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  1. 1. Did you, or do you expect to, have a pre-nuptial agreement signed prior to your marriage?

    • Yes, definitely
      15
    • No, wouldn't consider it
      71
    • Thought about it, decided against it
      15
    • What's a pre-nuptial agreement? ;-)
      7

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*Robert*   2

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Nope, not even part of our conversations. :no:

ditto :yes:

my fiancee has never heard of such thing... maybe because they don't have them in Thailand?! :huh:

Anywho... it's jut WRONG!!! :angry:

K-1 Timeline

11-29-05: Mailed I-129F Petition to CSC

12-06-05: NOA1

03-02-06: NOA2

03-23-06: Interview Date May 16

05-17-06: K-1 Visa Issued

05-20-06: Arrived at POE, Honolulu

07-17-06: Married

AOS Timeline

08-14-06: Mailed I-485 to Chicago

08-24-06: NOA for I-485

09-08-06: Biometrics Appointment

09-25-06: I-485 transferred to CSC

09-28-06: I-485 received at CSC

10-18-06: AOS Approved

10-21-06: Approval notice mailed

10-23-06: Received "Welcome Letter"

10-27-06: Received 2 yr Green Card

I-751 Timeline

07-21-08: Mailed I-751 to VSC

07-25-08: NOA for I-751

08-27-08: Biometrics Appointment

02-25-09: I-751 transferred to CSC

04-17-09: I-751 Approved

06-22-09: Received 10 yr Green Card

N-400 Timeline

07-20-09: Mailed N-400 to Lewisville, TX

07-23-09: NOA for N-400

08-14-09: Biometrics Appointment

09-08-09: Interview Date Oct 07

10-30-09: Oath Ceremony

11-20-09: Received Passport!!!

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Indo_mommy Rising Star

Indo_mommy   0

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Never even cross my mind. We plan to be married forever :D

Our K1 Journey Click Here
K1 Interview in Jakarta Click Here
AOS Journey:
May 02, 2006 :AOS Sent to Chicago...Let the couting begin
May 03, 2006 :AOS received in Chicago
May 12, 2006 :Received NOA1 dated 05/09/2006
May 22, 2006 Biometrics Notice Rcvd dated 05/17/2006
May 30, 2006 :Biometrics done in ASC Birmingham
July 01, 2006 :Interview Letter received
Aug 30, 2006 :Interview in Atlanta & got RFE for I-693A! OUCH!!!
November, 2006 :I-693A Sent. The waiting goes on...
April 4, 2007: Infopass & it doesn't help at all!!!
April 18, 2007 :Contacting our Congressman.
May 18, 2007 : E-mail rcvd, Welcome Notice Sent! Finally!!!
April 22, 2007 : E-mail rcvd, GC has been ordered
April 24, 2007 : Welcome Notice Rvcd. Yeeehaaa!!!!
June 1, 2007: GC arrived! Yippy! USCIS Free for 2 years!
2008: Moved to China
2009: Conditional GC Expired and Husband has been having affairs since 2008 in China. Can't file for ROC since he got laid off. He came to Jakarta to live with me and my parents. He got a new job. Life resume to normal or so I thought.
March 2010: Officially separated after yet more affairs exposed just a day after my birthday!

February 2011: Officially divorced.
June 18, 2011: He married the girl he had the last affair with.

August 2014: I am engaged with my real soulmate. Not an American.

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Indo_mommy   0

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Yes, we have a pre-nuptual agreement. We agree that we will love each other forever.

Altogether now: AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!

You go Lisa! :yes:

Our K1 Journey Click Here
K1 Interview in Jakarta Click Here
AOS Journey:
May 02, 2006 :AOS Sent to Chicago...Let the couting begin
May 03, 2006 :AOS received in Chicago
May 12, 2006 :Received NOA1 dated 05/09/2006
May 22, 2006 Biometrics Notice Rcvd dated 05/17/2006
May 30, 2006 :Biometrics done in ASC Birmingham
July 01, 2006 :Interview Letter received
Aug 30, 2006 :Interview in Atlanta & got RFE for I-693A! OUCH!!!
November, 2006 :I-693A Sent. The waiting goes on...
April 4, 2007: Infopass & it doesn't help at all!!!
April 18, 2007 :Contacting our Congressman.
May 18, 2007 : E-mail rcvd, Welcome Notice Sent! Finally!!!
April 22, 2007 : E-mail rcvd, GC has been ordered
April 24, 2007 : Welcome Notice Rvcd. Yeeehaaa!!!!
June 1, 2007: GC arrived! Yippy! USCIS Free for 2 years!
2008: Moved to China
2009: Conditional GC Expired and Husband has been having affairs since 2008 in China. Can't file for ROC since he got laid off. He came to Jakarta to live with me and my parents. He got a new job. Life resume to normal or so I thought.
March 2010: Officially separated after yet more affairs exposed just a day after my birthday!

