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  1. 1. Would you continue to post on VJ if you and your SO divorced/separated?

    • Yes. I'm attached to my friends here and wouldn't go either way.
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    • No. It would be tooooooo painful.
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    • No. I'm only here for the visa info anyway.
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    • Not sure what I would do.
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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Brazil
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I doubt it.

11/2004 - Met in Brazil

09/2006 - Apply for K1

03/2007 - K1 approved

04/2007 - Apply for AOS & EAD

07/2007 - EAD approved

01/2008 - Conditional Residency approved

11/2009 - Apply to remove conditions

02/2010 - Permanent Residency approved

11/2010 - Apply for Citizenship

03/2011 - Citizenship approved

07/2011 - Moved back to Brazil

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Brazil
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yes :thumbs:

besides, what would mena be without me? :P

um less one of the girls

i'm also here to keep you entertained :D

* ~ * Charles * ~ *
 

I carry a gun because a cop is too heavy.

 

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I doubt it. Mags the Mod could be very vengeful. lol

Of course, neither of us believes in divorce, so it's a rather moot concept anyway.

Lady, people aren't chocolates. Do you know what they are mostly? Bastards. ####### coated bastards with ####### filling. But I don't find them half as annoying as I find naive bobble-headed optimists who walk around vomiting sunshine.
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I probably wouldn't stay but, then again, I haven't been in that situation so I cannot say I would definitively leave. I don't even know if I would stay if my spouse and I DON'T separate. I think it would depend upon whether the friends I have made on here remain or not. If they were gone I would think that I would not be interested in being here at all.

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Filed: Country: Jamaica
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I'm not sure.

I've made a lot of friends I would hate to lose. But, I KNOW I would never do the LD thing again, so I'd have no use for the information anymore.

Life's just a crazy ride on a run away train

You can't go back for what you've missed

So make it count, hold on tight find a way to make it right

You only get one trip

So make it good, make it last 'cause it all flies by so fast

You only get one trip

Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Brazil
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charles will never get rid of me, so I don't even think about ''if''



* K1 Timeline *
* 04/07/06: I-129F Sent to NSC
* 10/02/06: Interview date - APPROVED!
* 10/10/06: POE Houston
* 11/25/06: Wedding day!!!

* AOS/EAD/AP Timeline *
*01/05/07: AOS/EAD/AP sent
*02/19/08: AOS approved
*02/27/08: Permanent Resident Card received

* LOC Timeline *
*12/31/09: Applied Lifting of Condition
*01/04/10: NOA
*02/12/10: Biometrics
*03/03/10: LOC approved
*03/11/10: 10 years green card received

* Naturalization Timeline *
*12/17/10: package sent
*12/29/10: NOA date
*01/19/11: biometrics
*04/12/11: interview
*04/15/11: approval letter
*05/13/11: Oath Ceremony - Officially done with Immigration.

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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Russia
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After thinking about this a few days, I can safely say, not only would I not do this LD again, I don't think I could do it over again period. When I consider all the time, money, and emotions that go into finding someone you truly want to be with... If Alla & I were ever to break up, really doubt it, but I'll ponder... By the time I finally got over her... Well, I truly think I'd just stay single and count all the years I had someone special in my life.

I'm not sure.

I've made a lot of friends I would hate to lose. But, I KNOW I would never do the LD thing again, so I'd have no use for the information anymore.

Edited by Kazan' Tiger

Jeffery AND Alla.

0 kilometers physically separates us!

K-1 Visa Granted... Wednesday, 21 May 2008

Alla ARRIVED to America... Wednesday, 12 November 2008

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Filed: Lift. Cond. (apr) Country: China
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As my fiancée's interview draws closer and closer, I'm already posting far less. I know I would not stay if we were to separate. I'm here because this is a VJ and I have a common thread with others. If that thread were lost, there would be no point in remaining.

That pretty much sums it up for me too.

  • 07/17/07 Returned from two months in China. All K1 documents 'in hand'.
  • 07/19/07 Completed preparation of I-129F & associated documentation. Mailed it.
  • 08/03/07 Received NOA1 from the CSC.
  • 12/13/07 Received NOA2 from the CSC.
  • 01/23/08 NVC sent our case to U.S. Consulate in Guangzhou China.
  • 03/31/08 U.S. Consulate in Guangzhou China received, issued case number.
  • 04/05/08 P3 received.
  • 04/06/08 P3 sent.
  • 05/01/08 P4 received.
  • 05/12/08 Flight to China.
  • 06/23/08 Interview at U.S. Consulate in Guangzhou China- PINK.
  • 06/25/08 K1 & K2 visas received.
  • 07/09/08 We all arrive in America, Chicago POE
  • 08/06/08 Fiancee receives SSN (req. for marriage in our state)
  • 08/08/08 Married
  • 09/01/08 Moved into new house. AR-11's filed for wife & son.
  • 09/19/08 AOS / EAD package mailed.
  • 09/25/08 AOS / EAD NOAs.
  • 10/02/08 Biometrics letters.
  • 10/16/08 Biometrics taken.
  • 10/17/08 Case transferred to CSC.
  • 12/08/08 EADs approved / EAD cards issued.
  • 03/05/09 AOS approved.
  • 03/12/09 Green Cards received.
  • 09/17/10 Application for Lifting Conditions Mailed.
  • 10/04/10 NOA1
  • 10/19/10 Biometrics Taken.
  • 01/07/11 Removal of Conditions Approved
  • 02/26/12 Still Happily Married & Doing Well

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Filed: Country: United Kingdom
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Posted (edited)

I'd probably pop in very occasionally, if at all. I've had some laughs on VJ and have enjoyed myself, but if Platy and I were to split up I'd be able to file VJ into that box that needs to be moved on from.

If it happened I'd just disappear. No goodbyes, no "I'm leaving" thread, no drama or attention would be needed for me - nothing. The people I'd want to stay in touch with would have my email address (or be on my Facebook friends list) and *poof* I'd be gone.

However, as Platy has mentioned, this is a moot point (or should that be "mute"? bwahahaha) as neither of us has any intention of divorcing or giving up on the other. Ever.

Edited by Mags
Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Brazil
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However, as Platy has mentioned, this is a moot point (or should that be "mute"? bwahahaha) as neither of us has any intention of divorcing or giving up on the other. Ever.

mawilson is gonna be so heartbroken. :whistle:

* ~ * Charles * ~ *
 

I carry a gun because a cop is too heavy.

 

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