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Leafgal   3

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Sorry, I'm ina bad mood today. Waiting to hear some news & I'ma wreck right now. So I'm not as diplomatic as I usually would be.

Sorry to hear that Lisa I hope the rest of the day gets better for you.

K-1 journey, AOS/EAD and ROC in my timeline

2011 March 31 - Sent off Naturalization pkg overnight to Texas

2011 April 1 - Arrived in Texas at 10:21 am

2011 April 1 - NOA (rec'd via snail mail April 8)

2011 April 7 - Cheque cashed

2011 May 5 - Biometrics (letter rec'd via snail mail April 15)

2011 May 9 - Placed in line for interview scheduling

2011 June 13 - Rec'd yellow letter (no change in status online)

2011 June 23 - Rec'd text that my case has been scheduled for interview

2011 August 1 - Interview (rec'd via snail mail June 27) PASSED

2011 August 3 - Rec'd email that my case has been scheduled for Oath

2011 September 1 - Oath ceremony (rec'd snail mail Aug 5)

2011 September 1 - All done, yeah.

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MichelleandCraig   1

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Hey Christina.. :) I agree with you more times than not, but as to CanGals thread... The TOPIC she posted had been discussed on pages upon pages already, and came to a resolution when she and her hubby talked things through...due to the nature of the topic, it kind of went from there. I don't think anyone really hijacked it while it was still 'her' thread, so to speak. I've participated in that too, and it's just kind of taken on a life of it's own now....really nothing to do with CanGal or any disrespect to her :no: as I've mentioned a couple of times in that thread myself.... I try not to do that if the topic is still ON topic... ;):) M.

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Charles, the same was said to Melo a while back. The concern is not with jokes in themselves, but simply that other stuff gets pushed off the front page. I know that there have been times that I've posted a valid question only to see it get buried under a mountain of rubbish and never gotten the answer I needed, and that can be frustrating.

I liked the moral of the story though :star:

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This is the "hostile" PM. If you find the hostility, please point it out to me.

Is it really necessary to post a million jokes in their own threads? It's really annoying.

It's all about the way you talk about it. I can see why he found it hostile, and why you don't see a problem :P

Oh come on----Charles-you were in the military for 20 years ! ( I think thats what i remember you saying) You call this hostile????? I know you heard FAR FAR worse ( and to your face not on line) there! I know your skin is thicker than taking "umbrance" at a PM!

Before you bash me-I was in the military too.....I heard worse hostility than this in the chow hall-never mind anywhere else( the field)!

I didn't see anything hostile in that PM.

I IS annoying. Sorry-but it is-and I think you know it is!

"You should have the common sense not to spam the boards with shite jokes in like 50 bazillion threads, then take a huff when people say summat about it. You don't like that? Sorry!"--LisaD

I know you have heard worse than what the others have said or what I am saying now--before-don't be insulted.

It's just she is right-it's annoying!

respectfully and thanks for serving in the military-(I am sure thats what you said once)!

M(tmma)

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Hey Christina.. :) I agree with you more times than not, but as to CanGals thread... The TOPIC she posted had been discussed on pages upon pages already, and came to a resolution when she and her hubby talked things through...due to the nature of the topic, it kind of went from there. I don't think anyone really hijacked it while it was still 'her' thread, so to speak. I've participated in that too, and it's just kind of taken on a life of it's own now....really nothing to do with CanGal or any disrespect to her :no: as I've mentioned a couple of times in that thread myself.... I try not to do that if the topic is still ON topic... ;):) M.

true michelle...at least her topic was discussed and finalized in her opinion...

though I think it's insensitive the way some had taken it over as a "pro-porn" silly thread pages and pages ago, when the OP obviously had a problem with porn related things, I would have been ticked off if I was her. I know now it's seems it's just a 'hey how are ya' thread at least.

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Well, I never really thought about that aspect to be honest, but I can see your point in that too. Again, I'm guilty as well tho. :( I would hope she knew, due to comments made right on the thread tho, that it really didn't mean anything against her, or any wishes to offend her.

:) M.

