Exactly what I'm talking about.

[Ban Hammer 13,491]

As this person messaged you privately about the matter, I would think that it would be best to deal with the matter privately.

IMO it was nice that he did not call you out in a thread. I've seen others tell people straight up publicly that their photos gross them out and the thread usually doesn't end pretty, as I'm sure will be the case for this one.

as many know, it's against vj tos to post pm's. however, it's also a violation of tos to harass another member via pm's. i think this is something that should be addressed to ewok.

[Tunisia216 2]

Because the sender was "nice " as some of you see, I'm sure it won't be considered harassment and I'll be the one that gets TOS'ed and in trouble. Can someone point me to where in the guidelines that part is? I really didn't mean to cause a bunch of drama, I just got really really upset - I don't understand some people, that's all.

As this person messaged you privately about the matter, I would think that it would be best to deal with the matter privately.

IMO it was nice that he did not call you out in a thread. I've seen others tell people straight up publicly that their photos gross them out and the thread usually doesn't end pretty, as I'm sure will be the case for this one.

as many know, it's against vj tos to post pm's. however, it's also a violation of tos to harass another member via pm's. i think this is something that should be addressed to ewok.

[Jenn! 918]

Oh good grief, now you're offended that I said "nice"?

Maybe I should have said "sufficiently mature".

[brnidokiegurl 0]

Your business, i also go a pm message fr someone i dont know telling me a (secret) that my husband was really.......(another name) so just continue on and let them be busy bodies guess it takes all kinds

[Tunisia216 2]

Nevermind I found it ... Just go ahead and delete it, I'm the one in error here.

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[Ban Hammer 13,491]

Because the sender was "nice " as some of you see, I'm sure it won't be considered harassment and I'll be the one that gets TOS'ed and in trouble. Can someone point me to where in the guidelines that part is? I really didn't mean to cause a bunch of drama, I just got really really upset - I don't understand some people, that's all.

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...&page=terms

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Post any information obtained or originally transmitted in confidence or with the implied belief that the message was to be kept in confidence without the express permission of the original author of the communication. Additionally any direct communication (with the exception of publicly viewable Posts on the discussion forums) between administrators or moderators and a member are strictly prohibited from being Posted to the discussion forums or retransmitted in any way.

[Tunisia216 2]

I'm not offended I just didn't see it as nice, that's all. I don't take the time to write to others to give them my 2 cents on their lives - I just figured if they wanted my opinion, they'd ask for it..

Oh good grief, now you're offended that I said "nice"?

Maybe I should have said "sufficiently mature".

[simple_male 1]

Don't worry about it. You were polite enough not to mention the member's name and Jenn was also right that the member expressed it via PM.

[Tunisia216 2]

As you wish

[LaL 418]

This thread is now closed for violating the Terms of Service. Posting PMs on the open forum is prohibited. If someone is bothering you in PM - then please report it to the mods/Ewok and block them from PMing you.

[Captain Ewok 1,900]

I might be going against the rules here, and if I am I'm sure I'll be dealt with.. Just wanted to share a message someone sent me this morning - Ya know nothing like getting good news and then having ignorant people rain on your parade ::

Today, 10:35 AM

can you please respect his religion and delete the picture you and him sharing kiss,i know you love him and i know he loves you and i know he is muslim..!

i am sorry

*****

To the person that wrote this - Stay away from me - don't write me, don't reply to my posts, nothing - in essence screw yourself thanks have a great day!

Posting PM's on the forums is a violation of the Terms of Service. This is a kind warning to not do this in the future. Thank you.