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I made it very clear from the start, hit me and your A$$ will go to jail. A womans body is fragile, and can not handle even the slightest force against it. My Moroccan man is very sweet and gentle, he would never hurt me. This type of thing is what makes MENA men look bad in American eyes, but lets face it, any culture is capable of this not just Arabic.

encouraged woman to be like this

I'm pretty sure he won't mess with her unless if he has martial arts skills and other self defense techniques.

its more fun to watch if they fight?

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So its good advice to tell women to learn to fight? Yes self defense and maybe they can avoid a rape but in a home it is not appropriate. If a man is violent and you try to stand up to him he would only beat you more. I don't care how skilled a woman is in martial arts she better be willing to kill or else a man that is going to really hurt her. What should be taught is violence is never the solution for both men and women.

Look at boxing, they do not allow a 120# boxer to fight a 180# boxer.

Boxers are always match and there is no female and male for boxing match. i only referred it to a violent spouses.

If a man is violent and you try to stand up to him he would only beat you more- there are many woman who don't fight back but still beaten up.

i didn't say to use it at home and use it against your spouse i referred it to a violent spouse.

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I made it very clear from the start, hit me and your A$$ will go to jail. A womans body is fragile, and can not handle even the slightest force against it. My Moroccan man is very sweet and gentle, he would never hurt me. This type of thing is what makes MENA men look bad in American eyes, but lets face it, any culture is capable of this not just Arabic.

encouraged woman to be like this

I'm pretty sure he won't mess with her unless if he has martial arts skills and other self defense techniques.

its more fun to watch if they fight?

:lol:

So its good advice to tell women to learn to fight? Yes self defense and maybe they can avoid a rape but in a home it is not appropriate. If a man is violent and you try to stand up to him he would only beat you more. I don't care how skilled a woman is in martial arts she better be willing to kill or else a man that is going to really hurt her. What should be taught is violence is never the solution for both men and women.

Look at boxing, they do not allow a 120# boxer to fight a 180# boxer.

Boxers are always match and there is no female and male for boxing match. i only referred it to a violent spouses.

If a man is violent and you try to stand up to him he would only beat you more- there are many woman who don't fight back but still beaten up.

i didn't say to use it at home and use it against your spouse i referred it to a violent spouse.

Break the chain and teach your daughters to not get involved with violent men, teach your sons to respect women and to stand up to men that don't respect women.

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Break the chain and teach your daughters to not get involved with violent men, teach your sons to respect women and to stand up to men that don't respect women.

I would assume most violent men don't show their violent tendencies until AFTER they're involved.....

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Break the chain and teach your daughters to not get involved with violent men, teach your sons to respect women and to stand up to men that don't respect women.

I would assume most violent men don't show their violent tendencies until AFTER they're involved.....

Theoretically speaking, it would be a dumb move on the man's part. Of course, I'd wonder what he's really looking for in the relationship if he's acted one way before and another after. She won't want to stay with him if he's a "different" person, especially if becomes increasingly violent.

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Yes in a perfect world that would be good, since we cant foresee into the future, how about teach them not to accept it and get out of the situation (if that become the situation). If they showed their violent ways before of course no one would marry them but often this comes later.

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Break the chain and teach your daughters to not get involved with violent men, teach your sons to respect women and to stand up to men that don't respect women.

I would assume most violent men don't show their violent tendencies until AFTER they're involved.....

Theoretically speaking, it would be a dumb move on the man's part. Of course, I'd wonder what he's really looking for in the relationship if he's acted one way before and another after. She won't want to stay with him if he's a "different" person, especially if becomes increasingly violent.

Obviously, there's some sort of control exerted on the woman to kinda force her to stay...maybe they're married and she has nowhere to go, maybe she's got low self esteem, maybe she's just plain scared. There are tons of reasons, I would assume.

But logic dictates that he didn't give her a black eye or get into a scrap/screaming match with someone else on their first date, and that would be ok with her. Most women I know would run at the first sign of it.

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Break the chain and teach your daughters to not get involved with violent men, teach your sons to respect women and to stand up to men that don't respect women.

I would assume most violent men don't show their violent tendencies until AFTER they're involved.....

Theoretically speaking, it would be a dumb move on the man's part. Of course, I'd wonder what he's really looking for in the relationship if he's acted one way before and another after. She won't want to stay with him if he's a "different" person, especially if becomes increasingly violent.

Obviously, there's some sort of control exerted on the woman to kinda force her to stay...maybe they're married and she has nowhere to go, maybe she's got low self esteem, maybe she's just plain scared. There are tons of reasons, I would assume.

But logic dictates that he didn't give her a black eye or get into a scrap/screaming match with someone else on their first date, and that would be ok with her. Most women I know would run at the first sign of it.

Teach your children well and self esteem is very important to teach and encourage.

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Teach your children well and self esteem is very important to teach and encourage.

No disagreement there with that statement in and of itself. But that's not assuring everything will work out fine. I won't sit here and say every battered woman 'wasn't taught well enough' :no:

Edit to cut quotes down cos that's a peeve of mine....

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It's perfectly acceptable for a man to smack his wife... on the buttox... :D Yeah Baby Yeah!!!

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