how to keep things from getting ugly

[sukie175 0]

You know what - ** it, I put a polite reply and agreed with Tracy, Karo, Canadalaura, LisaD etc....and Charles you are still wittering on!

Actually you & Nessa have been on this board about 5 minutes in comparison to many of us here, but since you arrived you both seem to be on some hellbent mission to get the most posts daily and beat each other....with absolutley no consideration for the other members.

I went in to General Polls one day last week and Nessa had resurrected old polls since the day we had the whole site crash and had to move to the new site!! ####### it was extremely annoying to suddenly find Polls from 5 months ago that most of us had long since voted on, back on the front page again!

One day I decided to give you some competition at Top Poster, something I have never even got close to in over a year before, I was bored and thought what the hell! Well boy did I have to work hard and I won't be doing that again.

I have nothing against either of you personally, but at times this board feels like the charlesandnessa or nessaandcharles board not Visa Journey...and I for one am getting a little tired of it.

Ok flame away

[Ban Hammer 13,619]

so let's review. someone posts too much, something that many of those flinging the poo apparently have done before. so let's start a thread about them, diplomacy is not required, let's just give them a hard time. then i'm told to grow up. how special...........

I call B.S. You ignored diplomatic efforts previously. It took a bomb to get your attention.

Flinging facts, not poo.

you can think that if you wish. to be told that i'm annoying is not what i'd call diplomacy. and i've crossed swords with you before so your response is not unexpected.

You mean when I asked you with a humorous slant that you stop posting just for heart and flowers? I didn't call you annoying.

It's not crossing swords, charles, it's about the community saying how they want members to participate. Do you have so many friends that you don't need more? I've only ever passed one or two posts with you and now my "response is not unexpected"?

Some people are here for serious business, some people aren't. The OT forum was created as a place for you to keep 'that stuff" out of the immigration forums so they stay relevant. That doesn't include adding a post that says "I have no idea of the answer".

Since you're posting jokes presumably to amuse others, you must care about those 'others'. Why not consider the feedback about how the others would like to be treated instead of striking out?

what i am referring to was the original pm.......

"is it really necessary to post a million jokes in their own threads? It's really annoying."

at the time that came in i had posted 13 total. very close to a million.

[jordanianprincess 0]

You know what - ** it, I put a polite reply and agreed with Tracy, Karo, Canadalaura, LisaD etc....and Charles you are still wittering on!

Actually you & Nessa have been on this board about 5 minutes in comparison to many of us here, but since you arrived you both seem to be on some hellbent mission to get the most posts daily and beat each other....with absolutley no consideration for the other members.

I went in to General Polls one day last week and Nessa had resurrected old polls since the day we had the whole site crash and had to move to the new site!! ####### it was extremely annoying to suddenly find Polls from 5 months ago that most of us had long since voted on, back on the front page again!

One day I decided to give you some competition at Top Poster, something I have never even got close to in over a year before, I was bored and thought what the hell! Well boy did I have to work hard and I won't be doing that again.

I have nothing against either of you personally, but at times this board feels like the charlesandnessa or nessaandcharles board not Visa Journey...and I for one am getting a little tired of it.

Ok flame away

I think this is the long way of saying "Get a room" j/k

[sukie175 0]

Thank you - very succinctly put and exactly what I mean - get a personal site you 2 can happily post on all day to each other please and show a little restraint in here

[almaty 19]

You know what - ** it, I put a polite reply and agreed with Tracy, Karo, Canadalaura, LisaD etc....and Charles you are still wittering on!

Actually you & Nessa have been on this board about 5 minutes in comparison to many of us here, but since you arrived you both seem to be on some hellbent mission to get the most posts daily and beat each other....with absolutley no consideration for the other members.

I went in to General Polls one day last week and Nessa had resurrected old polls since the day we had the whole site crash and had to move to the new site!! ####### it was extremely annoying to suddenly find Polls from 5 months ago that most of us had long since voted on, back on the front page again!

One day I decided to give you some competition at Top Poster, something I have never even got close to in over a year before, I was bored and thought what the hell! Well boy did I have to work hard and I won't be doing that again.

I have nothing against either of you personally, but at times this board feels like the charlesandnessa or nessaandcharles board not Visa Journey...and I for one am getting a little tired of it.

Ok flame away

good points sister sarah,....

[jordanianprincess 0]

You know what - ** it, I put a polite reply and agreed with Tracy, Karo, Canadalaura, LisaD etc....and Charles you are still wittering on!