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Well, I never really thought about that aspect to be honest, but I can see your point in that too. Again, I'm guilty as well tho. :( I would hope she knew, due to comments made right on the thread tho, that it really didn't mean anything against her, or any wishes to offend her.

:) M.

maybe she did realize that. :) Or she could have been too embarassed to say how she really feels. Anyway...you are a sweetheart and I know you wouldn't do anything on purpose to hurt anyone's feelings. :thumbs:

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Why are you guys talking about that thread on this thread?! :huh:

I'm so confused! :hehe:

K-1 Timeline

11-29-05: Mailed I-129F Petition to CSC

12-06-05: NOA1

03-02-06: NOA2

03-23-06: Interview Date May 16

05-17-06: K-1 Visa Issued

05-20-06: Arrived at POE, Honolulu

07-17-06: Married

AOS Timeline

08-14-06: Mailed I-485 to Chicago

08-24-06: NOA for I-485

09-08-06: Biometrics Appointment

09-25-06: I-485 transferred to CSC

09-28-06: I-485 received at CSC

10-18-06: AOS Approved

10-21-06: Approval notice mailed

10-23-06: Received "Welcome Letter"

10-27-06: Received 2 yr Green Card

I-751 Timeline

07-21-08: Mailed I-751 to VSC

07-25-08: NOA for I-751

08-27-08: Biometrics Appointment

02-25-09: I-751 transferred to CSC

04-17-09: I-751 Approved

06-22-09: Received 10 yr Green Card

N-400 Timeline

07-20-09: Mailed N-400 to Lewisville, TX

07-23-09: NOA for N-400

08-14-09: Biometrics Appointment

09-08-09: Interview Date Oct 07

10-30-09: Oath Ceremony

11-20-09: Received Passport!!!

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Why are you guys talking about that thread on this thread?! :huh:

I'm so confused! :hehe:

ha ha ha :lol:

K-1 journey, AOS/EAD and ROC in my timeline

2011 March 31 - Sent off Naturalization pkg overnight to Texas

2011 April 1 - Arrived in Texas at 10:21 am

2011 April 1 - NOA (rec'd via snail mail April 8)

2011 April 7 - Cheque cashed

2011 May 5 - Biometrics (letter rec'd via snail mail April 15)

2011 May 9 - Placed in line for interview scheduling

2011 June 13 - Rec'd yellow letter (no change in status online)

2011 June 23 - Rec'd text that my case has been scheduled for interview

2011 August 1 - Interview (rec'd via snail mail June 27) PASSED

2011 August 3 - Rec'd email that my case has been scheduled for Oath

2011 September 1 - Oath ceremony (rec'd snail mail Aug 5)

2011 September 1 - All done, yeah.

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Well, I never really thought about that aspect to be honest, but I can see your point in that too. Again, I'm guilty as well tho. :( I would hope she knew, due to comments made right on the thread tho, that it really didn't mean anything against her, or any wishes to offend her.

:) M.

maybe she did realize that. :) Or she could have been too embarassed to say how she really feels. Anyway...you are a sweetheart and I know you wouldn't do anything on purpose to hurt anyone's feelings. :thumbs:

I had a convo with her thro' PM a while back...about the thread...she didn't didn't seem upset about it just surprized how it had taken on a life of it's own....

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Well, I never really thought about that aspect to be honest, but I can see your point in that too. Again, I'm guilty as well tho. :( I would hope she knew, due to comments made right on the thread tho, that it really didn't mean anything against her, or any wishes to offend her.

:) M.

maybe she did realize that. :) Or she could have been too embarassed to say how she really feels. Anyway...you are a sweetheart and I know you wouldn't do anything on purpose to hurt anyone's feelings. :thumbs:

I had a convo with her thro' PM a while back...about the thread...she didn't didn't seem upset about it just surprized how it had taken on a life of it's own....

good :)

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Well, I never really thought about that aspect to be honest, but I can see your point in that too. Again, I'm guilty as well tho. :( I would hope she knew, due to comments made right on the thread tho, that it really didn't mean anything against her, or any wishes to offend her.

