The hard days....

[sunnybear 0]

Thanks Dave! Yeah it seems a great supportive place and I need that!

[Robyn-n-Kris 72]

VJ is amazing for support. I know I could not have gotten to the point i'm at without everyone here.. nor could i imagine going through this w/o everyone i've met here.

As for being best friends first.. Thats how Kris and I were.. We knew each other for quite awhile before we truly understood the true depth of our feelings and that we were meant to be together. Both my boys can't wait for him to return.

[americanlass 0]

Hang in there kiddo! It's so strange how it all plays itself out sometimes....I was on britishexpats and remembered you as we sent in our I-129F's around the same time(mine in Dec., yours in Jan I believe). It will hit you when it comes and I believe you sent yours into the CSC which means you will probably have your NOA2 very soon honey. I know this whole process is nerve racking and stressful as it's a lot of work, but a year from now it will be just a memory. Just hang it there and realize that it will all be happening before you know it, it's hard not to become paranoid and obsessive due to the fact that it involves your best friend and soul mate, believe me, I'm right there with you, but I know the wait will be worth it. Just try and be patient and ride the experience out and all will be fine. I believe you to be genuine people and you will make it! Keep us up to date with your advances darlin! Best of luck to you and I'll keep you in my prayers!!

[djaedi 0]

You have to think about the future lifetime you will have together!! Waiting sucks and everyone here misses their loved ones immensly. But when it is all said and done you won't even remember waiting to be together because you will have each other for life!! How awesome is that? The way we coped with the wait was we tried to do something everyday for us. Yes we talked on phone or computer or sent messages but Im saying start preparing things. Do something everyday for you both as a couple knowing that you will be together soon. One thing we did was mail real cards to each other every couple of days. It was fun to receive them every week. It felt good and made us feel closer. Nothing can stop the hurt of being apart but staying busy doing things for each helps!! Good luck and keep your chins up!! You will be together soon!!