February 2011: Officially divorced.
June 18, 2011: He married the girl he had the last affair with.

August 2014: I am engaged with my real soulmate. Not an American.

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JenT Experienced

JenT   0

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For your consideration....

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...opic=13677&st=0

8-30-05 Met David at a restaurant in Germany

3-28-06 David 'officially' proposed

4-26-06 I-129F mailed

9-25-06 Interview: APPROVED!

10-16-06 Flt to US, POE Detroit

11-5-06 Married

7-2-07 Green card received

9-12-08 Filed for divorce

12-5-08 Court hearing - divorce final

A great marriage is not when the "perfect couple" comes together.

It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.

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nope. never considered.

Daniel

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Ana (Mexico) ------ Daniel (California)(me)

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Sept. 11, 2004: Got married (civil), in Mexico :D

July 23, 2005: Church wedding

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K3(I-129F):

Oct. 28, 2004: Mailed I-129F.

~USPS, First-Class, Certified Mail, Rtn Recpt ($5.80)

Nov. 3, 2004: NOA1!!!!

Nov. 5, 2004: Check Cashed!!

zzzz deep hibernationn zzzz

May 12, 2005 NOA2!!!! #######!!! huh???

off to NVC.

May 26, 2005: NVC approves I129F.

CR1(I-130):

Oct. 6, 2004: Mailed I-130.

~USPS, First-Class, Certified Mail, Rtn Recpt ($5.80)

Oct. 8, 2004: I-130 Delivered to CSC in Laguna Niguel.

~Per USPS website's tracking tool.

Oct. 12, 2004 BCIS-CSC Signs for I-130 packet.

Oct. 21, 2004 Check cashed!

Oct. 25, 2004 NOA1 (I-130) Go CSC!!

Jan. 05, 2005 Approved!!!! Off to NVC!!!!

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NVC:

Jan. 05, 2005 ---> in route from CSC

Jan. 12, 2005 Case entered system

Jan. 29, 2005 Received I-864 Bill

Jan. 31, 2005 Sent Payment to St. Louis(I864)

Feb. 01, 2005 Wife received DS3032(Choice of Agent)

Feb. 05, 2005 Payment Received in St. Louis(I864)

Feb. 08, 2005 Sent DS3032 to Portsmouth NH

Feb. 12, 2005 DS3032 Received by NVC

Mar. 04, 2005 Received IV Bill

Mar. 04, 2005 Sent IV Bill Payment

Mar. 08, 2005 Received I864

Mar. 19, 2005 Sent I864

Mar. 21, 2005 I864 Received my NVC

Apr. 18, 2005 Received DS230

Apr. 19, 2005 Sent DS230

Apr. 20, 2005 DS230 received by NVC (signed by S Merfeld)

Apr. 22, 2005 DS230 entered NVC system

Apr. 27, 2005 CASE COMPLETE

May 10, 2005 CASE SENT TO JUAREZ

Off to Cd. Juarez! :D

calls to NVC: 6

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CIUDAD JUAREZ, American Consulate:

Apr. 27, 2005 case completed at NVC.

May 10, 2005 in route to Juarez.

May 25, 2005 Case at consulate.

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wherezdabearz Rising Star

wherezdabearz   0

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We got a prenup to establish that in the case of divorce we would each keep the assets we had when we got married and how we would divide them up in case of divorce. Neither of us saw this as anything other than reasonable. If, God forbid, the marriage went wrong, neither of us would be in a position to make rational, reasonable decisions about this kind of thing as we both well know from past experience. This way, the rules are already established.

Like making a will - doesn't mean you want to die (although of course it;s inevitable at some point!) , just means that you want to make everything clear in advance and to avoid extra pain at a painful time.

We certainly don't expect or plan on getting divorced but are realistic enough to recognise that however much you are in love, it's impossible to predict the future.

2004

April A friend told me that she thought my ideal man lived in Wyoming or Montana.

May 17 Did search on match.com. Found no-one in Wyoming. Only wrote to one person in Montana...his name was John. He replied two hours later.

Jun 26 Flew to Missoula to meet him & a weekend trip turned into a five week visit...

Many trips between US, Canada & Europe.

2005

March 31 During a meeting in Vancouver, John proposed & I said YES!!!

