Not So Good

[Nagishkaw 510]

That's certainly a different interview from Morocco that I've read. I hope she believes him and you go on for security checks but call DOS just to confirm what the deal is.

As far as the "what was the last movie she saw", I never understood those types of questions. How the heck would she know if he's lying???? Not like she called you beforehand to get the heads up.

I said the same thing its a question that is completely irrelevant to determining if a relationship is valid or not. Specially since no where does it say I only watch action flicks unless they have been checking my DVD rental history at Blockbusters.

That would not suprise me.

[samira_07 1]

I have a good feeling about this, I think your husband will be on his way soon. She sounds like a tool, ####### is with the question what was the last movie you saw? That is some BS to me, good thing it wasn't me in that interview, I have a smart mouth, would have said something like, oh yea, I think it was a porno.

LMAO!!! This is just the laughter I need to keep me rolling...and the funny part is it might have been true , maybe this is why it really threw him off, okay that is so bad of me to say the salt from the fries are kickin in!!!!

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

Darn... i'm so sorry, Samira... i was having such high hopes. It is nerve-wracking going through Casa!

But like Nagi said, it's not the end-end of the world news. If she kept the evidence, then that means they will review your case further. It's not a denial... Did she give him any kind of documents after he finished?

(F) (F)

Yes she gave him a white paper with several options on it, marked was review of further evidence. Do you think it means he will have another interview. Maybe this time they will ask when is the last time I ate at McDonald's. O wait that was today, lol I was very bad and had those French fries not too good with my issue of swelling up these days but I had a craving for salty fries this whole day.

Did they know you were pregnant?

[samira_07 1]

Well after not sleeping the whole night and feeling awful, my husband finally got around calling me at about 8 am. He said he did not want to get me upset on what took place during his interview. First his interview was long almost 1 hour with the lady that he describes as semi-older Asian. The first 20 mins of the interview she did not understand how we meet using a dating site. She kept asking did you find her in a yahoo chat my husband kept saying no I meet her and then we exchange skype information and MSN (I do not use yahoo). Then she kept asking about why we do not use yahoo to chat......The the questions changed to about when we meet and how long we have spent time with each other, then about my children. Then she said to him, O the divorce paper is not in the file (hmmm....how did it ever get approved without it) and he showed it to her and she just handed it back to him. Then the questions continued and the subject of who paid for his trip (our honeymoon) my husband said he did, but the lady insisted that I gave him money and asked how much did I send to him, my husband said nothing and plus here is the affidavit of support it indicates how much she makes and she can not afford to pay for me Then she went on and said okay (again she did not keep this either). Then the last question she asked him was what was the last movie I saw and he said he was confused and said Transformers. Now that was the last movie we saw together not that I saw on my own . My poor husband said he saw her deny others for tourist visas before him and he knew that she would be the person to interview him this made him so nervous. In the end she asked to keep our communication evidence he had (skype phone log, email, etc..) for review and said that she would call him when she is done reviewing the evidence. She said she could not give a time frame of how long. So we still do not know anything more then yesterday. Although I was hoping he just would have a paper that stated further name checks at least then we would know his visa would be issued soon. I am not even sure if he will require another interview? I wish I could of had better news today

Did the consul know you are 23 weeks pregnant? If she didnt , or he didnt have a chance to tell her because its not in your paperwork, I would start calling your congressman and anyone you can to tell them to contact the embassy and let them know. You will need to get a pregnancy confirmation from your OB and call the congress man's office and senator today. You are NOT in the position to handle a 4 to 5 month AP. Play the pregnancy card and very fast and I promise you any proof of relationship worries will evaporate

You know what, he said at the end he was finally able to get out that I was pregnant plus he did have documentation from my OB with him. Also I do not think I said this earlier but when he left the communication she acted she did not want to see it all, she said to him o this is enough and he said, here are phone records, and emails (she was only interested in the chat part). She did say to him, o this is enough (without the phone record, which is our preferred method of communication!). I sent my senator the information earlier and talked to the person in his office that helps with immigration issues. I will see what transpires from this as well.

