tomorrow and maktoob(destiny in arabic)

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

tomorrow all the tests start....thanks for all your kindness...its helped me chill...my asthma has roared back real bad from stress...but I think its more from a snotty cold...I did get my husbands ticket...hes flying united but he seems more focused on his transit visa and his stuff than on me...He asked for the beginning of May.....Im driving myself to and from stuff alone which sucks ...Ive decided to roll the dice and have the amnio and continue with the pregnancy even if its bad cause maktoob is stronger than me....and its just what I need to do..

Love you guys

Im feeling romantic this morning watching mopey clips on youtube....

scent of a woman

[Aymsgirl 0]

I still have you in my prayers Wahrania. God bless you!

Tasha

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

I still have you in my prayers Wahrania. God bless you!

Tasha

t and a do you remember this song by meredith brooks....Im a ######? From1998....lol..Im trying to cheer myself up and get pumped

[SaadBell 0]

[Nagishkaw 510]

Wahrania,

Just think....in a few weeks you will no longer be alone! Everything is gonna be ok, girl! No one ever said life is fair, but you have a very big God on your side .

[PalestineMyHeart 1,897]

Insha'allah everything will be fine You are in the hands of God and also in a place with some of the best medical care in the world.

But your husband will be here in just a couple of weeks -- did you clean out a space in the closet for his stuff yet ?????????

Thoughts and prayers (and lots of MENA mojo) to carry you and the baby through safely.

-MK

[Aymsgirl 0]

I remember that song soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo well!!!! I think I lived it the majority of my pregnancy!!!!!! My SO should be thankful he wasn't here most of the time!!!!!!!!! I probably would have ran him home really fast! Thanks for the laugh.

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

I remember that song soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo well!!!! I think I lived it the majority of my pregnancy!!!!!! My SO should be thankful he wasn't here most of the time!!!!!!!!! I probably would have ran him home really fast! Thanks for the laugh.

he just postponed his trip 11 more days till our anniversary 16 may

Insha'allah everything will be fine You are in the hands of God and also in a place with some of the best medical care in the world.

But your husband will be here in just a couple of weeks -- did you clean out a space in the closet for his stuff yet ?????????

Thoughts and prayers (and lots of MENA mojo) to carry you and the baby through safely.

-MK

no....... he can help do it when he gets here

[Nagishkaw 510]

Maybe it is best. You would not want him here if he isn't ready. He may become angry or depressed and have regrets about things that he left undone back home if he were to come to you now. And you would not want that on top of all the rest of your problems to deal with. Try to see some good in his decision, however painful it may be to you that he is delaying this.

[Imua 0]

However things work out, there is a reason like Nagi said - you are both going through a stressful time in your lives but always remember your love for each other and don't despair... I have been praying that everything will be allright with your baby... I think it is best that you are having the tests though some may disagree - you will be prepared at worst if your baby has Down's and at best your fears wil be allayed - you have enough stress right now to have the 'what ifs' gnawing away at you.

[sara535 15]

I'll be thinking of you tomorrow Wahrania. Let us know how it goes. and TRY not to be too hard on your husband, this is a stressful time for him too leaving his family and his life behind. Have faith and be patient and know that things will work out as they are supposed to.

((((hugs))))

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

I'll be thinking of you tomorrow Wahrania. Let us know how it goes. and TRY not to be too hard on your husband, this is a stressful time for him too leaving his family and his life behind. Have faith and be patient and know that things will work out as they are supposed to.

((((hugs))))

He just told me he needs more time for his transit visa and his interview for the transit visa is not till may 13...and so that means he wont be here till lamost june...I dont feel like he loves me or is making me and the baby first..my health is failing....im having problems with the pregnancy and that another 2 months alone unnecessarly to see his mom who he can fly back and see after he has his card...and in the meanwhile im over the edge

[AlHayatZween 2]

He just told me he needs more time for his transit visa and his interview for the transit visa is not till may 13...and so that means he wont be here till lamost june...I dont feel like he loves me or is making me and the baby first..my health is failing....im having problems with the pregnancy and that another 2 months alone unnecessarly to see his mom who he can fly back and see after he has his card...and in the meanwhile im over the edge

i'm so sorry, Wahrania.

