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This question is to the filipina ladies or their fiancee . How long does your tampo last? I made my fiancee mad may 6 and she will not answer her phone or message me back on yahoo. This is driving me crazy.I just dont know what to do any advice? i call her 10 times a day but she will not answer. please i need some help.

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This question is to the filipina ladies or their fiancee . How long does your tampo last? I made my fiancee mad may 6 and she will not answer her phone or message me back on yahoo. This is driving me crazy.I just dont know what to do any advice? i call her 10 times a day but she will not answer. please i need some help.

depends its case to case basis normally in my opinion when my husband did something sweet or talked to me ; say sorry and explained what happened ill be okay in few minutes,, -- some guys normally give out cards, flower by surprise ;)dont wori things gonna be okay not unless her phone is not working better talked to her via email left her an offline message.. give her a visit ;) thats the best

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When I was upset usually it last 20-30 min esp when he looks so sad and keep touching me... :devil: :devil:

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5-10 minutes only. Hubby can't take it if i ignore him. He always make a way for us to talk right away. He doesn't want to let the sun down with out settling my "tampo". Now I tried myself not to make tampo anymore....I feel guilty everytime I ignored him.

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Mine lasts only for a few minutes 'coz he won't give up till the tampo goes away :star:

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My fiance' knows where to tickle me :lol: .He makes me 'pikon' (upset) when I can't handle his jokes but in few minutes I am relieved. My baby's a No.1 joker. So far,we haven't had any serious arguments or LQ (love quarrels) to make me tampo. We discuss things online but we make sure things are clear before we end our talks.

Try not calling your fiancee anymore, she'll be looking after you. :rofl: (Reverse psych.)

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I CANT TAMPO NOW COZ I AM PREGNANT BUT I REALLY MISSED IT...SO I TOLD TO MY ASAWA PREPARE HIMSELF COZ HE KNOWS WHAT WILL HAPPEN ONCE I BORN THE BABY... :innocent:

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Normally,tampo doesnt last for a long time,that's why it's called tampo.it usually lasts for a few minutes and it's different from being mad.Maybe that's what your fiancee feels toward you otherwise she wont ignore your calls.Anyway,I hope everything works out well with both of you.after you have patched things up,you'll be sweeter than before :)

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Offering a fiance perspective, if my fiancee gets tampo it might last a little while but generally I seek to resolve any conflicts, quarelling, tampo quicky kasi both of us don't like it. We've come up with different strageties like communicating potential differences before they reach a blow-out point. Basicall our perspective is if something is bothering either of us, we'll talk about it. Obviously there are situations and scenarios that are random but we try to be conscious of each other always.

My advice Michael, let this serve as a learning example and suggest to your s.o. to be more open communicatively.

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my tampo last for some few mins to an hour. my husband knows how to make me smile and he won't stop till he makes me laugh. we usually talk about the prob and try to smoothen it. in your case, try to send her some roses. i believe that flowers makes every girl smile :D.

good luck to you both and i hope everything in your relationship will get back to normal :)

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Hmmm, maybe there's some serious issues here. Give her the space she needs.....a few days without contact...and see if she will contact you. Hope you get back on the right track.

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What then shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who is against us?

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i think i will not call for a few days if all does not work out i will tell the whole story
Doesn't sound like tampo. More like she has another guy on the line!

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When I am in tampo mood :) and then Ryan gave me some flowers, even he will just pick it in our yard it's ok + sorry & sweet words... my tampo vanished right away :D

Maybe send some flowers & small bear & sorry note? :) but if not working and still she will not contact u,, maybe something goin' on..

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