thanks for your help, plus I will contact the congress rep too

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

Well after not sleeping the whole night and feeling awful, my husband finally got around calling me at about 8 am. He said he did not want to get me upset on what took place during his interview. First his interview was long almost 1 hour with the lady that he describes as semi-older Asian. The first 20 mins of the interview she did not understand how we meet using a dating site. She kept asking did you find her in a yahoo chat my husband kept saying no I meet her and then we exchange skype information and MSN (I do not use yahoo). Then she kept asking about why we do not use yahoo to chat......The the questions changed to about when we meet and how long we have spent time with each other, then about my children. Then she said to him, O the divorce paper is not in the file (hmmm....how did it ever get approved without it) and he showed it to her and she just handed it back to him. Then the questions continued and the subject of who paid for his trip (our honeymoon) my husband said he did, but the lady insisted that I gave him money and asked how much did I send to him, my husband said nothing and plus here is the affidavit of support it indicates how much she makes and she can not afford to pay for me Then she went on and said okay (again she did not keep this either). Then the last question she asked him was what was the last movie I saw and he said he was confused and said Transformers. Now that was the last movie we saw together not that I saw on my own . My poor husband said he saw her deny others for tourist visas before him and he knew that she would be the person to interview him this made him so nervous. In the end she asked to keep our communication evidence he had (skype phone log, email, etc..) for review and said that she would call him when she is done reviewing the evidence. She said she could not give a time frame of how long. So we still do not know anything more then yesterday. Although I was hoping he just would have a paper that stated further name checks at least then we would know his visa would be issued soon. I am not even sure if he will require another interview? I wish I could of had better news today

Did the consul know you are 23 weeks pregnant? If she didnt , or he didnt have a chance to tell her because its not in your paperwork, I would start calling your congressman and anyone you can to tell them to contact the embassy and let them know. You will need to get a pregnancy confirmation from your OB and call the congress man's office and senator today. You are NOT in the position to handle a 4 to 5 month AP. Play the pregnancy card and very fast and I promise you any proof of relationship worries will evaporate

You know what, he said at the end he was finally able to get out that I was pregnant plus he did have documentation from my OB with him. Also I do not think I said this earlier but when he left the communication she acted she did not want to see it all, she said to him o this is enough and he said, here are phone records, and emails (she was only interested in the chat part). She did say to him, o this is enough (without the phone record, which is our preferred method of communication!). I sent my senator the information earlier and talked to the person in his office that helps with immigration issues. I will see what transpires from this as well.

thanks for your help, plus I will contact the congress rep too

Maybe she was pissed off because she wanted to deny the case and then he pulled out papers from the OB... ( hhhhhhhhhh) That may have been the reason she just told him we will get back in touch with you and didnt outright deny it. I would DEFINITELY , having had a pregnancy expedite IMMEDIATELY find out the fax number of the embassy and refax your pregnancy letter with your ob letter and a coversheet inquiring about the status of your case. Its hard to prove a non bonafide marriage when a little Moroccan is dancing around in your stomach. My husband got his transit visa and regular visa pretty easily because of it... Pregnancy is pretty much proof of a consumated relationship.... Push it.. If you dont they wont see it. If you push it they will and NO ONE wants to mess with a 23 week old pregnant woman craving french fries (you) lol

Well after not sleeping the whole night and feeling awful, my husband finally got around calling me at about 8 am. He said he did not want to get me upset on what took place during his interview. First his interview was long almost 1 hour with the lady that he describes as semi-older Asian. The first 20 mins of the interview she did not understand how we meet using a dating site. She kept asking did you find her in a yahoo chat my husband kept saying no I meet her and then we exchange skype information and MSN (I do not use yahoo). Then she kept asking about why we do not use yahoo to chat......The the questions changed to about when we meet and how long we have spent time with each other, then about my children. Then she said to him, O the divorce paper is not in the file (hmmm....how did it ever get approved without it) and he showed it to her and she just handed it back to him. Then the questions continued and the subject of who paid for his trip (our honeymoon) my husband said he did, but the lady insisted that I gave him money and asked how much did I send to him, my husband said nothing and plus here is the affidavit of support it indicates how much she makes and she can not afford to pay for me Then she went on and said okay (again she did not keep this either). Then the last question she asked him was what was the last movie I saw and he said he was confused and said Transformers. Now that was the last movie we saw together not that I saw on my own . My poor husband said he saw her deny others for tourist visas before him and he knew that she would be the person to interview him this made him so nervous. In the end she asked to keep our communication evidence he had (skype phone log, email, etc..) for review and said that she would call him when she is done reviewing the evidence. She said she could not give a time frame of how long. So we still do not know anything more then yesterday. Although I was hoping he just would have a paper that stated further name checks at least then we would know his visa would be issued soon. I am not even sure if he will require another interview? I wish I could of had better news today

Did the consul know you are 23 weeks pregnant? If she didnt , or he didnt have a chance to tell her because its not in your paperwork, I would start calling your congressman and anyone you can to tell them to contact the embassy and let them know. You will need to get a pregnancy confirmation from your OB and call the congress man's office and senator today. You are NOT in the position to handle a 4 to 5 month AP. Play the pregnancy card and very fast and I promise you any proof of relationship worries will evaporate

You know what, he said at the end he was finally able to get out that I was pregnant plus he did have documentation from my OB with him. Also I do not think I said this earlier but when he left the communication she acted she did not want to see it all, she said to him o this is enough and he said, here are phone records, and emails (she was only interested in the chat part). She did say to him, o this is enough (without the phone record, which is our preferred method of communication!). I sent my senator the information earlier and talked to the person in his office that helps with immigration issues. I will see what transpires from this as well.

thanks for your help, plus I will contact the congress rep too

holy #######.. we are exactly one week apart...Since I am definitely getting induced we may have our babies around the same time LOL

[samira_07 1]

I would start calling your congressman and anyone you can to tell them to contact the embassy and let them know. You will need to get a pregnancy confirmation from your OB and call the congress man's office and senator today. You are NOT in the position to handle a 4 to 5 month AP. Play the pregnancy card and very fast and I promise you any proof of relationship worries will evaporate

Irresponsible behavior should not be rewarded, IMO.

you know nothing about samira to imply that her behaviour is in any way irresponsible or not.

