new USCIS timelines

[CJ Vasani 0]

guys hang in there...it's easy to do the wrong thing when things are frustrating and you are left feeling nothing but hopeless and helpless.

my serious advice to you all is that every time you feel horrible, try doing something positive. easiest thing - go out and run for a mile. write your feelings on paper / computer to vent out, but don't let other things get the best of you....

just remember that best years of our lives are yet to come...when we unite with our loved ones..

god (or whatever) bless!

[Army_Wife 2]

guys hang in there...it's easy to do the wrong thing when things are frustrating and you are left feeling nothing but hopeless and helpless.

my serious advice to you all is that every time you feel horrible, try doing something positive. easiest thing - go out and run for a mile. write your feelings on paper / computer to vent out, but don't let other things get the best of you....

just remember that best years of our lives are yet to come...when we unite with our loved ones..

god (or whatever) bless!

Well said CJ

[000 0]

Well for now my outlet is this forum, makes sense right? I spend so much time here and it seems to be the perfect place. At one time I would have agreed about the running part, I love to work out and think that it is a great form of stress relief however some feelings are more difficult than others to chase off. The feeling that bothers me more is that I can not answer my wife or her family as to what is going on with the the process, they offer no information to me or any of us. I feel awful about that , no one seems to understand why the process is so long or difficult. Her family thinks its my fault, like im not doing something or enough, when I tried to explain that the way USCIS does things leaves everyone in the dark the response i got was , "you are not with god as you should be, you need to have more faith so the lord will do wonderful works in your life". I mean its just a feeling of being a bad husband and no matter if I work out to the point of muscle failure, which i have done on a few night just going at it for 3 hours or intense exercise, I still have that feeling. Sometimes trying to is a bit more difficult than others, I just do my best to control what I can.

[MsZ 6]

I'd love it if they would explain how they can be in July at VSC and yet be giving NOA2s to people who filed well after July. These dates are fairly meaningless except in that they provide them with a greater cushion.

[kitty loves moudi 0]

Well for now my outlet is this forum, makes sense right? I spend so much time here and it seems to be the perfect place. At one time I would have agreed about the running part, I love to work out and think that it is a great form of stress relief however some feelings are more difficult than others to chase off. The feeling that bothers me more is that I can not answer my wife or her family as to what is going on with the the process, they offer no information to me or any of us. I feel awful about that , no one seems to understand why the process is so long or difficult. Her family thinks its my fault, like im not doing something or enough, when I tried to explain that the way USCIS does things leaves everyone in the dark the response i got was , "you are not with god as you should be, you need to have more faith so the lord will do wonderful works in your life". I mean its just a feeling of being a bad husband and no matter if I work out to the point of muscle failure, which i have done on a few night just going at it for 3 hours or intense exercise, I still have that feeling. Sometimes trying to is a bit more difficult than others, I just do my best to control what I can.

You are not a bad husband. You are here searching for every bit of information on a daily basis in effort to help your case! I have on occasion felt as you mentioned, especially when our loved one's are being told by others (who don't know the process) that its been too long now... something MUST be wrong!! So funny that they always have someone the know that came to the states.. and it was so easy for them My husband dosent tell me about the stories he's told..but on occasion a fried or so makes that type comment to me. Your wife loves you, so she must place her trust on you.. and her family must support her and youu.

This is why VJ is so helpfull in this for us having the weight on our shoulders with no way to pry information from USCIS!!

Don't loose hope.. stand strong.. there gonna have to get to our cases soon

[*JG* 2]

Those dates are always so off. I dont' even know why they post them most of the time.