Confusion

[LenJayUS 0]

OP - I know the feeling man. My soon to be wife treats me the same way... she abuses me, emotionally, physically, mentally.. you anme it. She forces me to work to pay HER bills. She kicks me out of my own bedroom so that her boyfriend can sleep with her. But, I just can't leave her or anything... with me not having a back bone or anything. So I just go around places to post some made up BS :-)

Don't feed the....

[antone 0]

OP - I know the feeling man. My soon to be wife treats me the same way... she abuses me, emotionally, physically, mentally.. you anme it. She forces me to work to pay HER bills. She kicks me out of my own bedroom so that her boyfriend can sleep with her. But, I just can't leave her or anything... with me not having a back bone or anything. So I just go around places to post some made up BS :-)

Don't feed the....

Yah. I just take stuff at face value because some stupid sh*t does happen. But the longer this runs, the more I think you're right.

[KarenCee 3]

*laughs softly* well said Len!

[Ban Hammer 13,429]

yup, just joined and posted all that. sounds like trolling.

[jelti 0]

yup, just joined and posted all that. sounds like trolling.

Just because the OP just joined with this account, doesn't mean he's a troll. He may have had a previous account but was too ashamed to post with it. Why do we all assume that these people who come on VJ posting very sad stories are trolls?

I give advice when it is asked for. I don't immediately think, "Oh this story can't be real, this poster must be a troll!" If he isn't a troll and is really going through all this, don't you think we ought to show some compassion and try to help out? And if we find out later that he is a troll, who cares?

[lyc2003 0]

Im not troll, or just playing any stupid game here, I wonder about some peoples here who dont even try to understand other propblems and instead of give em good advice then annoy em more. About my baby i dont think so she;s really preg by me, cus while we was married but i wasnt with her she had affair with her co worker but she never told me anything until i found all myself, and when i moved this country she start kicking my a** all time and she slept at her ex house couple of times and she went out with him, yeah they have kid together but my wife parents doesnt like him so as i already said he didnt get done anything for her and he always tried to control her life, he spit on her face and so much more, but after all she still go with him then its weird, i can't understand how one person could be.

I dont complint her for anything, since i moved here and i found so much things which was enough to broke my trust, my heart and destroy anything i wanted to move but my love made me stay with her, but after all this now im thankful to her and question is why her ex care if she's preg or not esp when she was preg by him he forced her for abortion and to care about his own kid he always ask her for money.

So well my advice is for all those peoples who met em lovers online, please becareful, before give up anything and before leave your country, sell your things just make sure what if same thing happen to you then, where you'll go, im lucky i have parents and so much support, but everyone is not this much lucky, and in another country you become so helpless..so best of luck to all of you

[Flames9_RN 358]

Thanks for joining VJ and sharing your wisdom!!

[Jaylen Brit 0]

We gave advice - leave her - there is no earthly reason for you to stay and be abused.

[denali_1963 0]

so what ever happen to sharron? did she continue to screw the x? Did you make it back to america? Did she continue to shop and buy things she can't afford? Did she loose any more babies? Does the saga continue or what?

[Hilarious Clinton 452]

embrace the paragraph

[babybunny 2]

this is more SHaron monique

hubby .. .its their sh it again

coz G.Dubya said so !

[Veiled Princess 1]