tomorrow and maktoob(destiny in arabic)

[polarbear 0]

Good luck today Wahriana!

Take care of yourself and the baby and inshalla everything will be fine

[caybee 21]

Wahrania, you and your baby are in my thoughts and prayers through all of this.

[CarolynRitesh 0]

Hello Wahrania,

You are in my thoughts and prayers too girl, take things one step at a time, and think of ways that you can relax and make yourself and the baby comfortable and under less stress. I know that you are very disappointed right now that your husband is stopping/delaying/costing, etc., etc. to see his Mom, I would feel the same.

Ritesh and I have had many many many conversations about the role of mothers/sons in India, and I get the feeling it is the same in Morocco - he thinks of us equally in his heart and tries very hard to ensure that we are both happy, which of course is NOT always possible, and usually puts him under a great deal of stress trying to makes amends with one or the other. I am not trying to make excuses for your husband, but I can imagine he has NO clue how much stress and pressure you are under right now (I think it is very hard for men to imagine that from such a long distance!) and I hope that you are able to communicate with him in a way that causes the least amount of stress for you!

Are there any volunteer groups in your area which could help you right now? I am sure there must be people who would be willing to drive you to appointments or take care of your daughter for a bit while you have time to unwind, etc. I remember reading on one of the threads that you are in FLA, I just can't remember exactly where?

Please let us know how things are, how the tests were, etc. Much love to you from India!

C

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

Hello Wahrania,

You are in my thoughts and prayers too girl, take things one step at a time, and think of ways that you can relax and make yourself and the baby comfortable and under less stress. I know that you are very disappointed right now that your husband is stopping/delaying/costing, etc., etc. to see his Mom, I would feel the same.

Ritesh and I have had many many many conversations about the role of mothers/sons in India, and I get the feeling it is the same in Morocco - he thinks of us equally in his heart and tries very hard to ensure that we are both happy, which of course is NOT always possible, and usually puts him under a great deal of stress trying to makes amends with one or the other. I am not trying to make excuses for your husband, but I can imagine he has NO clue how much stress and pressure you are under right now (I think it is very hard for men to imagine that from such a long distance!) and I hope that you are able to communicate with him in a way that causes the least amount of stress for you!

Are there any volunteer groups in your area which could help you right now? I am sure there must be people who would be willing to drive you to appointments or take care of your daughter for a bit while you have time to unwind, etc. I remember reading on one of the threads that you are in FLA, I just can't remember exactly where?

Please let us know how things are, how the tests were, etc. Much love to you from India!

amnio done.............waiting for results.......im having a boy according to the ultrasound.............im tired

[Aymsgirl 0]

Keep us informed Wahrania we are all concerned for you. I hope you get to feeling better.

[S and S 12]

"amnio done.............waiting for results.......im having a boy according to the ultrasound.............im tired"

I think I caught this at the bottom of your last post. Inshallah the results come back that everything is fine. Take care of yourself, my prayers and thoughts are with you.

[Meriem_DZ 37]

I am sorry he is putting you through this stress, Wahrania. {{{{hugs}}}

Meriem