Non-Muslims married to Muslim MENA

[Aymerlu 3]

You got the popcorn and I'll get the bebsi!

[Nasturtium 500]

I know Sunnis discount the validity of Mu'tah, but don't some also contest Orfi as being a valid Islamic marriage? If this warrants that other topic, and we're not supposed to talk about it, then no one answer and just ignore it....

[brnidokiegurl 0]

I got some pizza but sorry not enough to go around....

[PalestineMyHeart 1,897]

Jenn!

Actuary

Fornicator

[Ban Hammer 13,283]

I got some pizza but sorry not enough to go around....

sits next to brnid and makes puppy dog eyes

[sarahaziz 0]

it is good topics to discuss

first of all MUSLIM WOMAN CANT MARRY NON MUSLIM MAN and there is no islamic law say that . some converted muslim women think they know all about islam while they dont and THEY SPREAD WRONG INFORMATION ABOUT ISLAM

second when muslim man marry non muslim woman thats allowed in islam but kids must be muslim and the man who accept that his kids to become non-muslim dont desereve to called MUSLIM

third

drink is haram no matter how amount of cup you drink . islam forbid drinking , pork , blood . and if u want to know why islam forbid that it is simply cause it harm anyone drink or eat it

pork has certain type of nematode called H.NANA it is found only in pigs

drinking make fibrosis in liver , blood or uncooked meat has germs

please everyone if you arenot sure about what you about islam PLZ DONT SPREAD WRONG INFORMATION ABOUT IT

I'm not sure what you are saying. Is that a typo? First you say that Muslim women cant marry non-Muslim men, then you say that there is no law that says thay cant marry non-Muslim men.

The first part, Muslim women cant marry non-Muslim man, is wrong. The second part, there is no law that says they cant marry non-Muslim men, is right. There is no need for a law to allow what Allah has not prohibited.

There is nothing in the sharia that forbids Muslim women from marriage with ahl al kitab men. The "law" is from fiqh, the mutable, challengable, mortal determinations from men that can be and are changed. Fiqh is not divine as, is sharia, and it is not binding on all Muslims. Since only God can make haram, marriage between Muslim women and men of the Book is not haram, it is only makruh, as are marriages between Muslim men and non-Muslim western women, a convemniently overlooked element of the fiqh of marriage.

Also, the Quran clearly says that Allah determines what a person's faith will be, so the faith of children is not "inherited" from a parent, male or female. That is evidenced by the conversions of Muslims out of Islam, and of non-Muslims into Islam. I am Muslim, my deceased husband was Christian, our children are all Muslims. Four of my cousins, who had a Muslim father and Christian mother, only one is Muslim. Allah says He designed the world for us to believe differently so we will learn to live together and strive toward him; It is hubris to believe that the father of a child controls his belief, and it is easy to prove that wrong.

If you are referring to me as a convert spreading wrong information, I am not a convert. I am a born Muslim from a Palestinan family who learned my faith from learned, legitimate scholars. We are called upon to read and learn, and I have done so in context of the history of sharia and Islamic law, with the ability to discriminate between the taint of culture and the law itself that is lacking in the laymen, born Muslim or not. Nothing less should be accepted when discussin weighty issues.

Thank God for somebody Educated in Islam is on the boards. It is extremely evident when I read your posts they make Islam - make sense rather than read hypocritical claims from people not so stable in their Islamic religion statements. As a christian I agree with some of Islam but not all. I still respect Islam and I hope people don't continue to spread false accusations of the religion just because it "sounds pretty good".

[Ban Hammer 13,283]

I know Sunnis discount the validity of Mu'tah, but don't some also contest Orfi as being a valid Islamic marriage? If this warrants that other topic, and we're not supposed to talk about it, then no one answer and just ignore it....

[brnidokiegurl 0]

ok come on, im at work but theres more over there in the kitchen, ill tell them u are coming, im just waiting on VW to return....

[SaadBell 0]

whoooo, ok I take offense to being calling a fornicator

Wow, what did I miss?????????? Fornicator is sooooooooooooooo archaic sounding, like the burning of witches in Salam.

This is what happen to one poor women in Iran, they said she was a fornicator, so they stoned her to death, yea that is really nice. What kind of people can stand by and watch something like this? Is this love? It is barbic and evil, I am not sure I would want to worship a God that states this is OKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK. Can you imagine the pain and the fear this women felt as she was being stoned to death as her children watched. When will this madness end????

[sarahaziz 0]

whoooo, ok I take offense to being calling a fornicator.

