I want your opinion people!!!!!

[sereia 0]

And people who rushed to come (even without pressure) probably regretted it! (including my husband!)

[Toshtishtash 1]

I received my visa on March 11th and I am leaving in 6 days

We chose to do this as we still had so many personal issues to sort out. Of course I would have loved to have gone straight away, but it just wouldn't have been responsible thing to do.

By that point we had been without eachother for 6 months. We figured that another month wouldn't hurt considering we will be soon be spending the rest of our lives together

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

By that point we had been without eachother for 6 months. We figured that another month wouldn't hurt considering we will be soon be spending the rest of our lives together

[Nutty 2]

How many people here have not seen their spouse for a year or more????

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

My wife has been in grad school all of 2007 and still is. I see her a lot, but we rarely get to hang out anymore. It sucks but VJ is filling the void!

[sara..... 371]

How many people here have not seen their spouse for a year or more????

well im not married yet but i have not seen perviz for one year and three months......

[Nutty 2]

So have you never lived together?????

[sara..... 371]

So have you never lived together?????

well we haven't i think ur talking to me lol im not sure but i will answer......well we have not lived together in any way other than my mom and i went two times to India and stayed in his home with his parents......religion and culture does not allow us more than that

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

Nutty clear your inbox.

[Toshtishtash 1]

Nutty, I just tried to reply to your PM but your inbox is full

[Nutty 2]

VJ filling the void???

That is depressing!

[Sister Fracas 5]

What Jenn said. It depends.

What Trollie said...

Hubster came here a month after he was issued his Visa. He's a teacher, so he felt it was his responsibility to finish out the school year with his students, he had/has a flat that he had to spruce up for a renter, and just other little things here and there.

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

VJ filling the void???

That is depressing!

It is, isn't it

[Zee Bee 61]

I know that it seems like he is taking his time to get things done but I can't imagine just up and leaving my family without having spent some time with them. He may be thinking that it is going to be a while before he sees them again and wants to take the chance to relax and hang out with them before moving.

We had our interview in March. The CO did not give us the visa becuase he thought sitting on it for 5 months without using it was too much time, so the CO said it would be better to come back in June for the visa.

Even when we get the visa, my fiance is not going to use it until August. We would love for him to be on the next plane here but there are some sacrifices we have had to make so that our families will be happy.

By the time I see my fiance again it will be a year to the day that we saw each other last.

[wowswift 3]

I figure its gonna take a month for when my husband gets his. Though, he thinks it would be sooner. But he does have to give the landlord a months notice, so that's why I figure that. But I guess he could just pay for the full month and take off. We are a long way away from moving time anyways.