How to Make your husband Happy

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

What if the woman is a foot taller, 100 lbs heavier and has a big freakin' knife the one in Crocodile Dundee?

[Gaby&Talbert 1]

What if the woman is a foot taller, 100 lbs heavier and has a big freakin' knife the one in Crocodile Dundee?

If she is 100 lbs heavier then she would be a lard ###. If she is attacking you then restrain her, if you are not able or your life is in danger walk away, last resort would be kill or be killed.

[~Jackie~ 30]

I was told 'lightly beaten' was ok if the wife had done something REALLY bad.

jJ

but what do i know

[Ihavequestions 419]

What if the woman is a foot taller, 100 lbs heavier and has a big freakin' knife the one in Crocodile Dundee?

Or happens to be in possession of a set of cast iron fry pans?

[brnidokiegurl 0]

But my question is Is this what these men are learning and thinking for when they come here, they are free follow all this...its just commin respect to try to be happy, to stay clean, to work together etc etc but for the man it seems its all about overlooking her flaws, dont talk badly of her bad cook food, try to overlook this and try overlook this seems most things she is doing is wrong, where he is held very high to expect all this. I did see the part about he is to try to help with the household chores (when shes sick) again i think they will be in for a rude awakening when they are here if they expect this

famous last words remember lorena bobbitt

[Gaby&Talbert 1]

I was told 'lightly beaten' was ok if the wife had done something REALLY bad.

jJ

but what do i know

He wasn't much of a man then was he?

[~Jackie~ 30]

No he wasn't.

How To Make Your Husband Happy.....dunno. I'll have to get back to ya on that one.

Hi Jenn!

Jackie

[brnidokiegurl 0]

We can say he wasnt much of a man, but was he taught this by their standards < im just asking, is this what they are taught generation to generation

[morocco4ever 63]

I made it very clear from the start, hit me and your A$$ will go to jail. A womans body is fragile, and can not handle even the slightest force against it. My Moroccan man is very sweet and gentle, he would never hurt me. This type of thing is what makes MENA men look bad in American eyes, but lets face it, any culture is capable of this not just Arabic.

[Gaby&Talbert 1]

But my question is Is this what these men are learning and thinking for when they come here, they are free follow all this...its just commin respect to try to be happy, to stay clean, to work together etc etc but for the man it seems its all about overlooking her flaws, dont talk badly of her bad cook food, try to overlook this and try overlook this seems most things she is doing is wrong, where he is held very high to expect all this. I did see the part about he is to try to help with the household chores (when shes sick) again i think they will be in for a rude awakening when they are here if they expect this

famous last words remember lorena bobbitt

It is your responsability to make things perfectly clear to them before they come here and if they are not willing then DO NOT BRING THEM HERE.

Wives should overlook the flaws in their husbands also BUT learn the flaws before you get married and decide if they are worth overlooking. Don't try to change someone after you are married.

[sara..... 371]

every couple should try to give 110 percent to make their marraige work why 110 percent? because there are days that some can not give even 60 percent so it evens out.......from what i have seen of marriages that try this theirs last.........

[Gaby&Talbert 1]

We can say he wasnt much of a man, but was he taught this by their standards < im just asking, is this what they are taught generation to generation

wrong is wrong, hitting someone is just not right. Whipping slaves was taught to be ok but not every slave owner did it. Hitting is used when the subject cannot understand words to learn a strong lesson. If you tell a child to stay out of the street because they could die and still the child runs out into the street you would spank them to send a strong message that it is extremely dangerous. An adult can understand right and wrong so if they still choose to do wrong after you talk with them hitting them will not teach them anything.

every couple should try to give 110 percent to make their marraige work why 110 percent? because there are days that some can not give even 60 percent so it evens out.......from what i have seen of marriages that try this theirs last.........

The best advice yet!

The cure for selfishness is selflessness.

[Imua 0]

The first and only time my father hit my mom(7 years into the marriage, while she was pregnant with me), she divorced him - there were other issues(he spent $$ on stereo stuff and a motorcycle while forbidding her to buy shoes or glasses) but the hitting was the last straw. I would do the exact same thing and have told Govi that there are only two reasons why I would ask for a divorce: abuse(even once) and infidelity. Once a hitter, always a hitter - I would say especially if alcohol is not involved(meaning their judgement is not impaired when they hit). I have disabilities which meant I could not even participate in contact sports as a child - if I am hit in the head I could die.

Edited April 22, 2008 by Pattu Rani

[Sister Fracas 5]

We can say he wasnt much of a man, but was he taught this by their standards < im just asking, is this what they are taught generation to generation

wrong is wrong, hitting someone is just not right. Whipping slaves was taught to be ok but not every slave owner did it. Hitting is used when the subject cannot understand words to learn a strong lesson. If you tell a child to stay out of the street because they could die and still the child runs out into the street you would spank them to send a strong message that it is extremely dangerous. An adult can understand right and wrong so if they still choose to do wrong after you talk with them hitting them will not teach them anything.

There is still something off with that statement...is it only the wife that needs to be "taught" what is right and wrong?

[brnidokiegurl 0]

But my question is Is this what these men are learning and thinking for when they come here, they are free follow all this...its just commin respect to try to be happy, to stay clean, to work together etc etc but for the man it seems its all about overlooking her flaws, dont talk badly of her bad cook food, try to overlook this and try overlook this seems most things she is doing is wrong, where he is held very high to expect all this. I did see the part about he is to try to help with the household chores (when shes sick) again i think they will be in for a rude awakening when they are here if they expect this

famous last words remember lorena bobbitt

It is your responsability to make things perfectly clear to them before they come here and if they are not willing then DO NOT BRING THEM HERE.

Wives should overlook the flaws in their husbands also BUT learn the flaws before you get married and decide if they are worth overlooking. Don't try to change someone after you are married.

this is not a problem i EVEN think about having ahmed is just totally NOT like this or is his family, to me they are more of the modern open minded thoughts but my question was if this is taught in their written words and some are sooooooooo strict with following this...........then what, of course we know not to accept this here and wont, unless the woman is so totally ruled by these men and their way of thinking as we have been reading on here so much for the last few days, its just a little scary to think they maybe getting more than they expected. Marriage is very much give and take and alot of work, love, careing and understanding, togetherness the words could go on and on and can kinda go back to what we are taught young, do unto others as you would have them do unto you, add respect and your on your way.