Actually you & Nessa have been on this board about 5 minutes in comparison to many of us here, but since you arrived you both seem to be on some hellbent mission to get the most posts daily and beat each other....with absolutley no consideration for the other members.

I went in to General Polls one day last week and Nessa had resurrected old polls since the day we had the whole site crash and had to move to the new site!! ####### it was extremely annoying to suddenly find Polls from 5 months ago that most of us had long since voted on, back on the front page again!

One day I decided to give you some competition at Top Poster, something I have never even got close to in over a year before, I was bored and thought what the hell! Well boy did I have to work hard and I won't be doing that again.

I have nothing against either of you personally, but at times this board feels like the charlesandnessa or nessaandcharles board not Visa Journey...and I for one am getting a little tired of it.

Ok flame away

good points sister sarah,....

Almatyyyyyyyyyyyy are you back by popular demand??????

[Ban Hammer 13,619]

You know what - ** it, I put a polite reply and agreed with Tracy, Karo, Canadalaura, LisaD etc....and Charles you are still wittering on!

Actually you & Nessa have been on this board about 5 minutes in comparison to many of us here, but since you arrived you both seem to be on some hellbent mission to get the most posts daily and beat each other....with absolutley no consideration for the other members.

I went in to General Polls one day last week and Nessa had resurrected old polls since the day we had the whole site crash and had to move to the new site!! ####### it was extremely annoying to suddenly find Polls from 5 months ago that most of us had long since voted on, back on the front page again!

One day I decided to give you some competition at Top Poster, something I have never even got close to in over a year before, I was bored and thought what the hell! Well boy did I have to work hard and I won't be doing that again.

I have nothing against either of you personally, but at times this board feels like the charlesandnessa or nessaandcharles board not Visa Journey...and I for one am getting a little tired of it.

Ok flame away

wittering on? i'm answering those who add to the thread later. pardon me for such.

so nessa ressurected an old poll. so what? i accidentally restarted a thread because i did not pay attention to the dates on it.

i'm sure we all make mistakes. pardon us for making a few as we are still, as you say, newbies.

i'm not in competition with anyone regarding posting. nor was i aware that there is a limit to such.

the reason you might feel that way is both her and i are here. most people are just solo.

[Nessa 23]

You know what - ** it, I put a polite reply and agreed with Tracy, Karo, Canadalaura, LisaD etc....and Charles you are still wittering on!

Actually you & Nessa have been on this board about 5 minutes in comparison to many of us here, but since you arrived you both seem to be on some hellbent mission to get the most posts daily and beat each other....with absolutley no consideration for the other members.

I went in to General Polls one day last week and Nessa had resurrected old polls since the day we had the whole site crash and had to move to the new site!! ####### it was extremely annoying to suddenly find Polls from 5 months ago that most of us had long since voted on, back on the front page again!

One day I decided to give you some competition at Top Poster, something I have never even got close to in over a year before, I was bored and thought what the hell! Well boy did I have to work hard and I won't be doing that again.

I have nothing against either of you personally, but at times this board feels like the charlesandnessa or nessaandcharles board not Visa Journey...and I for one am getting a little tired of it.

Ok flame away

I answered polls from 5 months ago because 5 months ago i wasn't here to answer, i didn't know about this site and i thought i could pass my time by answering those polls i didn't have opportunity to answer when they were posted.

It's not easy for us to have to stay apart, and while we can't enjoy each other's company and spend time together we find other stuff to do, like hang around in places like VJ.

I though this place, specially the OT and the polls part, was created for people like us, that because of some stupid reason like the damn world borders don't have the right to stay where we belong: together.

I'm sorry if that was a terrible thing to do and it's obviously i'm not welcome here. So whatever i'm gone. I really don't need to get s#it from people i don't know and i have done nothing against .

[Jaylen Brit 0]

Gets out comfy chair as well..and might also be time for

[Ban Hammer 13,619]

here are the pm's:

is it really necessary to post a million jokes in their own threads? It's really annoying.

i'll do what i please, thank you. if you don't like it put me on ignore.

whatever, I'm not the only one who agrees! And it's not YOUR board.

it's not your place to send me hostile pm's either. if you have an issue take it up with the moderator and quit giving me grief.

I really don't think I was being hostile. At least I was nice about it and sent a PM rather than calling you out in a seperate thread.

here are some things said by said member on this thread

all i did was suggest that you consolidate the jokes. don't be so touchy!

huh? nowhere does such say that above!

