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i've experienced this also at work when I am new with my job.. they will giggle behind my back and then when I turned .. they will keep quite

I just ignore them :) I keep on mind... hmmp! they are just envy to me, coz I a young, no experienced, fresh graduate and got the job right away :) hahaha they are bitter..

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Machiavelli personality test: http://www.salon.com/books/it/1999/09/13/machtest/

See how much of a jerk at work *you* are! :)

uh oh...

"you fondle my trigger then you blame my gun"

Timeline: 13 month long journey from filing to visa in hand

If you were lucky and got an approval and reunion with your loved one rather quickly; Please refrain from telling people who waited 6+ months just to get out of a service center to "chill out" or to "stop whining" It's insensitive,and unecessary. Once you walk a mile in their shoes you will understand and be heard.

Thanks!

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Machiavelli personality test: http://www.salon.com/books/it/1999/09/13/machtest/

See how much of a jerk at work *you* are! :)

uh oh...

I think I passed lol

I tend to respond to those coworkers a few ways:

At first I ignore it and find someone to vent to

If it continues.. unfortunatly I can become quite passsive aggressive.

My philosophy is this: I am nice,fair and a team player..but, if you insist on being a passive agressive back stabbing *&%.. then, ITS ON... and I will call 'em out at any chance I get.

I will fight for ppl that have my back, just dont cross me. :shrug: Just being honest

"you fondle my trigger then you blame my gun"

Timeline: 13 month long journey from filing to visa in hand

If you were lucky and got an approval and reunion with your loved one rather quickly; Please refrain from telling people who waited 6+ months just to get out of a service center to "chill out" or to "stop whining" It's insensitive,and unecessary. Once you walk a mile in their shoes you will understand and be heard.

Thanks!

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Machiavelli personality test: http://www.salon.com/books/it/1999/09/13/machtest/

See how much of a jerk at work *you* are! :)

uh oh...

I think I passed lol

I tend to respond to those coworkers a few ways:

At first I ignore it and find someone to vent to

If it continues.. unfortunatly I can become quite passsive aggressive.

My philosophy is this: I am nice,fair and a team player..but, if you insist on being a passive agressive back stabbing *&%.. then, ITS ON... and I will call 'em out at any chance I get.

I will fight for ppl that have my back, just dont cross me. :shrug: Just being honest

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May 7,2007-USCIS received I-129f
July 24,2007-NOA1 was received
April 21,2008-K-1 visa denied.
June 3,2008-waiver filed at US Consalate in Panama
The interview went well,they told him it will take another 6 months for them to adjudicate the waiver
March 3,2009-US Consulate claims they have no record of our December visit,nor Manuel's interview
March 27,2009-Manuel returned to the consulate for another interrogation(because they forgot about December's interview),and they were really rude !
April 3,2009-US Counsalate asks for more court documents that no longer exist !
June 1,2009-Manuel and I go back to the US consalate AGAIN to give them a letter from the court in Colon along with documents I already gave them last year.I was surprised to see they had two thick files for his case !


June 15,2010-They called Manuel in to take his fingerprints again,still no decision on his case!
June 22,2010-WAIVER APPROVED at 5:00pm
July 19,2010-VISA IN MANUELITO'S HAND at 3:15pm!
July 25,2010-Manuelito arrives at 9:35pm at Logan Intn'l Airport,Boston,MA
August 5,2010-FINALLY MARRIED!!!!!!!!!!!!
August 23,2010-Filed for AOS at the International Institute of RI $1400!
December 23,2010-Work authorization received.
January 12,2011-RFE

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I worked with one girl who was quite a sh!t disturber. She enjoyed causing chaos and living in chaos.

We went together on a Hair show cruise to Alaska (we are both hairstylists) One night after a few too many drinks- I ripped into her. All the stuff that had happened that I had "let slide" before all came bubbling up to the surface and I exploded. I'm not saying I am proud of my behavior that night but I do admit things changed after that.

We are actually pretty good friends now- last year she moved down the street from my parents house and we spent quite a bit of time together before my return to the US.

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I worked with one girl who was quite a sh!t disturber. She enjoyed causing chaos and living in chaos.

We went together on a Hair show cruise to Alaska (we are both hairstylists) One night after a few too many drinks- I ripped into her. All the stuff that had happened that I had "let slide" before all came bubbling up to the surface and I exploded. I'm not saying I am proud of my behavior that night but I do admit things changed after that.

We are actually pretty good friends now- last year she moved down the street from my parents house and we spent quite a bit of time together before my return to the US.

Hair show in Alaska,very interesting.

May 7,2007-USCIS received I-129f
July 24,2007-NOA1 was received
April 21,2008-K-1 visa denied.
June 3,2008-waiver filed at US Consalate in Panama
The interview went well,they told him it will take another 6 months for them to adjudicate the waiver
March 3,2009-US Consulate claims they have no record of our December visit,nor Manuel's interview
March 27,2009-Manuel returned to the consulate for another interrogation(because they forgot about December's interview),and they were really rude !
April 3,2009-US Counsalate asks for more court documents that no longer exist !
June 1,2009-Manuel and I go back to the US consalate AGAIN to give them a letter from the court in Colon along with documents I already gave them last year.I was surprised to see they had two thick files for his case !


June 15,2010-They called Manuel in to take his fingerprints again,still no decision on his case!
June 22,2010-WAIVER APPROVED at 5:00pm
July 19,2010-VISA IN MANUELITO'S HAND at 3:15pm!
July 25,2010-Manuelito arrives at 9:35pm at Logan Intn'l Airport,Boston,MA
August 5,2010-FINALLY MARRIED!!!!!!!!!!!!
August 23,2010-Filed for AOS at the International Institute of RI $1400!
December 23,2010-Work authorization received.
January 12,2011-RFE

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I scored 83.

About backstabbing co-workers, the best way to deal with co-workers in general is keep them totally away from you. Don't talk about your personal life, ignore small talk and try to only talk when extremely necessary, meaning, only when it's about work and it needs communication.



* K1 Timeline *
* 04/07/06: I-129F Sent to NSC
* 10/02/06: Interview date - APPROVED!
* 10/10/06: POE Houston
* 11/25/06: Wedding day!!!

* AOS/EAD/AP Timeline *
*01/05/07: AOS/EAD/AP sent
*02/19/08: AOS approved
*02/27/08: Permanent Resident Card received

* LOC Timeline *
*12/31/09: Applied Lifting of Condition
*01/04/10: NOA
*02/12/10: Biometrics
*03/03/10: LOC approved
*03/11/10: 10 years green card received

* Naturalization Timeline *
*12/17/10: package sent
*12/29/10: NOA date
*01/19/11: biometrics
*04/12/11: interview
*04/15/11: approval letter
*05/13/11: Oath Ceremony - Officially done with Immigration.

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