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This question is to the filipina ladies or their fiancee . How long does your tampo last? I made my fiancee mad may 6 and she will not answer her phone or message me back on yahoo. This is driving me crazy.I just dont know what to do any advice? i call her 10 times a day but she will not answer. please i need some help.

I never ignored my husband that long. When am mad or upset (tampo) i will be relieved after i confronted him. But ignoring him for few days will make me feel sick :lol: We never go to sleep not talking to each other. If you know her add try to send her flowers or gift. I hope you could find it online,for sure. LBC company do that i guess. Hope you guys will be okay asap.

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2007-06-09>>> Petition Sent to USCIS

2007-11-13>>> NOA1 got from mail

2007-11-05>>> RFE online

2007-11-15>>> Got RFE noticed

2007-11-05>>> USCIS received Additional evidence

2007-12-10>>> APPROVED

2007-12-11>>> Sent to NVC

2007-12-28>>> Packect 3 got in mail

2007-12-31>>> Sent to USE manila

2008-01-02>>> Embassy Received

2008-01-25>>> Got my Packet 4

2008-02-13>>> 1st day of early Medical

2008-02-14>>> 2nd day Early Medical

2008-02-15>>> PRISM counselling/yellow cert. given

2008-02-25>>> Orig. sched for medical

2008-02-28>>> My Honey will arrived from US

2008-03-03>>> Big Day ( Interview date) APPROVED

2008-03-08>>> Visa in Hand

2008-03-13>>> Sched Flight to SFO

2008-05-25>>>Got married

2008-15-08>>>Filed AOS

2008-05-12>>> EAD received

2009-02-02>>>Applied SSN

2009-18-02>>>ssn received

2009-20-02>>> welcome notice received

2009-21-02>>> Green card received

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This question is to the filipina ladies or their fiancee . How long does your tampo last? I made my fiancee mad may 6 and she will not answer her phone or message me back on yahoo. This is driving me crazy.I just dont know what to do any advice? i call her 10 times a day but she will not answer. please i need some help.

I never ignored my husband that long. When am mad or upset (tampo) i will be relieved after i confronted him. But ignoring him for few days will make me feel sick :lol: We never go to sleep not talking to each other. If you know her add try to send her flowers or gift. I hope you could find it online,for sure. LBC company do that i guess. Hope you guys will be okay asap.

oH sorry i just posted my advice immediately was not reading bout what you found out..well another advice from me would be ( Get rid of her..! If she does love you then she wont let that guy lived with her. It takes two to tango! Hope you find the right girl. )

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2007-06-09>>> Petition Sent to USCIS

2007-11-13>>> NOA1 got from mail

2007-11-05>>> RFE online

2007-11-15>>> Got RFE noticed

2007-11-05>>> USCIS received Additional evidence

2007-12-10>>> APPROVED

2007-12-11>>> Sent to NVC

2007-12-28>>> Packect 3 got in mail

2007-12-31>>> Sent to USE manila

2008-01-02>>> Embassy Received

2008-01-25>>> Got my Packet 4

2008-02-13>>> 1st day of early Medical

2008-02-14>>> 2nd day Early Medical

2008-02-15>>> PRISM counselling/yellow cert. given

2008-02-25>>> Orig. sched for medical

2008-02-28>>> My Honey will arrived from US

2008-03-03>>> Big Day ( Interview date) APPROVED

2008-03-08>>> Visa in Hand

2008-03-13>>> Sched Flight to SFO

2008-05-25>>>Got married

2008-15-08>>>Filed AOS

2008-05-12>>> EAD received

2009-02-02>>>Applied SSN

2009-18-02>>>ssn received

2009-20-02>>> welcome notice received

2009-21-02>>> Green card received

NO AOS INTERVIEW

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THis is really too bad, but at least you found out. It would have been awful to find out once she arrived in the US and was sending money back to support her boyfriend. I know that God has great plans for your future, and they will be for a beautiful love with someone who loves you exclusively

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Hello guys, just thought i wold let everyone know Lea contacted me and told me the whole story about the bf.He has been her bf on and off for the past 10 years.Her parents dont like him or aprove of him because he will not work.They had been split up for the last year and when he found out about me and Lea he came back into her lfe.She told me she was so sorry about not telling me the truth.Lea told me she loved the bf and me the same.that she knew the bf could never give her a good life and her plan was she hoped i would have never found out about him as she was gonna get her visa and sneak away from him and come to me and hoped he could never reach her or contact her no more.As hard as it was for me to do i told her im sorry Lea i still love you but you should have told me the truth from the begining.Good luck with your bf hope he makes you happy!

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Hello guys, just thought i wold let everyone know Lea contacted me and told me the whole story about the bf.He has been her bf on and off for the past 10 years.Her parents dont like him or aprove of him because he will not work.They had been split up for the last year and when he found out about me and Lea he came back into her lfe.She told me she was so sorry about not telling me the truth.Lea told me she loved the bf and me the same.that she knew the bf could never give her a good life and her plan was she hoped i would have never found out about him as she was gonna get her visa and sneak away from him and come to me and hoped he could never reach her or contact her no more.As hard as it was for me to do i told her im sorry Lea i still love you but you should have told me the truth from the begining.Good luck with your bf hope he makes you happy!

im sorry to hear this.. but for me, ur decision is right.. :thumbs:

Lea is hiding to you her situation, she is not honest..

