oh people plz plz pray for us

[lunabean 0]

I am sorry this is so difficult and stressful on you and your relationship. I have two suggestions. You can do whatever you like with them.

#1. Call your Congressperson or your Senator and inform them once again that your petition is beyond the timeline posted on USCIS. Sometimes it pays to keep calling and be assertive.

#2. You need to take care of yourself and make your own physical and mental health a priority. Whether that means seeing a counselor, talking to a trusted friend, meditating, working out, taking a couple days off work or whatever...only you will know. I just think this process can make almost anyone crazy and unfortunately it will still be a while before you see your fiance so, in the meantime, you need to figure out a way to stay healthy during the long wait. It will help you, help your be strong for your partner, and keep your relationship in a more stable/healthy state.

[Meridien 0]

I'm sorry it's taking so long for you, it's just so unfair. I know that this process definitely put alot of stress on my relationship and on me personally, so I totally sympathise with how you feel.

I am sending powerful positive energy USCIS's way...in fact, I declare that estadia will get her approval before the end of this week. Here is my happy dance for your approval which is coming very soon!

[Roselinda 5]

Hey Estadia!

I really hope everything you guys deserve happens for you, and real soon.

I look up to you and salute you

Even though you're still waiting after a ridiculous amount of time, you are always one of the first people to congratulate others who have approvals.

You've given us so many kind words and I hope you continue to keep your spirits up.

It will happen and I for one wish you all the best.

Thanks!

[Alex & Rachel 78]

I am so sorry you have had to wait so long, estadia. As others have said, you've been so positive and supportive of others and all the while it must have been so hard to do! I really, really hope that you receive your approval soon, and that to make up for this delay the rest of your journey passes really swiftly.

[sara..... 371]

thank you everyone.....ur prayers and good thoughts and advice mean a lot to us

[Sylvia_n_Joseph 3]

Morning to you. Maybe you can volunteer at Walmarts door until your approval comes. At least once it comes things move faster and you will have new reasons to lose your hair. WIth me it is the interview. Being from a high fraud area I have nightmares about him getting some insane CO that had a fight with their SO and has decided that NO one needs to be in a relationship. See it really can be worse.

But really I am sure you will get through this shortly.

[KandD 1]

thank you everyone.....ur prayers and good thoughts and advice mean a lot to us

Sara, find another representative in your area to look into your case. God Bless

[rebeccajo 14]

Sara....

Hun I really think you should take that visit you were talking about a few weeks ago. I know Perviz said not to because of saving the money, but sometimes you just gotta screw practicality and do what's best for the heart. What good is money if it can't buy us a little happiness?

[*JG* 2]

Just hang in there.....the end is in sight.

[B'sA 0]

Sara....

Hun I really think you should take that visit you were talking about a few weeks ago. I know Perviz said not to because of saving the money, but sometimes you just gotta screw practicality and do what's best for the heart. What good is money if it can't buy us a little happiness?

That's so true.

Maybe you could do the impossible to go visit him?

[djaedi 0]

Wow I am so sorry for you guys!! Please don't give up. It will happen for you. I know its hard and you have waited longer than most. I will pray for you both to keep the faith to the end which will really be the beginning. Sometimes I am sure it gets so frustrating and you wonder what you can possible say to each other. In your hearts you know it is real and it will come to pass. Please be strong and lean on us and those around you. It will happen and we will pray for you always until it does... Take care and know that others are thinking of you too!! You are not alone, either one of you.

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

I am sorry this is so difficult and stressful on you and your relationship. I have two suggestions. You can do whatever you like with them.

#1. Call your Congressperson or your Senator and inform them once again that your petition is beyond the timeline posted on USCIS. Sometimes it pays to keep calling and be assertive.

#2. You need to take care of yourself and make your own physical and mental health a priority. Whether that means seeing a counselor, talking to a trusted friend, meditating, working out, taking a couple days off work or whatever...only you will know. I just think this process can make almost anyone crazy and unfortunately it will still be a while before you see your fiance so, in the meantime, you need to figure out a way to stay healthy during the long wait. It will help you, help your be strong for your partner, and keep your relationship in a more stable/healthy state.

This is the MOST Important thing. Sending PRAYERS your way.

One Love

[sara..... 371]

Today i again contacted our congressman no luck but then i contacted senator wydens office........they gave me the number and name of the Immigration Laison for his office in our local area very nice lady had me fax all of our information and case number to her........we have our fingers crossed and hoping

thank you all of u .......u will never know how much everyones responses have meant to both of us........in fact one of my friends caught me on chat today and basically told me to get my head out and do something lol guess i needed to hear that too lol......anyways so heres hoping the senators office can do something for us.......

[JeroenAndMichelle 28]

Don't have much to say but just wanted to let you know you're in my thoughts Estadia.. everytime when I check on Igor's list and on here, I hope to see your name popping up with some good news.. :/ I really hope you get good news soon!

[BigCityDave 0]

estadia, you have been such a faithful member here on Visa Journey and I appreciate that. I will keep you in my prayers and I really hope that the CSC will finally come to a decision. How glorious that day will be. Just hang on I really do feel that you are close.