How to Make your husband Happy

[brnidokiegurl 0]

OK what when the man is wrong is it just me or is it always the woman wrong and rebellious, a light slap on the hand maybe for a baby doing wrong but i doubt a grown woman is going budge to much

[sara535 15]

If you are talking about me no I would not accept to be hit at all. I know I dont have to worry about that any way.

What really sparked my curiosity, and of course she is totally free to not respond, is that her husband had posted this and so one would think he agreed with it and she stated a dissention. Hitting of any kind seems like it would be a more major kind of issue that two people should agree on.

I also find this part puzzling. So Melinda you are saying you would never allow yourself to be hit but its your own husband who posted the article saying its acceptable to hit one's wife if she 'disobeys' that started this entire conversation.....

maybe you should have a talk directly with him regarding all of this instead of you two contradicting each other on a public message board?

[doodlebugg 10]

If you are talking about me no I would not accept to be hit at all. I know I dont have to worry about that any way.

What really sparked my curiosity, and of course she is totally free to not respond, is that her husband had posted this and so one would think he agreed with it and she stated a dissention. Hitting of any kind seems like it would be a more major kind of issue that two people should agree on.

I also find this part puzzling. So Melinda you are saying you would never allow yourself to be hit but its your own husband who posted the article saying its acceptable to hit one's wife if she 'disobeys' that started this entire conversation.....

maybe you should have a talk directly with him regarding all of this instead of you two contradicting each other on a public message board?

what fun would that be. I only have a few days off and don't wanna get into any soaps on the tv so then i'll be left bored to tears. lol

[SaadBell 0]

If you have a husband beating on you, cheating, doing awful things, than leave articles like this around for his reading pleasure, talk often about how it is pure agony to die of ethylene glycol, use graphic words, as throwing up your guts and blood.

A woman has been found guilty of trying to kill her husband with anti-freeze to get her hands on his life insurance.

Kate Knight tried to kill husbandKate Knight's husband Lee was left blind and deaf and suffering from brain damage after she put the poison in his curry. He was in a coma for 16 weeks.

In a statement read by a family representative outside court, he said: "Kate has ruined my life."

His wife was hoping to pay off mounting debts, knowing his employers JCB would pay out a six-figure sum in the event of his death.

The 28-year-old laced his food with ethylene glycol on their seventh wedding anniversary in April 2005.

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She had used Google to research the best way to kill him, first looking into hiring a hitman, before finally settling on anti-freeze.

But the problem was Knight had told a neighbour about her plan.

"I just thought she was attention seeking" said Sarah Johnson. "I didn't believe for one minute that she was going to go through with it".

A jury at Stafford Crown Court took eight hours to convict Knight, of Meir Hay, Stoke-on-Trent.

It followed a three-week trial which heard she stood to gain £130,000 from her husband's employers.

Lee KnightLee Knight fell ill, suffering kidney failure. He awoke from a 16-week coma deaf, blind and reliant on dialysis.

The former brewery worker, who forged her partner's signature to take out two secret loans for £17,000, gasped as the verdict was announced.

Judge Simon Tonking remanded Knight in custody for sentencing at a later date.

He told Knight: "I will be imposing a very considerable term of imprisonment."

Mr Knight, who worked at the JCB plant in Uttoxeter, Staffordshire, recently underwent an operation to restore some of his hearing.

But, now aged 37, he still required two hearing aids and support from two specialists to give evidence at his wife's trial.

He told the court he knew nothing of the loans, taken out in 2003 and 2004, which motivated his wife's desire to kill him and claim a windfall from his employer.

[morocco4ever 63]

If you are talking about me no I would not accept to be hit at all. I know I dont have to worry about that any way.

What really sparked my curiosity, and of course she is totally free to not respond, is that her husband had posted this and so one would think he agreed with it and she stated a dissention. Hitting of any kind seems like it would be a more major kind of issue that two people should agree on.

I also find this part puzzling. So Melinda you are saying you would never allow yourself to be hit but its your own husband who posted the article saying its acceptable to hit one's wife if she 'disobeys' that started this entire conversation.....

maybe you should have a talk directly with him regarding all of this instead of you two contradicting each other on a public message board?

what fun would that be. I only have a few days off and don't wanna get into any soaps on the tv so then i'll be left bored to tears. lol

See, I knew that our MENA is soap opera worthy!