:) M.

maybe she did realize that. :) Or she could have been too embarassed to say how she really feels. Anyway...you are a sweetheart and I know you wouldn't do anything on purpose to hurt anyone's feelings. :thumbs:

I had a convo with her thro' PM a while back...about the thread...she didn't didn't seem upset about it just surprized how it had taken on a life of it's own....

Kool!!! Tha'ts good to hear, because some of us like to have fun and lighten things up. It's not meant to be malicious! :no:

Why are you guys talking about that thread on this thread?! :huh:

I'm so confused! :hehe:

it's called hijacking :yes::lol:

Ahhhh ... I see!!! :D I've never seen a thread hijacked before!!! :huh:

It's a new VJ experience for me!!! WooHoo!!! :dancing: :joy: :dancing:

:D

K-1 Timeline

11-29-05: Mailed I-129F Petition to CSC

12-06-05: NOA1

03-02-06: NOA2

03-23-06: Interview Date May 16

05-17-06: K-1 Visa Issued

05-20-06: Arrived at POE, Honolulu

07-17-06: Married

AOS Timeline

08-14-06: Mailed I-485 to Chicago

08-24-06: NOA for I-485

09-08-06: Biometrics Appointment

09-25-06: I-485 transferred to CSC

09-28-06: I-485 received at CSC

10-18-06: AOS Approved

10-21-06: Approval notice mailed

10-23-06: Received "Welcome Letter"

10-27-06: Received 2 yr Green Card

I-751 Timeline

07-21-08: Mailed I-751 to VSC

07-25-08: NOA for I-751

08-27-08: Biometrics Appointment

02-25-09: I-751 transferred to CSC

04-17-09: I-751 Approved

06-22-09: Received 10 yr Green Card

N-400 Timeline

07-20-09: Mailed N-400 to Lewisville, TX

07-23-09: NOA for N-400

08-14-09: Biometrics Appointment

09-08-09: Interview Date Oct 07

10-30-09: Oath Ceremony

11-20-09: Received Passport!!!

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Well, I never really thought about that aspect to be honest, but I can see your point in that too. Again, I'm guilty as well tho. :( I would hope she knew, due to comments made right on the thread tho, that it really didn't mean anything against her, or any wishes to offend her.

:) M.

maybe she did realize that. :) Or she could have been too embarassed to say how she really feels. Anyway...you are a sweetheart and I know you wouldn't do anything on purpose to hurt anyone's feelings. :thumbs:

I had a convo with her thro' PM a while back...about the thread...she didn't didn't seem upset about it just surprized how it had taken on a life of it's own....

Kool!!! Tha'ts good to hear, because some of us like to have fun and lighten things up. It's not meant to be malicious! :no:

Why are you guys talking about that thread on this thread?! :huh:

I'm so confused! :hehe:

it's called hijacking :yes::lol:

Ahhhh ... I see!!! :D I've never seen a thread hijacked before!!! :huh:

It's a new VJ experience for me!!! WooHoo!!! :dancing: :joy: :dancing:

:D

I agree it was never meant to hurt her or make her feel bad. Being new to here I see where it can take on life of its own and I will always keep in mind should that happen to me with a posting it is not meant in a bad way and I am glad she knows that also. I hope it all did work out with her and her SO.

K-1 journey, AOS/EAD and ROC in my timeline

2011 March 31 - Sent off Naturalization pkg overnight to Texas

2011 April 1 - Arrived in Texas at 10:21 am

2011 April 1 - NOA (rec'd via snail mail April 8)

2011 April 7 - Cheque cashed

2011 May 5 - Biometrics (letter rec'd via snail mail April 15)

2011 May 9 - Placed in line for interview scheduling

2011 June 13 - Rec'd yellow letter (no change in status online)

2011 June 23 - Rec'd text that my case has been scheduled for interview

2011 August 1 - Interview (rec'd via snail mail June 27) PASSED

2011 August 3 - Rec'd email that my case has been scheduled for Oath

2011 September 1 - Oath ceremony (rec'd snail mail Aug 5)

2011 September 1 - All done, yeah.

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