Why Women Gain Weight After Marriage?????

[jego ryu 0]

The journey from a proud Miss Perfect 10 clad in her wedding dress to a careless Mrs. Fat Aunt is not really long. It takes only twelve months for the whole makeover. It is a proven fact that women gain weight after marriage, and the process is so fast that it becomes obvious to people around you. But trust me! you are not as bothered as you were before marriage. In fact you are really contented with the idea that you don't have to leave your bed early in the morning for an exercise or sacrifice your favourite dessert to cut down calorie intake. Although your size has increased from 10 to 14 then 18, after marriage you just want yourself let go. Nevertheless, you do not really like the idea that someone would call you Mrs. Fat Aunt, do you?

Common! Marriage does not mean that you do not have to look attractive anymore. In fact, to keep the electric attraction ongoing and keep your hubby glued to you, your looks matter a lot. Now, do I have to give reasons for the statement?

Miss Perfect 10 to Mrs. Fat Aunt

So let us find out the factors that change your waist line from 10 to 18 within 6 to 12 months from marriage.

• You think you have found a partner for life, no need to attract him anymore.

• You need to let your hubby know that you are a good cook.

• You cook for the family, giving preference to their choice.

• You eat as much as your partner, talking and munching!

• You eat the left-over, trying not to waste food.

• Your partner encourages you to eat more showing that your extra fat is not going to turn him off.

• You want to be loved unconditionally, not happy with the marriage, feeling disrespected, rejected and unloved.

• Pregnancy occurs

Think about it…

The secured feeling you get out of marriage is playing devil….the reason why you are putting on weight. As you do not have to attract a partner any longer, you stop taking care of yourself. When the marriage ends (God forbid!) and you are out of your dream castle, you see the mirror and scream, "Oh-my-God!! What I have done to myself!! Look at me…I don't know the woman in the mirror". So, you decide to shed your extra pounds, its time for another partner hunt! But why should your broken marriage be the only enthusiasm for being in shape? Be practical and don't spoil what can be your life long asset, your desire for a good figure will give you a good healthy life style as well.

Cook food to make your husband happy, that's really good! But you should not repeat richest meals and the creamiest desserts every day if you do not want to see your waist line increasing. And please let me tell you…you need to eat according to your body requirement. Not as much as your husband is eating, he has a bigger body than yours, so he needs more than you. You, as woman tend to please others and your motherly instinct resulting in putting the needs of others before your own. Do not do it. You can set an example for them, giving a good diet and healthy life style. They will understand and be supportive. Again, you do not like uneaten food left on plates because you were taught to finish your meals. So do not serve food when not needed or you know it can go waste.

The next reason for your increasing waistline may be your hubby is encouraging you to eat more, so that you do not look attractive any more and so he will compete less. Do not give into his insecurity, take him along with your weight loss program, and let him understand that you also want to see him in shape and in good health.

Another reason is unhappy married life, studies show that couples who are happy, stay in shape than those who are not. The reason behind this, you tend to put your concentration more on food and find solace in eating and cooking whatever you feel like, to suppress your depression and frustration. Hey, for heaven's sake, change the idea of eating more!! This will cause you more depression in the long term.

And finally when pregnancy is knocking the door, you overeat during pregnancy and become too inactive, believing that you need to eat a lot more than you actually do and also you slow down and relax more than should. And the sudden hankering for special foods during this time only multiples the problem. Once you deliver the child, you stay at home putting the needs of your child and family before your own. Keep a close look on your weight gain during this period of time. If you gain more fat, you can have complexities during your child birth. Do light exercises as recommended by the doctor and eat healthy but do not overeat.

Stay fit for a successful married life ahead…

Life changes after marriage, you are more loved, more cared and more secured than ever. The first 12 months are the formative months for your marriage. Do not let it go. Staying fit will give you confidence to lay the foundation of your marriage, and at the same time you will remain attractive to your husband. If you put on weight, you only store trouble for the future.

link;http://ezinearticles.com/?Why-Women-Gain-Weight-After-Marriage?&id=170650

[*JG* 2]

Maybe we should start a thread like this about men as well.

[Nick/Nadia Bluma 0]

Maybe we should start a thread like this about men as well.

I second that........... Or about the exceptions to the "rule"

[Amby 490]

why the hell would my husband want me to not be attractive anymore? that's insane!

[AlHayatZween 2]

Maybe we should start a thread like this about men as well.

Thank you!

You are so much kinder than the thoughts going through my head right now.

[SaadBell 0]

You eat as much as your partner, talking and munching!

What is that, you can't eat as much as your partner, that is insane. That is sooooooooooooooooo 1950's, also rub the pigs feet, and starve yourself, so he will continue to find you hot. I think I just threw up in my mouth Sorry about getting crazy, but I know men who use that tired excuse to cheat and leave their marriage. Death to you part, unless she gets fat, than you can dump her.

[Sheriff Uling 3]

Maybe we should start a thread like this about men as well.

HATER! I bet you are upset that men look better as they age as well.

[franklie 0]

from personal experience and personal observation it appears to me that MEN more than women gain significant amounts of weight in the 1st year of marriage.

off topic slightly: women/girls that go away to college have a tendency to gain "the freshman 15", an additional 15lbs of lard that is difficult to later lose...

back to topic.

[The Red Baron 0]

Hell i gained weight to beat the band once i was married all the nice cooking ive been doing for my wife and not wanting to waste food so i eat it all and it is slowly coming off.

[AlHayatZween 2]

Maybe we should start a thread like this about men as well.

HATER! I bet you are upset that men look better as they age as well.

:lol:

Really? All men?

from personal experience and personal observation it appears to me that MEN more than women gain significant amounts of weight in the 1st year of marriage.

off topic slightly: women/girls (and men/boyz) that go away to college have a tendency to gain "the freshman 15", an additional 15lbs of lard that is difficult to later lose...

back to topic.

[almaty 19]

i can see this is a men hating thread...

stop the hate, ladies.....

[Nagishkaw 510]

I never understood why anyone ( men and women ) would just let themselves go after marriage.

[Ban Hammer 13,595]

i can see this is a men hating thread...

stop the hate, ladies.....

ah let them. it gives them a break from washing and ironing

[almaty 19]

[AlHayatZween 2]

i can see this is a men hating thread...

stop the hate, ladies.....

i'm sorry...

Almaty, let me start off by saying, i love your burro. if i have to live in Morocco, we are definitely getting a hemar (burro).

In addition, it is not a hate thread... Dude is the one that started it....

you can't be like, Ladies get off your fat be-hinds and quit stuffing your faces so you can look good for your man (who is prolly all big and fat cuz he's been eating all the fat, cream sauces, and desserts, etc....too.)

You can't say that and then not expect to have ladies get in an uproar--big and small--alike.