[brnidokiegurl 0]

What can the new name of the soap be..........

[morocco4ever 63]

Days of the Arabic Life

The young and the restless MENA

One MENA husband per wife

General MENA

How about "Shut Morocco4ever up?"

[brnidokiegurl 0]

Camels of the Sand

Women This is Your Day

Hubby May I

[chaishai 1]

I dont know what u think or dont really care! I will never allow a man to hit me Ever ! Who cares how much money u make that makes u no better than any one !

listen babe, your boyfriend brought the topic of my "expensive time" up, not me!

[Hanna&Mohamed 0]

If you are talking about me no I would not accept to be hit at all. I know I dont have to worry about that any way.

What really sparked my curiosity, and of course she is totally free to not respond, is that her husband had posted this and so one would think he agreed with it and she stated a dissention. Hitting of any kind seems like it would be a more major kind of issue that two people should agree on.

Like I said he didnt post that! He doesnt believe in hitting a women. Just pay attention what he posted!

I also find this part puzzling. So Melinda you are saying you would never allow yourself to be hit but its your own husband who posted the article saying its acceptable to hit one's wife if she 'disobeys' that started this entire conversation.....

maybe you should have a talk directly with him regarding all of this instead of you two contradicting each other on a public message board?

Well for 1 thing Mohamed didnt post that one! He posted how a wife should take care of husband. We have talked about everything including this subject. People need to pay attention what he put on then JP put that one.

[Nasturtium 500]

Well for 1 thing Mohamed didnt post that one! He posted how a wife should take care of husband. We have talked about everything including this subject. People need to pay attention what he put on then JP put that one.

You're right, JPaula did post that one.. although it is done by the same man. So do you disagree then with one of his articles? That's quite alright to do so.

I dont know what u think or dont really care! I will never allow a man to hit me Ever ! Who cares how much money u make that makes u no better than any one !

listen babe, your boyfriend brought the topic of my "expensive time" up, not me!

You know I think he may have meant "precious." And yes, he is the one who brought it up, not chaishai.

[aisha kandisha 0]

If you are talking about me no I would not accept to be hit at all. I know I dont have to worry about that any way.

So then do you just not accept that part of Islam?

Whether it is a part of Islam is debatable. Not everyone translates the word in the ayat that people say means a man can strike his wife the same way.

I've never heard this was debatable. So what are the alternative translations? I don't care one way or the other, but I always am somewhat curious about why people accept or reject certain things of faith based on the evidence. If it is translated in different ways that is definately a reason to disagree and would support any disagreement. What really sparked my curiosity, and of course she is totally free to not respond, is that her husband had posted this and so one would think he agreed with it and she stated a dissention. Hitting of any kind seems like it would be a more major kind of issue that two people should agree on.

Here is a link that gives a limited explanation. http://www.religionwriter.com/reviews/book...-lightly-verse/

There are a couple of authors that tackle it more deeply, and if you are interested, PM me and I will respond with titles. It breaks to basically what the article says though, that the word can also mean "strike out" as in a journey". One of the authors goes more into the actual form of the word in Arabic and why she believes hitting is not the correct interpretation, comparing other uses of the word in the Qu'ran.

Also, I don't know if not agreeing with hitting is rejecting part of faith. People have different opinions on whether the Qur'an is frozen or something meant to be interpreted for different times, or meant to evolve. For example, the prohibition on alcohol was given in increments. The Qur'an and Sunnah set the framework for abolishing slavery. Polygyny was limited by the Qur'an rather than a new permission. Striking a wife lightly, if interpreted that way, is clearly a restriction, not an endorsement or injunction for a man to hit his wife. One choosing not do so is not rejecting something we are commanded to do. Also, being that the Prophet never engaged in it and advised others not do to so, it can be understood that it was not desirable and should not be done. It can be argued this would be the natural evolution - first limiting a society that had no problem in abusing women and then eliminating it all together by the example of the Prophet. Rejecting part of one's faith IMO is rejecting something that is something that is not desired to begin with, but something that is an undebatable element, such as prayer.

[SaadBell 0]

OMG honey, I don't know how this happened

[morocco4ever 63]

hahahahaha great one Ggirl

[brnidokiegurl 0]

ummmm it slipped, sleepwalking,