I'm of the belief that spiritual belief is personal and up to everyone to decide what they believe. So if I have kids and my husband is ok with them being christian I"m not going to look at him as something lacking in him, sorry. I wouldn't mind them being raised Muslim but I expect the same respect of my religious beliefs of my husband.

I'm glad I talked to my husband a lot about this before we got married. Just like I adapted my loud, brash American personality to the culture of Jordan when I was there, I expect my husband to adapt his personality to the country he lives in. It's all about compromise. If I can give up pork in my home, he can give up some of the ideas of women and men being friends. That's how I look at it. Compromise and communication is key. I'm not going to be the one doing all the compromising..... but my husband all ready knows that.

I agree with you on everything. You know something though? I talked to my husband 100% about everything before marriage I'm just too independent and I make my say in everything and try to be compassionate to his expectations. But after marriage about a year of marriage he thinks he can change my views and my limits after we've already openly talked about it before marriage. (My response is regarding your "letting you talk to other men or changing his views on American ways") No matter how clear you make it to men from that part of the world they have still been babied by sisters, mothers, aunts where they are kind of I don't want to say childish but pretty much Childish! What he wants is what he wants. My spouse was spoiled in that way that he was the man and he could decide anything. I'm working on him currently it doesn't work that way we are 50/50%. Just wanted to give a heads up to all the ladies because it's tough on certain issues of standing grounds as a woman. Especially when a son has controlled his mothers, sisters, aunts activities. What is a wife next to a mother!!

[mohamed N melinda 0]

whoooo, ok I take offense to being calling a fornicator

Wow, what did I miss?????????? Fornicator is sooooooooooooooo archaic sounding, like the burning of witches in Salam.

This is what happen to one poor women in Iran, they said she was a fornicator, so they stoned her to death, yea that is really nice. What kind of people can stand by and watch something like this? Is this love? It is barbic and evil, I am not sure I would want to worship a God that states this is OKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK. Can you imagine the pain and the fear this women felt as she was being stoned to death as her children watched. When will this madness end????

thats not maddness Ganja_Girl

thats the islamic law as any married woman is caught do sex with someone not her hubby and there was 2 witness and it was confirmed so she should be stoned till death thats for married men and women . for single it is just 80 strick on back .

i agree it is painful but if any one know that there wont be any women have sex outside marriage or while she is married to another men

so plz dont say madness cause it is insult to all muslims believe

[brnidokiegurl 0]

a mother has a son/ when the son married he needs to be a (man/husband) to the wife...no longer the little son he once was

[Jenn! 918]

whoooo, ok I take offense to being calling a fornicator

Wow, what did I miss?????????? Fornicator is sooooooooooooooo archaic sounding, like the burning of witches in Salam.

This is what happen to one poor women in Iran, they said she was a fornicator, so they stoned her to death, yea that is really nice. What kind of people can stand by and watch something like this? Is this love? It is barbic and evil, I am not sure I would want to worship a God that states this is OKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK. Can you imagine the pain and the fear this women felt as she was being stoned to death as her children watched. When will this madness end????

thats not maddness Ganja_Girl

thats the islamic law as any married woman is caught do sex with someone not her hubby and there was 2 witness and it was confirmed so she should be stoned till death thats for married men and women . for single it is just 80 strick on back .

i agree it is painful but if any one know that there wont be any women have sex outside marriage or while she is married to another men

so plz dont say madness cause it is insult to all muslims believe

[Ban Hammer 13,283]

whoooo, ok I take offense to being calling a fornicator

Wow, what did I miss?????????? Fornicator is sooooooooooooooo archaic sounding, like the burning of witches in Salam.

This is what happen to one poor women in Iran, they said she was a fornicator, so they stoned her to death, yea that is really nice. What kind of people can stand by and watch something like this? Is this love? It is barbic and evil, I am not sure I would want to worship a God that states this is OKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK. Can you imagine the pain and the fear this women felt as she was being stoned to death as her children watched. When will this madness end????

thats not maddness Ganja_Girl

thats the islamic law as any married woman is caught do sex with someone not her hubby and there was 2 witness and it was confirmed so she should be stoned till death thats for married men and women . for single it is just 80 strick on back .

i agree it is painful but if any one know that there wont be any women have sex outside marriage or while she is married to another men

so plz dont say madness cause it is insult to all muslims believe

vp, is that you?

[doodlebugg 10]

You got the popcorn and I'll get the bebsi!

LOL Usama was eating double stuffed Oreos last night and he said they're called "Boreos" over in Egypt. All I could think of was bebsi!!!