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Hello guys, just thought i wold let everyone know Lea contacted me and told me the whole story about the bf.He has been her bf on and off for the past 10 years.Her parents dont like him or aprove of him because he will not work.They had been split up for the last year and when he found out about me and Lea he came back into her lfe.She told me she was so sorry about not telling me the truth.Lea told me she loved the bf and me the same.that she knew the bf could never give her a good life and her plan was she hoped i would have never found out about him as she was gonna get her visa and sneak away from him and come to me and hoped he could never reach her or contact her no more.As hard as it was for me to do i told her im sorry Lea i still love you but you should have told me the truth from the begining.Good luck with your bf hope he makes you happy!

Good for you! There's a better person waiting for you out there, someone who will be honest with you and will not cheat on you. I'm glad that you're not a fool and accept her back despite what she's been doing. I wish you all the best! :thumbs:

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Hello guys, just thought i wold let everyone know Lea contacted me and told me the whole story about the bf.He has been her bf on and off for the past 10 years.Her parents dont like him or aprove of him because he will not work.They had been split up for the last year and when he found out about me and Lea he came back into her lfe.She told me she was so sorry about not telling me the truth.Lea told me she loved the bf and me the same.that she knew the bf could never give her a good life and her plan was she hoped i would have never found out about him as she was gonna get her visa and sneak away from him and come to me and hoped he could never reach her or contact her no more.As hard as it was for me to do i told her im sorry Lea i still love you but you should have told me the truth from the begining.Good luck with your bf hope he makes you happy!

Kudos to you. :thumbs:

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Hello guys, just thought i wold let everyone know Lea contacted me and told me the whole story about the bf.He has been her bf on and off for the past 10 years.Her parents dont like him or aprove of him because he will not work.They had been split up for the last year and when he found out about me and Lea he came back into her lfe.She told me she was so sorry about not telling me the truth.Lea told me she loved the bf and me the same.that she knew the bf could never give her a good life and her plan was she hoped i would have never found out about him as she was gonna get her visa and sneak away from him and come to me and hoped he could never reach her or contact her no more.As hard as it was for me to do i told her im sorry Lea i still love you but you should have told me the truth from the begining.Good luck with your bf hope he makes you happy!

so sorry to hear about what happened to you. but you made to right decision of letting her go, you don't deserve to start your life together with drama and half-truths. i wish you all the best and hope you find someone who truly loves you.

mikeandlani

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Hello guys, just thought i wold let everyone know Lea contacted me and told me the whole story about the bf.He has been her bf on and off for the past 10 years.Her parents dont like him or aprove of him because he will not work.They had been split up for the last year and when he found out about me and Lea he came back into her lfe.She told me she was so sorry about not telling me the truth.Lea told me she loved the bf and me the same.that she knew the bf could never give her a good life and her plan was she hoped i would have never found out about him as she was gonna get her visa and sneak away from him and come to me and hoped he could never reach her or contact her no more.As hard as it was for me to do i told her im sorry Lea i still love you but you should have told me the truth from the begining.Good luck with your bf hope he makes you happy!

You made the right decision. You love her a lot but you need to love yourself too. It hurts a lot but it will heal in due time. It's your that you wise up and stand for yourself to not accept her. It's not right to continue the relationship with her while she's being with her other bf. Waiting for her visa to be approved so she could escape from her other bf is not an excuse. If she really wants to leave his other lover....she should do it immediately. Why wait?!

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It was very hard guys to tell Lea what i told her because i love her so very much. I dont know if i will ever get over my broken heart.It will be hard to trust again but maybe oneday i will find my true love.I just fill so used and left with a broken heart

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It was very hard guys to tell Lea what i told her because i love her so very much. I dont know if i will ever get over my broken heart.It will be hard to trust again but maybe oneday i will find my true love.I just fill so used and left with a broken heart

Michael,

i beleive there is girl for you who deserve to your love.. and you too.. she will come in the right time... as of now just be happy :)

Goodluck!

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01/13/08 we first met personally at NAIA airport

o1/21/08 became engaged

01/25/08 he flew back to FL.

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04/25/08 noa1 hard copy received

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07/29/08 touched ( but it was an rfe lol )

07/29/08 rfe sent from uscis and fiance received it through fax. actually he called that time to follow up our case and the woman said that we have our rfe so my fiance asked to send it through fax right away.

07/29/08 request documents needed sent to uscis

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07/31/08 Rfe's document was delivered at 12:50 PM. The item was signed for by P NOVAK.

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08/05/08 touched ( wonder why touched again lol )

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08/13/08 NOA2 ( WERE APPROVED) :) THANK YOU LORD!

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Hi,

It seems to me that this girl don't really mean that she is loving you, coz based on what you have said , it sounds that she loves you for immigration purpose only. I'm sorry, but that is how i see it.

You seems nice and i think you deserve to have an GOOD wife not only for yourself but for your kids-to-be someday. It's for your happiness and for your family also. And this begins with having an HONEST PARTNER and knows how to respect and be respected as well.

There are lots of singles in Philippines who are truly sincere, if you want to have luck maybe i can match you to some of my single friends. ;) Yay.

Good luck and be strong.

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Hello guys, just thought i wold let everyone know Lea contacted me and told me the whole story about the bf.He has been her bf on and off for the past 10 years.Her parents dont like him or aprove of him because he will not work.They had been split up for the last year and when he found out about me and Lea he came back into her lfe.She told me she was so sorry about not telling me the truth.Lea told me she loved the bf and me the same.that she knew the bf could never give her a good life and her plan was she hoped i would have never found out about him as she was gonna get her visa and sneak away from him and come to me and hoped he could never reach her or contact her no more.As hard as it was for me to do i told her im sorry Lea i still love you but you should have told me the truth from the begining.Good luck with your bf hope he makes you happy!
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oohhh i'm so sorry to hear about that michael... i understand how you feel please don't lose hope, just pray to god and in time you will surely find the ONE for you...

god bless you....

i feel for you (F)

nanz

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