Jun 2 Finally sent off our I-129F & a few days later we received NOA1. I am now officially an alien bride-to-be.

Aug 22 Email notification of NOA2.

Sep 12 Received letter to say application would be forwarded to US Embassy.

Nov 23 Returned packet 3 to Embassy

Nov 30 Medical

2006

Jan 5 Got interview date

Feb 1 Interview. APPROVED!

Feb 2 Visa delivered.

Feb 7 Flight to Seattle.

Feb 8 Finally back home in Missoula, MT. I'm happy, John's happy & the cats are ecstatic - together again!

Apr 22 Wedding Day!

May 6 Sent AOS application

May 7 Honeymoon

May 23 NOA date for AOS, EAD & AP

Jun 12 Biometrics

Jun 15 RFE for AOS mailed

Jun 20 RFE received

Aug 16 RFE reply sent

Aug 31 AP approved!

Sep 5 EAD approved

Sep 8 AP received

Nov 13 Interview letter

Dec 14 Interview. Success!

Dec 26 Got green card!

2008

Oct 08 I-751 to remove conditions sent to CSC

Oct 14 NOA

Nov 21 Biometrics

2009

Jan 7 Approval notice

Jan 12 Received greencard

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gimygirl   0

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wouldn't even consider one, and anyone who does, isn't 100% commited, IMHO

it's ok ... we're used to warped opinions around here. having a pre-nup is not indicative of the level of committement one feels for the other.

if anyone has substantial assets, they would be a fool NOT to protect themselves. this is reality, not hollywood ... there are no fairytale endings here! :thumbs:

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“The truth is incontrovertible, malice may attack it, ignorance may deride it, but in the end; there it is.”

~Winston Churchill~

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wouldn't even consider one, and anyone who does, isn't 100% commited, IMHO

it's ok ... we're used to warped opinions around here. having a pre-nup is not indicative of the level of committement one feels for the other.

if anyone has substantial assets, they would be a fool NOT to protect themselves. this is reality, not hollywood ... there are no fairytale endings here! :thumbs:

:yes: Especially if there are children involved, the matter of financial security becomes even more compeling.

Financial self-protection; and protecting the financial future of children you are responsible for has NOTHING to do with the level of love in the relationship/revenge or whatever- and everything to do with protecting yourself and your children.

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wouldn't even consider one, and anyone who does, isn't 100% commited, IMHO

it's ok ... we're used to warped opinions around here. having a pre-nup is not indicative of the level of committement one feels for the other.

if anyone has substantial assets, they would be a fool NOT to protect themselves. this is reality, not hollywood ... there are no fairytale endings here! :thumbs:

:yes: Especially if there are children involved, the matter of financial security becomes even more compeling.

Financial self-protection; and protecting the financial future of children you are responsible for has NOTHING to do with the level of love in the relationship/revenge or whatever- and everything to do with protecting yourself and your children.

I concur!! :thumbs:

we certainly discussed it....both of us have been thro ugly divorces....we decided against it but I don't think Pre nups are anything to be ashamed of :no:

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gimygirl   0

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wouldn't even consider one, and anyone who does, isn't 100% commited, IMHO

it's ok ... we're used to warped opinions around here. having a pre-nup is not indicative of the level of committement one feels for the other.

if anyone has substantial assets, they would be a fool NOT to protect themselves. this is reality, not hollywood ... there are no fairytale endings here! :thumbs:

:yes: Especially if there are children involved, the matter of financial security becomes even more compeling.

Financial self-protection; and protecting the financial future of children you are responsible for has NOTHING to do with the level of love in the relationship/revenge or whatever- and everything to do with protecting yourself and your children.

I concur!! :thumbs:

we certainly discussed it....both of us have been thro ugly divorces....we decided against it but I don't think Pre nups are anything to be ashamed of :no:

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~Winston Churchill~

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JenT Experienced

JenT   0

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The thread has surface again... good.

Seems to be a theme going on here...

Generalizing...

those who have no assets are opposed... while those who have had had enough life experience to have accumulated some assets are not....

Interesting.

Edited to say that since having posted this poll, we are no longer undecided... no pre-nup for us.

Edited by JenT

8-30-05 Met David at a restaurant in Germany

3-28-06 David 'officially' proposed

4-26-06 I-129F mailed

9-25-06 Interview: APPROVED!

10-16-06 Flt to US, POE Detroit

11-5-06 Married

7-2-07 Green card received

9-12-08 Filed for divorce

12-5-08 Court hearing - divorce final

A great marriage is not when the "perfect couple" comes together.

It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.

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