Thanks for having my back on this one!

[samira_07 1]

I would start calling your congressman and anyone you can to tell them to contact the embassy and let them know. You will need to get a pregnancy confirmation from your OB and call the congress man's office and senator today. You are NOT in the position to handle a 4 to 5 month AP. Play the pregnancy card and very fast and I promise you any proof of relationship worries will evaporate

Irresponsible behavior should not be rewarded, IMO.

What the hell are you talking about?

Thanks for having my back you know some people just talk to be talking, O just like the person my husband interviewed with.

[sara535 15]

Samira, I agree it sounds not too bad. If they were denying or sending back you would know. wait and see what DOS says.

as for the pregnancy expedite, Wahrania I think you are the only case I have seen on this board in more than 4 years who that actually worked for. I have to assume its because of the complications from your asthma. From an immigration standpoint, the only thing a pregnancy during petitioning really proves is that the woman has been sexually active.

[samira_07 1]

Darn... i'm so sorry, Samira... i was having such high hopes. It is nerve-wracking going through Casa!

But like Nagi said, it's not the end-end of the world news. If she kept the evidence, then that means they will review your case further. It's not a denial... Did she give him any kind of documents after he finished?

(F) (F)

Yes she gave him a white paper with several options on it, marked was review of further evidence. Do you think it means he will have another interview. Maybe this time they will ask when is the last time I ate at McDonald's. O wait that was today, lol I was very bad and had those French fries not too good with my issue of swelling up these days but I had a craving for salty fries this whole day.

Did they know you were pregnant?

I had written a letter to UCIS in January about our pregnancy (in hopes for some type of expedition on approval plus it was almost 180 days) so it should have been in the file already with this request. Then again, so was my divorce degree from my previous marriage and she said she did not have that either. I wonder if they sent my file to Casa incomplete, hm....

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

Samira, I agree it sounds not too bad. If they were denying or sending back you would know. wait and see what DOS says.

as for the pregnancy expedite, Wahrania I think you are the only case I have seen on this board in more than 4 years who that actually worked for. I have to assume its because of the complications from your asthma. From an immigration standpoint, the only thing a pregnancy during petitioning really proves is that the woman has been sexually active.

I wasnt aware that anyone else had applied for it..It doesnt hurt for her to try though

[AlHayatZween 2]

Yes she gave him a white paper with several options on it, marked was review of further evidence. Do you think it means he will have another interview. Maybe this time they will ask when is the last time I ate at McDonald's. O wait that was today, lol I was very bad and had those French fries not too good with my issue of swelling up these days but I had a craving for salty fries this whole day.

Hi Samira,

i'm really glad that you are acting quickly and calling DOS and getting your congresspeople involved.

i think if the paper was marked for review of further evidence, then that is what they are doing. it could be that they just shuffle through the papers, and go directly in AR... Hard to say if they will want another interview, but you are doing all the right things at the moment! (F)

[samira_07 1]

Samira, I agree it sounds not too bad. If they were denying or sending back you would know. wait and see what DOS says.

as for the pregnancy expedite, Wahrania I think you are the only case I have seen on this board in more than 4 years who that actually worked for. I have to assume its because of the complications from your asthma. From an immigration standpoint, the only thing a pregnancy during petitioning really proves is that the woman has been sexually active.

Plus Wahrania your request was sent to NVC, I sent mine to USCIS for the expedite. I have heard of several cases of a quick NVC process where physical or financial hardship is in play. If I was not excited about approval after 7 months and not wanting to go though the further process of NVC I would have just stuck with the IR/CR I and tried with them to expedite. In retrospect that might have been a better choice.

[MelindaandTarek 0]

I pray for the best for you.

[~Jackie~ 30]

I agree with Sara on this......a pregnancy only shows the woman had sex. Does not show WHO she had sex with and usually does not constitute an expedited petition. I have known of many pregnant women that tried and ALL were denied. Wahrania's is the first that I know of in VJ's history that it did work for.

Jackie

(samira..i soooo was not talking about you in my first sentence! lol so don't get your salty panties in a twist )

[Marry American 0]

I was pregnant and tried to expedite our case. It was denied.