Sex and the City

[dalegg 143]

I think this movie brings up the all important question- if you cheat on your wife, and you are really, really sorry, and you don't want your marriage to break apart, what benefit is there to confessing your crime if she doesn't already know?

Because the only way to be truly sorry is to confess to what you've done and ask forgiveness. Without that - you're still a selfish SOB.

I disagree. Confessing and asking forgiveness is Selfish, because what you are doing is trying to relieve your guilt by pouring it on your spouse. You want to clear your concience and go on with your life as normal.

I say if you make that mistake and you really want to keep your family together then you should suck it up and live with the nagging guilt and your aching consience for the rest of your life.

[MrsCat 6]

I think this movie brings up the all important question- if you cheat on your wife, and you are really, really sorry, and you don't want your marriage to break apart, what benefit is there to confessing your crime if she doesn't already know?

Because the only way to be truly sorry is to confess to what you've done and ask forgiveness. Without that - you're still a selfish SOB.

I disagree. Confessing and asking forgiveness is Selfish, because what you are doing is trying to relieve your guilt by pouring it on your spouse. You want to clear your concience and go on with your life as normal.

I say if you make that mistake and you really want to keep your family together then you should suck it up and live with the nagging guilt and your aching consience for the rest of your life.

I don't agree - I think that would make one a coward. Any residual feelings will eventually seep into a marriage and continue making it toxic. The only way to overcome that is to have faith that the other person may be in a position to forgive. I don't think tell the truth is a selfish endeavor all the time. Sometimes - its simply just being honest, as devastating as that can be at times.

[dalegg 143]

I think this movie brings up the all important question- if you cheat on your wife, and you are really, really sorry, and you don't want your marriage to break apart, what benefit is there to confessing your crime if she doesn't already know?

Because the only way to be truly sorry is to confess to what you've done and ask forgiveness. Without that - you're still a selfish SOB.

I disagree. Confessing and asking forgiveness is Selfish, because what you are doing is trying to relieve your guilt by pouring it on your spouse. You want to clear your concience and go on with your life as normal.

I say if you make that mistake and you really want to keep your family together then you should suck it up and live with the nagging guilt and your aching consience for the rest of your life.

I don't agree - I think that would make one a coward. Any residual feelings will eventually seep into a marriage and continue making it toxic. The only way to overcome that is to have faith that the other person may be in a position to forgive. I don't think tell the truth is a selfish endeavor all the time. Sometimes - its simply just being honest, as devastating as that can be at times.

Most people cannot forgive infidelity, at least none that I know. My wife even shook her head at the ending and said forget it.

[Amby 490]

I think this movie brings up the all important question- if you cheat on your wife, and you are really, really sorry, and you don't want your marriage to break apart, what benefit is there to confessing your crime if she doesn't already know?

Because the only way to be truly sorry is to confess to what you've done and ask forgiveness. Without that - you're still a selfish SOB.

I disagree. Confessing and asking forgiveness is Selfish, because what you are doing is trying to relieve your guilt by pouring it on your spouse. You want to clear your concience and go on with your life as normal.

I say if you make that mistake and you really want to keep your family together then you should suck it up and live with the nagging guilt and your aching consience for the rest of your life.

haha when you put it that way I kinda agree. it is a bit selfish. causing the other person lots of pain just so you don't have to feel guilty anymore.

[EsOrEnNa 0]

i went and saw it in germany with my bro and SIL.. it was awesome! i love SATC!!

[Fandango 1,439]

I am a HUGE SatC fan, and I gotta say, I thought it dragged quite a bit & overall, the movie was a letdown Like...where were all the guys in most of the movie? So Big can't go thru with it, then turns the car around, then she yells at him, and that's it? Ahh, the emails! But he doesn't once come to her apt?

Smith and Sam just fall apart? He looked terrible, btw. What little he was in the flick. We saw more (not meaning literally tho that's true too, heh) of Dante!

Charlotte's life was all *perfect*, but ya think that after all the years of infertility, they'd make a bigger thing of the actual birth.

Miranda's whole 'I'm too busy to shave my cooch' thing was dumb. But after allllll the years between Carrie and Big, she tells Big 'marriage ruins everything' at their rehearsal dinner?

What was up with Stanford? Like one line throughout the whole movie. And he and Anthony kissing? They couldn't stand each other, yet now they're kissing at New Year's

The assistant was totally superfluous too.

Grrrrrrrrrr I wanted to LOVE this movie. Sh!t

I Loved Charlotte's performance during the first wedding scene.

I have to say, that gripped me! She was amazing....

[mrsartis 10]

Noooooo! Carries HAS to marry Big. The film better end with them eloping or something or I'll get mad. I will. I'll throw popcorn.

I know, I'll take a huge hissy fit too!

Dont worry they got married eventually in the city hall.. I have watched it with my girlfriends this weekend.. My fiance calls it the SLUTS and the CIty heheheh// i lov ethe gurls though..

[mrsartis 10]

Noooooo! Carries HAS to marry Big. The film better end with them eloping or something or I'll get mad. I will. I'll throw popcorn.

I know, I'll take a huge hissy fit too!

Dont worry they got married eventually in the city hall.. I have watched it with my girlfriends this weekend.. My fiance calls it the SLUTS and the CIty heheheh// i lov ethe gurls though..