i am glad though, that you are going through with the tests and trying to take care of yourself. Inchallah, you will have good news tomorrow and you and the baby will be in good health.

i understand the pain in the ### of getting a transit visa for France. it happens and it is a whole lot of unnecessary red tape for most Francophone African countries.

these are my questions:

is it absolutely necessary that he travels through France? are there no flights that go through Spain, UK, or Belgium?

has he not seen his mother in a long, long time, is that why he is choosing to go to France?

have you discussed the possibility of applying for advanced parole once he gets here so he can then travel to see his mother a little later?

i'm sorry all this is happening at once, but i really hope it works out and you have all our prayers.

take care

hz

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

He just told me he needs more time for his transit visa and his interview for the transit visa is not till may 13...and so that means he wont be here till lamost june...I dont feel like he loves me or is making me and the baby first..my health is failing....im having problems with the pregnancy and that another 2 months alone unnecessarly to see his mom who he can fly back and see after he has his card...and in the meanwhile im over the edge

i'm so sorry, Wahrania.

i am glad though, that you are going through with the tests and trying to take care of yourself. Inchallah, you will have good news tomorrow and you and the baby will be in good health.

i understand the pain in the ### of getting a transit visa for France. it happens and it is a whole lot of unnecessary red tape for most Francophone African countries.

these are my questions:

is it absolutely necessary that he travels through France? are there no flights that go through Spain, UK, or Belgium?

has he not seen his mother in a long, long time, is that why he is choosing to go to France?

have you discussed the possibility of applying for advanced parole once he gets here so he can then travel to see his mother a little later?

i'm sorry all this is happening at once, but i really hope it works out and you have all our prayers.

take care

hz

his mom lives in france...He doesnt need advance parole.He will have a greencard..Neither he nor his mother is thinking about me at this point...I have been really patient..I am now completely cracking..He is insisting on seeing her before he comes and the interview will not be until May 13.I am booking the ticket with miles and every change is 60 dollars .I now had to change it again...now for June 11th is the first availability.He asked me to book hotel rooms...I did it..I did the ticket..He never ever confirmed or did the hard work to get his visa and the embassy is in town.Im over here asthmatic,now facing amnios with no one to drive me and another 2 months alone while he caters to his mom.For gods sake he could fly back and see her in the fall...what this is doing to me mentally iscrushing me..He cant wait 5 months?So of course I understand but I am seething inside.Seething because I am really alone,struggling,driving alone to appointments..and I feel like I am stuck with the bill and I am mad...but trying to be patient and my patience has completely evaporated...

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

He just told me he needs more time for his transit visa and his interview for the transit visa is not till may 13...and so that means he wont be here till lamost june...I dont feel like he loves me or is making me and the baby first..my health is failing....im having problems with the pregnancy and that another 2 months alone unnecessarly to see his mom who he can fly back and see after he has his card...and in the meanwhile im over the edge

i'm so sorry, Wahrania.

i am glad though, that you are going through with the tests and trying to take care of yourself. Inchallah, you will have good news tomorrow and you and the baby will be in good health.

i understand the pain in the ### of getting a transit visa for France. it happens and it is a whole lot of unnecessary red tape for most Francophone African countries.

these are my questions:

is it absolutely necessary that he travels through France? are there no flights that go through Spain, UK, or Belgium?

has he not seen his mother in a long, long time, is that why he is choosing to go to France?

have you discussed the possibility of applying for advanced parole once he gets here so he can then travel to see his mother a little later?

i'm sorry all this is happening at once, but i really hope it works out and you have all our prayers.

take care

hz

I have.I think its really on her too.I will be 6 months pregnant at that point and frankly I think Ijust cracked up today..Im just tired and sad.I told him I dont care about seeing him in the net .I dont care about him calling me. Either he gets his ### to me or just leave me the hell alone..I need freaking help right now..The expedite was to get hhere faster and be with me not sightsee and dilly dally...and he didnt even bother to check out transit visas and how long they take till after he told me to pay for rooms and buy the ticket..now Im spending and spending...to change tickets....cancel hotels..all so he can see his mom....and Im the only one put through hell and im the one who needs help the most right now wallahi....so i have to go through everything alone and all they think about is them