strange pm's

[tammy2688 1]

I think there are several unrelated issues with PMs. Maybe it would help to be more specific about the nature of these particular ones?

Well, I'll elaborate a little... this person in question has been targeting ppl w/ Moroccan SO's and has been asking where SO is from and then going on to say something to the effect of "I have a secret to tell you... blah, blah, blah" and continuing on about how you are being used for a GC and don't file the papers for (fill in the blank of whatever stage you're at). Yadda, yadda, yadda....

To this person I'd like to just say : Go f### yourself!

wow what an #######...thats uncalled for seriously. I'll elaborate on mine - it seems the same person praying on a select few and they seem to just wanna chat all the time...until they get blocked, that is. Personal questions as well. A/L. but constant chat requests like they just dont comprehend we're here to "hook up." durrrr

[tammy2688 1]

I have been contacted by some.. a particular one more than others.. creepy.. personal info asked and all.... my mistake was that being a friendly person i gave in... now my marriage is in jeopardy because of this situation..................

I get that totally - this person was trying to personally chat during the slumber parties and it just ruined my whole experience and even during my husband's phone calls this person was requesting yahoo id...wow....

[brnidokiegurl 0]

these times seem to be late evening also when they get on

[tammy2688 1]

For charles: sorry this was probably not what u were talking about in your post but its a problem that definately needs to be flushed out. We dont need harrasment on this site. Thanks for bringing this to surface. I never mentioned much thinking it was an isolated case. I see it is definately not.

Best course of action to take is to block these people, and should you find that multiple people are getting the same PM's - forward them on to one of the mods or ewok.

Right. I deleted the PMs thinking they would "go away" - basically i see theres 2 main culprits:

#1 that claims to know the secrets of the MENA husbands

#2 that constantly requests chatting/yahoo ids and asks personal questions.

Both of their names we all collectively know, those who have been affected. I wish I had kept those PMs.

Ya seriously GET A LIFE!

Edited May 6, 2008 by tammy2688

[RAKASA 0]

Best course of action to take is to block these people, and should you find that multiple people are getting the same PM's - forward them on to one of the mods or ewok.

This *has* been done, however, since it seems to be happening to many, we're trying to all connect, compare experiences and go to Ewok w/ a report of these experiences.

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

Best course of action to take is to block these people, and should you find that multiple people are getting the same PM's - forward them on to one of the mods or ewok.

Right. I deleted the PMs thinking they would "go away" - basically i see theres 2 main culprits:

#1 that claims to know the secrets of the MENA husbands

#2 that constantly requests chatting/yahoo ids and asks personal questions.

Both of their names we all collectively know, those who have been affected. I wish I had kept those PMs.

Ya seriously GET A LIFE!

No one ever pms me except if there is a slumber party

[Ban Hammer 13,347]

For charles: sorry this was probably not what u were talking about in your post but its a problem that definately needs to be flushed out. We dont need harrasment on this site. Thanks for bringing this to surface. I never mentioned much thinking it was an isolated case. I see it is definately not.

Best course of action to take is to block these people, and should you find that multiple people are getting the same PM's - forward them on to one of the mods or ewok.

Right. I deleted the PMs thinking they would "go away" - basically i see theres 2 main culprits:

#1 that claims to know the secrets of the MENA husbands

#2 that constantly requests chatting/yahoo ids and asks personal questions.

Both of their names we all collectively know, those who have been affected. I wish I had kept those PMs.

Ya seriously GET A LIFE!

the first is what i was aiming for, the second is probably a follow on but good to have out in the open too.

[brnidokiegurl 0]

I didnt mention at first either because it was stupid, but i would like to see this person stopped, they dont even have connections to MENA and also another just came forward making 5/6

they seem to be from april 29/30 time frame, guess they were bored

Edited May 6, 2008 by brnidokiegurl

[sarahaziz 0]

When I did post my email address up i had a few men 2 from morrocoo and 1 from egypt contact me via yahoo mesanger asking for cam?? 1 algerian man from here talked to me by yahoo for his marriage visa and about his wifes problems but he was respectful towards me.

And they are married to woman on these boards . I wanted to make their names known and post a new subject but I know women on here would take it in another way.

If you're concerned about the USER IDs of the married men who PM'd me I'll look in my inbox and let anybody with that concern know.

[Hanna&Mohamed 0]

We have gotten 1 also!

[Tunisia216 2]

The same person that everyone is talking about ( I think) wanted to chat with me too a lot and was saying very inappropriate things.. But I took my screen names off my main page and that seemed to fix it. I'm sorry you are all dealing with this. I hope it gets resolved soon.

[amal 4]

Yup, I had one too. I had posted a msg to everyone on my friends list (i think) who it was and what his screen name was just in case he contacted them. He tried to get me to talk multiple times about extremely intimate subjects and I tried to be nice and tell him that I didn't believe in talking that way with anyone other than my husband ESPECIALLY not to other men. He still continued to ask those questions so I blocked him. I give anyone the benefit of the doubt till they just can't get over being stupid. I hope he quits this nonsense.

amal

[Chica Yeyé 41]

Hmmm... come think about it, I did get a couple of weird PMs from someone, asking that kind of questions: where you at? age? yada yada yada. I told the person to back off and it worked. Maybe it was bigger than I thought.

[SaadBell 0]

I guess I am not worthy of unwanted anything, oh the horror of it all. What is it; I am not good enough for good old fashion harassment.

[Tunisia216 2]

I'll harass you! :rofl: :rofl:

I guess I am not worthy of unwanted anything, oh the horror of it all. What is it; I am not good enough for good old fashion harassment.