! She also just pm'd me! Hey Egyptianlove aka sarahandhicham aka cocoa (her name on egyptsearch) I'm blocking you now so don't bother pm'ing me anymore, k?

Why is Sarah on an Egyptian site stalking you? That makes no freaking sense whatsover. She must be really hurt mentally by her marriage to flip out that badly

[Nagishkaw 510]

Jackie knows I have her back. My back is, however against a few on here who made it their business to discus me amonst their group(s). I never had a battle with any of them....until they decided to turn into vipersand be the true cowards they are. There is no need to name them. They know who they are and what they have said. So my enemies, bring me your battles. I promise I will eat you, then spit you out.

A tip to the enemy who is reading this... Real power comes from within.

[sereia 0]

wow jackie, brave lady for posting all that. a lot more than i ever would have said! we're all here for you, girl. *hug*

[doodlebugg 10]

i've never been so lost and confused about VJ gossip since i joined! i have no clue who or what any of you are talking about. maybe its a good thing? *hides* sorry to hear anyone's been harrassed or had problems!

Thanks. Actually one of the peeps we're talking about is harassing me on another site that she has no business being on as we speak! She also just pm'd me! Hey Egyptianlove aka sarahandhicham aka cocoa (her name on egyptsearch) I'm blocking you now so don't bother pm'ing me anymore, k?

Why is Sarah on an Egyptian site stalking you? That makes no freaking sense whatsover. She must be really hurt mentally by her marriage to flip out that badly

Or just mentally unstable to begin with. Who the heck knows. It's not just me that she's stalked either. The depths to which she's gone to, though not with me, I could tell you and it would sicken even the strongest of stomachs. What she doesn't know is that now I have her real name and addy and am not afraid to use it on some other sites as well as file a report with the authorities against her. I put up with her stalking me for over a year and it's just getting too old.

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

Jackie knows I have her back. My back is, however against a few on here who made it their business to discus me amonst their group(s). I never had a battle with any of them....until they decided to turn into vipersand be the true cowards they are. There is no need to name them. They know who they are and what they have said. So my enemies, bring me your battles. I promise I will eat you, then spit you out.

A tip to the enemy who is reading this... Real power comes from within.

Well Nagi, I have never heard one negative thing about you. Actually I havent heard ANYTHING about you. I know absolutely NOTHING about you. So I think the whole smoke signal gossip isnt flying from your teepee.

My life sucks so bad sometimes the last thing I want to think about is how to make someone else miserable. I have my own #### to deal with LOL

[~*Dorothy*~ 2]

(((HUGS))) for Jackie. (F) Thanks for being brave and thanks for being a real friend - I hope that things will work out!

Love,

Dorothy

[Zee Bee 61]

Hugs to you Jackie

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

Hugs to you Jackie

I am really hungry right now and there is NO FOOD at my office

[doodlebugg 10]

jackie when one of these sickos starts in on you just look at the source. Look at WHO is doing the chastising. Seriously. Your TRUE friends will pick you up in the worst of times no matter what you've done.