#######. He blocked me. I didn't even get to have a fun flame war or anything. Very anti-climatic.

so you tell me what it looks like it was all about.

as for this thread running and running, i'm answering those who post. i thought this was a dead topic. apparently not..........

[sukie175 0]

wittering on? i'm answering those who add to the thread later. pardon me for such.

so nessa ressurected an old poll. so what? i accidentally restarted a thread because i did not pay attention to the dates on it.

i'm sure we all make mistakes. pardon us for making a few as we are still, as you say, newbies.

i'm not in competition with anyone regarding posting. nor was i aware that there is a limit to such.

the reason you might feel that way is both her and i are here. most people are just solo.

That would be about 16 old Polls resurrected actually Charles - that's not a mistake

As for the not in a competition - yeh whatever

Neither of you are disliked, in fact I would say you are well liked - but sometimes there is such a thing as 'too much of a good thing'!

The reason I feel this way is because you are both everywhere, even when you have nothing to say! And judging from the postings of others here, some longterm VJ addicts included, others think like I do. If I was you I would take note of these comments and politely accept the advice given.

Oh and guess what - you are right now the Top Poster today and Nessa is 5th - what a surprise!

I have said all I have to say - goodnight

Edited May 8, 2006 by sukie175

[PsychoKat 0]

ahhh... he won't be able to read this 'cause I'm being ignored, but while I'm at it, I would like to mention that your avatar is getting old, too.

There, I think i'm about done for the day.

First time in my entire life I have been called a drama queen.

I'm staying out of this. Oops

Oh btw i'm Nessa, don't get me confused

I just read through this thread and when I saw this I couldn't help but wonder. When someone has you on ignore, does it ignore it also when it's quoted back by someone or does it remain on ignore even after quoted?

Would be a good way to get around an ignore

[almaty 19]

You know what - ** it, I put a polite reply and agreed with Tracy, Karo, Canadalaura, LisaD etc....and Charles you are still wittering on!

Actually you & Nessa have been on this board about 5 minutes in comparison to many of us here, but since you arrived you both seem to be on some hellbent mission to get the most posts daily and beat each other....with absolutley no consideration for the other members.

I went in to General Polls one day last week and Nessa had resurrected old polls since the day we had the whole site crash and had to move to the new site!! ####### it was extremely annoying to suddenly find Polls from 5 months ago that most of us had long since voted on, back on the front page again!

One day I decided to give you some competition at Top Poster, something I have never even got close to in over a year before, I was bored and thought what the hell! Well boy did I have to work hard and I won't be doing that again.

I have nothing against either of you personally, but at times this board feels like the charlesandnessa or nessaandcharles board not Visa Journey...and I for one am getting a little tired of it.

Ok flame away

good points sister sarah,....

Almatyyyyyyyyyyyy are you back by popular demand??????

i am part of the ewok army to move threads that are out of place..i cannot due my duty as scooby..so, back to almaty2004

[Ban Hammer 13,619]

wittering on? i'm answering those who add to the thread later. pardon me for such.

so nessa ressurected an old poll. so what? i accidentally restarted a thread because i did not pay attention to the dates on it.

i'm sure we all make mistakes. pardon us for making a few as we are still, as you say, newbies.

i'm not in competition with anyone regarding posting. nor was i aware that there is a limit to such.

the reason you might feel that way is both her and i are here. most people are just solo.

That would be about 16 old Polls resurrected actually Charles - that's not a mistake

As for the not in a competition - yeh whatever

Neither of you are disliked, in fact I would say you are well liked - but sometimes there is such a thing as 'too much of a good thing'!

The reason I feel this way is because you are both everywhere, even when you have nothing to say! And judging from the postings of others here, some longterm VJ addicts included, others think like I do. If I was you I would take note of these comments and politely accept the advice given.

Oh and guess what - you are right now the Top Poster today and Nessa is 5th - what a surprise!

I have said all I have to say - goodnight

so based on "The reason I feel this way is because you are both everywhere, even when you have nothing to say! " we should stfu and be quiet. very nice

i'm the top poster today cause i'm busy replying to people like yourself. i'm also certain that you give a hard time to every top poster each day.

[chri'stina 190]

yikes...this thread has become a bit scary

I don't think it's necessary to be annoyed at Nessa for going through old polls and adding in her votes...many people do that kind of thing when they are bored.

Yeah, it was annoying to see so many threads opened within a short time frame by one person, and that has been discussed already, but why the need to go at Charles & Nessas throats even more? People need to chill out.