divorce, I-864, and abandonment questions.

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sooooo...sorry to interrupt your argument but basically I just withdrawl my support and that is that?

No. Just inform them that your marriage is terminating in divorce and that you do not wish to sponsor or remain active in his immigration process anymore.

Yes, that will do. When you tell them you do not wish to sponsor...they'll get the message you're withdrawing the affidavit of support. You see, you can't prevent your spouse from getting a green card by any other means available (few and far between) but you can protect yourself from being obligated as a sponsor. This is particularly important because the AOS case could get transferred to CSC and approved without further input from you.

I prefer and recommend focusing on the one candle in the cake that has the potential to explode, rather than using a broad wind that could fail to accomplish the primary objective.

As usual, we're just taking two different approaches, each of which will work just fine. Take your pick.

I must say, it's been a bit more interesting than debating the difference between maybe and maybe not.