My hardest post yet... Our last night together

[K1inCincy 0]

This will be my last post here in Calgary. Tomorrow morning I leave my baby and fiancee. My heart is broken right now. It has been four wonderful months together. I saw my baby being born and woke up every morning next to Portia and my daughter Miyah. This K-1 process has to be one of the hardest things to go through. After tomorrow Portia and I are back to phone calls and emails. The only thing we know is that one day this will be over with, but that one day can't come fast enough. So everyone who reads this...It's tough...very tough, but love...if it is true and strong can survive anything! I don't want to sound corny, but thanks to everyone who has read my post and replied back. It really means a lot to have support. God bless.

[mamajo 1]

My thoughts to you and your family. I know it's tough, Lord knows I wonder why we all have to go through this. But, all this too shall pass. May God give you the strength go on. Keep all of us on this VJ journey posted.

Godspeed to you.

La

[Dias Melhores 0]

Yes it is tough, but you will get through it!!! Sending positive thoughts your way...

[stacey2008 0]

I understand your feelings and I feel for you since you have a baby that you have to leave. It is so hard and somedays it is unbearable. Hang in there, someday your family will be together.

[tzeksman 0]

I know just how you feel bro, my wife and I gave birth to our first son in Jan and after about a month and a half i had to return to the states, best case scenario we'll be re-united as a family in June or July I know its hard I miss both of them...I REALLY miss my wife but I miss and MISS OUT on all of my sons firsts so far, anyways I know we'll be together soon and that ill make up for it later but its hard for now I feel for you really man I do Take care and just know when ur together all will be worth it!!! take it easy

[BigCityDave 0]

I felt that pain two months ago. Not fun at all....

Hang in there.

[~Laura and Nick~ 5]

It will all be so worth it in the end.

I wish you much strength and patience during this time.

[Leafgal 3]

Sorry you have to leave your family. I wish you a speedy rest of the process you can reunite quickly. Best of luck.

[missmyfiance 0]

Sorry you have to leave your family. I wish you a speedy rest of the process you can reunite quickly. Best of luck.

I am so sorry you have to leave ur family. I guess life is not fair to many of us when it comes down to this issue. I haven't seen my fiancee for a while and It is very hard. You have a kid now and you watched it born and everything so I can't imagine how hard it is for you.

I am suppose to be conforting you here, so All I am going to say is GOOD LUCK for the rest of your journey and I pray for you to get your approval ASAP. But after it is all said and done, I bet you that your wife and ur kid will appreciate you more and understand what u have through.

Good luck, stay positive and keep your imagining the day y'all going to be together.

[debbylyn 0]

I know how hard it is to have to say goodbye. I can only imagine the pain intensified to have to leave your baby too. Sometimes it is almost impossible to keep a positive attitude. The reality is we are left with email and phone calls which can never come near to that physical presence and warmth of being with your family. It is a cruel process and one that needs to be looked at by lawmakers to end the hardships and sufferings of those waiting to be reunited. If it's any consolation....we are all in the same boat...and there are many wonderful people on VJ willing to lend an ear and give advice...God Speed....and remember "This too shall pass".

Edited April 12, 2008 by debbylyn

[rebeccajo 14]

I hope your process doesn't take too long, and you're all together again soon.

[stevi1123 0]

I am sorry for your separation, but Lord willing, it will only be a short and temporary situation. I pray that you are reunited very, very soon. This process is really trying at times, but I believe we are a rare breed here. God Bless You and your beautiful family.

[Mina76 0]

Yes, it is so very hard to separate from your loved ones even tempoaray

I just hope that your separation will be a short one and that you will be with you family soon, Keep Faith in GOD.

[bora bora 1]

It's tough, but well worth it in the end...

[Corey-Mariya 14]

This will be my last post here in Calgary. Tomorrow morning I leave my baby and fiancee. My heart is broken right now. It has been four wonderful months together. I saw my baby being born and woke up every morning next to Portia and my daughter Miyah. This K-1 process has to be one of the hardest things to go through. After tomorrow Portia and I are back to phone calls and emails. The only thing we know is that one day this will be over with, but that one day can't come fast enough. So everyone who reads this...It's tough...very tough, but love...if it is true and strong can survive anything! I don't want to sound corny, but thanks to everyone who has read my post and replied back. It really means a lot to have support. God bless.

It is always very hard to leave a loved one! I know what your going through hang in there! Just recently came back from russia less then a week ago! Was there for over 2 months with my fiancee! Was so hard to leave! This was the second time I had to do this the first time was harder because I did not know when I would see her again! When I left this time I knew are interview date! Just stay busy and call them alot you can even text people 2 from different countries!

Take care

Hope everything works out